Simple question 🙋‍♀️

[da****]

Control

[sa****]

Being able to give up control and let your dom guide the way whether it be in your day to day life or sexually in the bedroom.

[Dr****]

The trust for sure!

[tr****]

Just the feeling of having someone’s control in your hands

[Deleted Member]

Dom - I love inflicting pleasure on the sub by make the decisions of what to do and their eagerness to submit to them. Yes I say inflict bc most have a ***/pleasure dynamic. For *** aspect I look for subtle indications it’s getting too close to a limit or *** threshold and then go back to pleasure as if a reward.

Sub - I love the emotional feeling of someone wants to do these things to me. They want to instill pleasure or take enjoyment in making me suffer a bit. The feeling of “they want to do whatever the fuck they want to me”.

[va****]

It's the punishment I love the punishment

[DeviantInside]

Hmmm… it’s that moment when I know I have hooked onto something that unlocks a moment where they let go or their mind is blown. Where you can watch their body freeze and shiver. Where the mind goes blank and gives in to the moment. Whatever it is. I love that moment.

[DeviantInside]

38 minutes ago, BBCfromNigeria said:

The trust of submission to be honest. Takes something for someone to submit to you like that and I like it.

Agree with this… there is something special about feeling I have done something to earn that trust.

[Ro****]

Being able to surrender completely and knowing I will be cared for

[Deleted Member]

52 minutes ago, Daddy-74 said:

The best thing about being a Dom, the trust the sub puts in your hands.

I love that!

[Deleted Member]

52 minutes ago, Tallboy90 said:

I think being able to hear someones interests and intrigues out, and form plans to help them explore and have the fun they and i want is fun, and depending on comfort and trust, the opertunities are endless.
I think when a sub is comfortable enough to tell you everything even the "embarassing" kinks lol

that’s so true ❤️❤️

[Deleted Member]

52 minutes ago, sissyJessie2 said:

Giving up complete control to the dom and following their every desire. Really helps having my clitty locked too hehe

Oh cool! I didn’t even know a clit could be locked

[Be****]

My favorite thing is orgasm control......and for someone to just Str8 up submit to you and feel safe is an amazing feeling

[Deleted Member]

Tbh, the connection

[Deleted Member]

The structure of the relationship.

[Deleted Member]

It's the vulnerability of being a sub. Knowing that you can trust your Dom. It's not always an easy place to get to, but it's worth it when it's right. I love feeling safe and secure. The sub-space is my favorite place

[yo****]

The best part of being a dom is when you tell them to do something they do it

[14****]

Convincing you to flash people

[Da****]

For me it’s the respect and trust that goes into having that bond. Something sexy and powerful about it

[Ko****]

The sub space is an amazing experience.

[Lo****]

Sex

[Pdx1971Mr]

Trust.. watching accomplishment sink.

[Di****]

Sub serve deserve respect and if she get it the puppy eyes tell everything

[Deleted Member]

Everything! Ruling over my kingdom protecting and serving what's mine. ALL GOOD GARDENERS OF LIFE REAP WHAT THEY SOW

[In****]

I see a lot of people saying it’s the trust or the feeling of being needed, but for me… I just love seeing the look on a subs face and the desperation in their voice as they beg me to let them cum and the look and intensity of their orgasm when they finally do.