Simple question 🙋‍♀️

[Deleted Member]

What’s your favorite thing about being a dom/sub?

[Deleted Member]

Being tied up

[Da****]

The best thing about being a Dom, the trust the sub puts in your hands.

[Deleted Member]

Probably the fact I can shut my brain off and obey

[Deleted Member]

I think being able to hear someones interests and intrigues out, and form plans to help them explore and have the fun they and i want is fun, and depending on comfort and trust, the opertunities are endless.
I think when a sub is comfortable enough to tell you everything even the "embarassing" kinks lol

[si****]

Giving up complete control to the dom and following their every desire. Really helps having my clitty locked too hehe

[Cremes]

The control

[SH****]

My favorite thing is having things as comply or goodbye wit subs

[mr****]

Id say the satisfaction of knowing I used my sub so well that she got pleasure from the *** she endured. And the aftercare.

[Herozinne]

I am a highly intelligent human being, which in a way hates humans, so by women's giving themselves to me, I earn total control, rather then going into politics or power dynamics, for me is the suave feeling of control over a women

[Deleted Member]

For me personally having a connection enhances the experience.

[Deleted Member]

I love the way im looked at, the way im talked to. The way im looked at for advice. I love punishing/rough play and love to end it by being the sweetest. I just love the responsibility of taking care of somebody so delicate and pretty.

[Mi****]

Honestly, it’s the trust. Knowing someone chooses to give me that side of themselves, and I get to take care of them while also pushing their limits—that’s powerful

[il****]

taking care of my sub!

[Wa****]

Being relied on. And having the ability to take hold of the world and fall asleep with it every night. Having a representative of life that expresses they need me. And I will crave space for them. Being a dom is a lot of having a purpose.

[Ch****]

The trust of submission to be honest. Takes something for someone to submit to you like that and I like it.

[Po****]

Earning the trust and submission of another is a feeling like no other.

[We****]

As a Dom, the ability to create a safe space to explore our kinks or areas of interest in a safe, honest, and respectful manner is what brings me fulfillment.

It truly makes me happy when a sub says “Sir, I’ve been interested in xyz.” And it’s with no shame, because I created that environment. Then we dive into the subject and decide what it would look like to explore that interest.

[MKDom]

Control, structure, deep trust & vulnerability growth.

[Deleted Member]

Intimacy closeness respect

[Vi****]

I love the taboo of giving control to a strong dominant woman

[Ho****]

The mix between being controlling one minute to being controlled the next 😋 It is also fun to see whose side will come out on top if we try to be both in either Dom/Sub 🤭

[Wt****]

Knowing that I earned a high level of trust to push their limits. The ability to take them on a emotional rollercoaster and then be there to hold and care for them as they come back down.

[Deleted Member]

I like connecting with someone in a non-traditional way, and I feel it creates a deeper bond.
Coming from a childhood of trauma, i like having control.
And i like understanding someone to the point of knowing how their body will react with each touch, word, and thrust.

[Sw****]

Finding guys to be completely open with without judgement and exploring each others kinks and limits and the thrill of being able to control his orgasm.