✨BOSTON ("USA"-Mod edit, the site is worldwide)✨ area ***ps

[di****]

Anyone have a pulse and are from the area? Mostly, I'm curious about munches and connecting with people (with clothes on!!) for munches and meetups focusing on friendship. FetLife is truly a bit of a landmine.

I've done the BTNG munches and while I love that there are spaces for younger people to find themselves, it's just not a crowd I can relate to anymore, even if I haven't aged out just yet. The Poly and Kinky munch seems to have stopped existing since Covid -- as much as I'd love to attend an event like that, I really don't have the energy to lead and manage it.

It really sucks that clubs aren't legal in MA. While club environments surely have their problems, it'd still be another kind of structured event for people to meet. And let's be honest, the fact that play parties are held by individuals only lends itself to abus*s in power -- even if I do understand and appreciate the risk.

Edited August 25, 2025 by FETMod-RG
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[di****]

Why'd you gotta go head and censor me like that, FET? I literally just used the word "***ps" 😭😂 p e e p s !!

[fo****]

i’d love to be involved in a meetup like that. i feel like i socialize better in person, apps don’t give me much to work with. also i like a nice friends to lovers trope, i feel like it works well.

[Deleted Member]

There are tons of munches (kinky people meeting up in vanilla spaces to chill and hang out) in the area and from there you can get invited to private parties. You’ll need to be vetted so start building community through attending munches and make sure you’re an ethical, consensual and safe person. I go to a few each month. There is also ManRay first and third Friday in Central Sq Cambridge. It’s a dance club but they have a small dungeon in the back from 10:30-1:30 where a Domme does demos. I’ll be there on 9/19 Domming🤭🤭 Also a lot of ppl travel to NH and RI which is about 1 hr away north and south from Boston. Dandy’s in Hudson MA (requires vetting) There is a munch today in Cambridge from 6-9 a mile from Alewife/Harvard. Message me and I’ll give you the details

[Th****]

Would love to attend those as well

[DPalmz]

I went to an SMBC munch earlier this week. It was a nice time, I would definitely recommend checking them out.