Moments a Dom Made You Feel Seen

[Deleted Member]

For those who enjoy D/s dynamics, what is one subtle way a Dom has made you feel truly seen and appreciated outside of play?

[a7****]

Gentle care!

[Da****]

From the mouth of one of my subbies. We took a shower together after and then I washed their hair and soaped them up and cleaned them up.

[Wi****]

Yes!! The care. I love how he uses me. We both do. But what is truly special to me is the small things. He always remembers how I like my eggs. He towels me off after a shower (I always miss my back and hardly bother with my legs). He remembers to reapply my sunscreen when we have a day on the lake. He once stopped play to give me a massage when he noticed me wincing in p*in. I would have been good for him through the p*in, but he dislikes my *** unless he gives it to me personally.

[fu****]

It's the after care you need to be willing to not only clean up the sloppy mess created but there is nurturing needed too cuddles, kisses, soft touches and sweet words are all things I'll do. Then there are the others who just need their hair pulled coked and spanked. Some want both.

[ab****]

Bit of a give and take, so after a session I got up and grabbed my subs favourite plush just so they could cuddle it while we cuddled and talked together for a bit

[Co****]

Affirmaion

[Ha****]

Even though he’s up before the sun, he made me stay in bed and rest. When I finally got up, my coffee was waiting, my plate already fixed. I loved the quiet way he claimed those mornings as his, making sure I felt cared for without me lifting a finger

[Ki****]

Noticing my anxiety levels and picking up on things that help, without me telling him, and doing those things automatically. Taking ideas i throw it in my little adhd excitement tangents and getting them started or done. Basically getting the princess treatment, or so it felt.

[He****]

Its so simple but when they refill my water for me after a scene. It makes me feel seen and valued and appreciated

[Ta****]

Gently coaxing me to eat after not eating all day and still having no desire too.

[Co****]

I have autism. I can’t use large silverware. We were at an expensive steakhouse and they had large forks. I was panicking internally. He looked at the forks and asked the waitress for a different set. I’ve never felt so loved. -M

[Deleted Member]

Getting me a coffee and hugging me from behind just because while at a munch,

[Ro****]

When he notices things that others don't even take the time to quantify. I'm stoic to some, but he actually noticed my tells. That made me feel noticed in the good way when he does his subtle ways to acknowledge that.

[Submissive_summer]

When my Dominant makes it clear that my worth and value is not tied to what I do for him... but instead who I am as a person

[Deleted Member]

The moments he takes out to indulge my childish side.

[Ki****]

He learned to wax me lol I didn’t even know about it until he told me to spread my legs.

[Deleted Member]

Conversation. Connection. The fact he can counsel with patience and respect.

[Me****]

He took my picture while I was admiring a ***ting at an art gallery. No posing. I didn’t even know about the picture until I was scrolling through his pics on his phone (approved by him btw). It was so innocent and made me feel like he truly loved me and adored me.

[Li****]

He intently listens to me when we talk and smiles the whole time I speak. His simple jesters like holding my hand when we are together his hand on my thigh. It is the little things he does that make me feel seen and appreciated.