Popular Post lo**** Posted July 31 Popular Post While I would like to believe that there is a special perfect person out there for everyone, I more so believe life is just life. The tiniest decision can completely alter your day and who you interact with. Bigger decisions like moving across the country on a whim, not taking that new job opportunity, sticking with a high school sweetheart are things that could drastically prevent or delay you from ever meeting that perfect match. If we do have a soulmate, I believe most of us end up just trying to make it work with someone who might still be very compatible, but ultimately isn’t that perfect match. Strictly from a physical standpoint there is always going to be someone better looking, someone freakier, someone more this or that. Is the soulmate fantasy something we just tell ourselves to help sleep better at night? Or is it our choices of commitment that bring about its reality? You see some couples so perfectly attuned and obsessed with each other you cant help but think it was a bit predestined. Or is it just basic human nature to not want to be alone and cling to what we find comfortable and familiar?
Ne**** Posted July 31 Yes. The nature of the species, to want to be social + not alone + have community, family, others to care about them. I have no idea why some people are absolutely content and more in their partnerships. It boggles me. Am I simply greedy / unrealistic / damaged or whatever number of other things to even be satisfied? It's intoxicating to think there's another being who'd make me their world and such.... Considering this is fet, maybe we all should have slaves, subs, pets etc... 🤔😉💜
bi**** Posted July 31 No I believe that u have 3 great loves of ur life, the first one teaches u what love is, The second one, THIS IS WHERE U GET HURT and u find out what u don't like about love, and the third one hits u like a ton of bricks, there imperfection don't bother u , you actually will embrace their flaws, but that's just what I think, but on that note in my opinion what we do here isn't love, lol
Th**** Posted July 31 I think trying to figure it out without trying is futile. So, instead of asking if they exist. Try and find them. Maybe you will! Maybe you wont! But one thing is for sure, you are gonna fall in love and laugh and cry and build memories while you look. And THAT is life friend! 🩷☮️✌🏼
Fa**** Posted July 31 I believe in soulmates, but I also believe that we live in a fast paced society. A society that’s becoming harsher, we live no room for them to get close. And if you’re lucky and you find yours, your f*ars step up and hold you back. Sorry English is not my mother tongue I like your post ❤️
so**** Posted July 31 I believe as humans we have to not be alone. It's what we do. We crave intimacy it is scientifically proven that our bodies are actually healthier when we are connected to someone.
fi**** Posted July 31 i very much don't. but then, I'm RA CNM, so finding The One:tm: would be weird when im dating multiple women
Deleted Member Posted July 31 I’ve always thought the same; we all have a soulmate out there but we end up trying to make it work with someone who’s not a perfect match but still highly compatible
Deleted Member Posted July 31 Interesting topic. There are so many decisions a person makes in a day. You never know what could happen because of them.
Deleted Member Posted July 31 In my experience, soulmates and “twin flames” are a farce. They’re the manifestation of our idealistic hopes and unfair pressures we give our partners via those hopes/expectations. After experiences being ghosted, cheated on, and a seducer narcissist I’ve coming to realize the “soulmate” isn’t the one who stays. It’s the one who continually makes the efforts. Don’t sell me a fantasy, talk dirty with no game, or sell me on a future you can’t put in the work for. Even here I met a girl the other day. Vibe was great and then she ghost me and blocked me. Her loss, but I do suspect she was a dude catfishing. Point being, don’t find a soulmate. Find matched effort and communication.
Su**** Posted July 31 I believe there are soulmates. But I also believe that we may have more than one. Like people who have met their second soulmate after the passing of their first or divorcing their first.
wa**** Posted July 31 I believe in yet i know it’s by… going outsite meet new people and trying to expose himself in public yet i’m the kind of person who is afraid of anyone. Maybe i got trauma. Maybe i’m unsecure for no reason. Who knows yet i still trust in true love or soul mate i know i’m not perfect but i try everything to find someone i don’t know why but i need it :/. I feel ugly inside by thinking this but it’s the truth i want to love someone with all the love i can give so…. I’m sorry if i annoy anyone i knowi’m still not worth it for now yet i’m trying my best :)
al**** Posted July 31 So I’ve actually thought about this before. I believe we have multiple soulmates. Not just one. I believe this because I’ve met someone that was everything I dreamed of. We ended up instant friends with no awkwardness. I fell madly in love with him. But because of choices he had made in his life before we ever met, he was already married and so bitter he no longer believed in love. So does that mean I have to be alone for the rest of my life? No. I believe that somewhere out there I will meet another soul that will align with mine. Will I ever meet him? I’m not sure. Maybe I need to make one of those tiny decisions you mentioned to make my way to him. Or perhaps I will find someone that is a good person and cares about me and we can build that soulmate feeling into our relationship. Perhaps we can create a soulmate through hard work and devotion. I just know I’m not specifically searching for him. I only hope someday our paths cross and we recognize each other.
lu**** Posted July 31 I believe it is human instinct to not be alone. We have a feeling of loneliness, and that feeling stems from a certain part of us that we have put memories and emotions to. It is an emotion we feel. When looking at it from a past view, we had things simplilar according to history and the teachings. Was it actually like that? Probably not, but due to lack of evidence, it's hard to say. We had religion guiding us on what to essentially do and not do. We also look at people and see things some can't see. For example, a certain behavior that we remember or put stereotypes to or whatever we have that attracts us to that person. Also, evolutionary wise, we have trained ourselves to a way of doing things. Sometimes, those feelings are strong because of lust or love, and some people are too stubborn to give up. I think some do think that it exists so that we are able to comfort ourselves. And some people just keep searching until they manage to find that person but it also depends on how willing they are to find the traits down or to get ourselves together maturely and to be self aware and emotionally mature on what people need to actively work on as well. Some get it, and some dont. I believe we all try to live by some morals and degree of how things should and shouldn't be. Through time they explore or find they like certain things and it just isn't good enough eventually and dopamine hop. But the theory of it does exist and theres multiple theories that people have as well through different cultures. It hasn't necessarily been proven yet either so we cant support nor deny this. I apologize if I rambled on lol
Bo**** Posted July 31 I believe in soulmates, I know that it sounds impossible but I am a silly romantic
va**** Posted July 31 I think any two people that are physically attracted to each other and are mentally aware and willing to accept each other and be *** enough to explore genuine trust and friendship can be soulmates it's self image and social image and pride with humility that block love in its true form when you make your mate your person your BEST friend nothing will interrupt your future of giggles tickles matching jumpsuits and kids laughing at you smooching on your 59th anniversary. That's the American dream right a person to spend a lifetime with that trusts u charges you and gets hit by you and shares in all your freaks and faults with nothing but u judgemental acceptance and encouragement whilst getting down like a pornstar lol idk that the way I see it.
al**** Posted July 31 Everyone COULD be a soul mate. It just depends on how much work someone is willing to put into it.
Strait8jacket Posted August 1 I think soulmates exist is different ways. You could has friends that are soulmates. You connect with them in ways you wouldn’t ever imagine.
an**** Posted August 1 Used to but i swore my ex of 16 years was my soul mate and I would've bet my life on it. Sadly she destroyed me and im just trying to move on.
vi**** Posted August 1 I like to believe in soul mates. My senior year of high school i dated a girl. She was a couple years older, had a baby girl and recently lost her boyfriend. She wasn't looking for a relationship so we just became friends. A month later we were on love and dating. When we broke up 2 years later I was completely heartbroken. Fast forward 10 years and we started talking as friends again like nothing ever happened. She was recently separated from her husband and I was 2 years married. Even though we aren't together, we would still do anything for the other. We talked about being soul mates and we are hoping to have a whole life time together
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