Ne**** Posted August 1 I'd also like to offer the Gaelic concept of Anam Cara = "Soul Friend"; deep, spiritual bond between [two] people (don't see why this couldn't refer to multiples as well!) As a non-mono/theoretically Polyam sort, I like the notion of deep bonds but not always do I think it's a romantic, sexual, [only ONE] "soulmate" situation..even when head over heels..
Ba**** Posted August 1 I am pretty sure there is to an extent. I dated a girl in college that I was absolutely in no doubt about it in love with, but we wound up going our separate ways and recently, came back into communication with. Her in California, me in Tennessee... Blah blah blah, long and boring story short is that... We honestly manifest our realities. Ever thought about a person you haven't seen or heard of in quite some time? And a few days or maybe weeks later they call you out of the blue or maybe pop-ups in your life some way? I can tell you this, it's true and it happens every day to people. This girl and I would always see and/or find each other out on the streets. Example: we would pass each other on the road one day, and we would pull over and get back together or have a short fling... whatever. But we would have a thought about the other one one day or something previous of that encounter at some point... And Bam... there they are. I hate to sound like one of those New Age Hippies (I honestly partially despise that type of people because they seem just so "Cringe" to me with that type of life... still I Digress, but it still happens to this very day. In the long run, we manifest our realities. But that bond we have either with a previous special person, possibly a best friend, lover, or someone you had a brief acquaintance with in the past. I suggest looking up "Heisenberg Observer Effect", it can also be scientifically proven. But it's "Your Universe", take what I said with a grain of salt if you want... just thought I'd throw my two cents in with this one! Smoke yourself a nice Fat Doobie and just ponder about for a few seconds.
Ba**** Posted August 1 There is no edit button: These "Connections" that we can make with others whether it be minuscule or a truly deep one in our lives. Some may call some of those peoples who are as simple as "That one guy we ran into the other day... sure was a cool dude" to someone considered a "soulmate".
my**** Posted August 1 Deadpool and the curvy edges makes the most sense to me. All of us have these edges. Fractures that are broken so specifically and when we try to match with another sometimes we ignore fissures or one side holds on trying to make the pieces fit. Some people make it last a lifetime using one means of sealant or another to bond the two misshapen pieces together. Religion, family, or even making yourself so malleable that you can fit any other piece. Soulmates are when your fractures are complemented by your partners so perfectly that it’s effortless to keep the two parts together. I don’t believe this happens only once in a lifetime. I believe it might not ever happen, or it could happen a few times. I just think so many of us spend our lives trying to make the pieces fit, even when we know they don’t, that we miss opportunities for the correct pieces.
Deleted Member Posted August 2 I think there are different kinds of soulmates for the different stages we are at in life. I think if a person is settled in themselves and find someone who is the same, they will find the soulmate that is already in them and be like the couples you described
Ta**** Posted August 2 15 hours ago, mythicalman said: Deadpool and the curvy edges makes the most sense to me. All of us have these edges. Fractures that are broken so specifically and when we try to match with another sometimes we ignore fissures or one side holds on trying to make the pieces fit. Some people make it last a lifetime using one means of sealant or another to bond the two misshapen pieces together. Religion, family, or even making yourself so malleable that you can fit any other piece. Soulmates are when your fractures are complemented by your partners so perfectly that it’s effortless to keep the two parts together. I don’t believe this happens only once in a lifetime. I believe it might not ever happen, or it could happen a few times. I just think so many of us spend our lives trying to make the pieces fit, even when we know they don’t, that we miss opportunities for the correct pieces. I like this comment. I just see it as something way less common. Those near-perfect connections are so rare in my eyes, it's like getting rich or famous - incredible luck. Most of us will have to compromise a lot, it might work or not. Myself, I have edges, fissures and so on leading to different forbidden dimensions, I don't think there are a lot of matches for me to make, and I don't like to bend myself to fot to someone to not be alone. But I am happy for the few people who luck out in this regard.
Deleted Member Posted September 21 Soul mates come with you throughout your lifetime. Like the weather, you will have seasons in your life we're one or more people can/could have been you're soul mate. We've all had many loves in your lives . However , there are special people who could be that seasons soul mate. Your first soul mate could have been your best friend , the first person who really saw you for you. Your second soul mate could have been the love of your life in college that sadly, your relationship was cut short due to death. Your third love of your life could be your *** who made you hole again after almost dying of a broken heart. Fourthly, your soul mate could be waiting out there for you, but you feel so stuck inside yourself that you are afraid to take a leap of faith and let someone else in . Who could possibly break your heart or turn your world upside down .
Sl**** Posted September 24 I believe in Soul Mates, but it requires WORK!! It isn't like the Disney Versions where little work or only stuff early on gets you Happily Ever After. You may find someone Great, but doesn't mean they're The One. Premarital Counseling is essential. There's a lot of things that are fun or tolerable early on, that get annoying later. Things like raising kids. Etc.
ma**** Posted yesterday at 05:07 AM 'Soulmates' is a term given to people whos frequencies complement each other in such a way they harmonize when in proximity. The two can easily and readily resonate as a result and they should be able to do it for life, unconditionally. Everyone has more than one soulmate.
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