Dating..?

[Br****]

Some people just don't date.thats a thing.

[NO****]

Dates are a regular thing with me even after committing to a relationship

[88****]

Some people would rather meet then being a pen pal

[Deleted Member]

I just get ghosted on here all the time or I get a lazy “no thanks” default message that’s why I don’t bother anymore.

[Po****]

Do you mean people you talk to on vanilla apps?

[Be****]

Can’t avoid ghosting culture these days. It’s just one of those implicit things you agree to when dealing with people online

[showmeurtds]

Very good point about being friends first. I can actually say the majority of my women I took out on a date, we were friends first. Like someone else mentioned it takes a lot of trust and faith to go out on a date with someone you barely know. Especially in today’s society with social media, internet and any other social network where you see so many bad things happening. I just think overall, people’s trust, faith and respect in other people is very low.

[wa****]

Sometimes we have to look at the other sides view of the picture. What are you bringing to the relationship? What will I add to this person's life? Will I make them happier or be a burden? We all ask what will the other person be like to live with, and we all see ourselves as a positive, but we all have negatives. You wouldnt date a loser, why would they?

[Ba****]

Its not just here...ill hav great conversations sum u can tell r bots by over enthusiasm but still...i get more hookers, bots n Nigerians wantin *** than anything real...i do my checks im still hot enuff to get followed at wally world but if thy cant quik txt purposefully mak i n txt errrs then they ant rel

[Bo****]

See I prefer dates but to many people nowadays refer to as dates as a *** bracket. In terms of how much is spent or date is taken place. I planned a picnic date on the water during a sunset and got told that was stupid. She wanted me to take her to Olive Garden or some shit. Like when did a picnic date become a shameful thing ?

[Deleted Member]

Y'all acting so regal on these comments but neglecting you're on fet life is crazy, this isnt Christians meet

[Ja****]

I'm good with a date but, as you said, girls tend to ghost or just leave me on read indefinitely

[ok****]

I would love to be asked out on a date, but due to my circumstances, it would be embarrassing to say yes. Rather than ghost someone, I am always open and explain what's going on, which usually leads me to be ghosted. LoL. It seems these days that dating in person or online is hard with people appearing to have so many choices. No one wants to put any effort into trying with just one person. It is easier to just give up at the first sign of difficulty and try with someone else. I'm guilty of doing it myself but not to try with a different person but just because I am happy being alone.

[Da****]

Yes constantly. I like taking people out or being taken out. Whether that is a date or an assassin depends on the day 😂

[an****]

Yeah theres something who still do. Ive been on 1 date in the past year and 2 meetings i either get through the first date or meeting and im blocked idk why im a perfect gentleman I give them my full undivided attention and apparently its not enough. Wtf do women want! Im sick of this shit.

[Deleted Member]

I have been to dates before but it's rare. Not because people haven't asked me but I have a lot going on. So I can't go most of the time. I'm taking a pause on dating right now because of it. But once everything is settled down, then I resume dating.

[wa****]

Its probably a local thing, try talking to people farther away.

[Deleted Member]

Dating isn’t dead. But most people have forgotten what it’s supposed to feel like.

Presence always exposes performance. And that’s why so many ghost... not because they’re busy, but because being truly seen is terrifying if you’re not ready for it.

Real dating isn’t a dopamine hit. It’s a frame. It’s setting the table and saying,
I see you. I want to know you. Let’s step into the same space and see if this connection can hold.

When I feel that current with someone, I don’t leave it vague.
I choose the place.
I choose the time.
Not to rush... but to anchor the moment.

If they vanish, good. That’s the filter at work.

Because when someone is ready for depth, they don’t run from presence they move toward it.

And when they do, that’s where the real experience begins.
Not the performance.
Not the endless texting.
But the moment where silence is full, where breath slows, where connection turns ordinary space into something charged.

Dating still exists.
It just takes two people willing to stand in that stillness long enough to see if the gravity pulls them closer… or pushes them apart.

[On****]

Not from this App lol 💀

[Ju****]

Some are just in it for a hook up or ONS.

[Do****]

I am one who is in it for real life experiences. If we chat, you better be ready to meet within a reasonably short amount of time. We should all be ready to at least meet. It is counterintuitive to kinky behavior to hide behind the keyboard.

[bu****]

Doesn't feel like it

[ke****]

Yes absolutely I date my wife all the time in fact we have one next weekend going to see Adam Sandler , I'm taking the entire family out for Thanksgiving date night are must haves

[ke****]

Also just take the ghosting as the universe getting the wrong people out of your life fast

[Ed****]

I f**king love dating.

Just be upfront about it. "Hey I wanna have a meal together, go for a walk or a picnic, and talk for a while. And then I'm going home without you. And then we are going to really want each other more. Isn't that anticipation just delicious?"