Dating..?

[Kymoeguy]

I am old, and, apparently, not schooled properly in this day and age, but I like a date, even just coffee! Conversation, eye contact, laughing, body language...I am old, but I miss it!

[ta****]

Would love to go on a date. Problem is finding someone to go on one with

[Dr****]

Dates happen, this site isn't really set up to find dates. It's set up to find like minded individuals and events, as well as advice and information. If your looking to meet people here for more serious relationships, I would start going to munches etc... Direct meetups on a fetish site now are generally expected to be instant or temporary, people think everyone is desperately trying to fill a kinky need or something. Just meeting people here you will have to get really lucky to get more slowly developing relationships.

[Ox****]

I've had the same experiences. So based on that, I'd say ghosting is the new norm.

[Ha****]

I would love to go on a date. This generation is fried asf tho… They would rather text or play mind games 😂

[bi****]

Sadly it is a rare thing for women to find. A lot of women want connection and fewer men do so when men want that connection they find it easier and quicker then we do normally. Also if your overly attractive most people only want to have sex and if your not the most attractive people only want sex it seems.

[dr****]

This app seems to be very much so not for people who are serious about dating our about their health to many people I've run in to on here are with multiple people and don't feel the need to disclose that

[Cu****]

I haven't dated in 6 years. Recently signed up to a few apps to change that and things have changed a lot in those 6 years!
Guys expecting women to rock up at their place with no thought for a woman's safety etc.
For me to want to be intimate with someone, I need to get to know them and build trust. Especially as non-vanilla is new to me, I'm trying to step outta my comfort zone but I will not compromise my safety to do so.
Finding I get ghosted after saying this, but that's cool as those men aren't the kind I'd want to be intimate with TBH so at lesst they see themselves out.

[hi****]

Don't know. Still haven't gotten to the part where people respond. /shrug

[Er****]

I feel that. Ive made plans with some to actually have a date night, home made dinner, movie, possibly a board game and such.

[Fu****]

I don't think you're missing anything. You're finding out the easy way who's worth your time and who isn't.

[Deleted Member]

I want date. But guess it's not what everyone wants.

[Ki****]

I agree, don't waste a lot of time texting or messaging. Meet, see if there is chemistry, discuss wants/needs/desires, repeat if necessary

[Pa****]

If we live close I’d definitely wanna go on dates

[Bu****]

I love dating

[Ki****]

Dating is non-negotiable to me. I absolutelt would not do anything kinky or sexual with someone unless we got to know each other over a few dates like a normal couple. So yeah, there are people out there who want to date.

[Ki****]

Absolutely*

[Fa****]

That’s how most men my age feel in the dating scene now lol.

[Dr****]

I like going to the movies on a date or the local arcade

[Deleted Member]

Men on mine just want a quick f###. I don’t think people understand what dating is!!!

[re****]

No one on here is serious about meeting anyone. People just want to look at pictures. But that’s it really. Don’t take it personal because it’s really not. It’s just a bunch of pretenders. 🤷‍♀️

[Dr****]

10 hours ago, hiramcouple said:

Don't know. Still haven't gotten to the part where people respond. /shrug

I know alot of people will put you instantly on the "not serious" or even "potentially dangerous" lists if you don't have photos that are real of yourself. (even blurring your face is better than stock photos and memes, if your worried about privacy or the wrong person seeing you on the site)

[Gy****]

Yer, sadly to many people want to rush to the finish line and forget the art of the date to get to know a person and see if you match on compatibility

[De****]

You’re on a smashing, link up site/app. I don’t think this is used to date.. just sex and fetishes or whatever. Hop on a different app if you’re looking for a relationship.

[hi****]

3 hours ago, Dragonownsphoenix said:

I know alot of people will put you instantly on the "not serious" or even "potentially dangerous" lists if you don't have photos that are real of yourself. (even blurring your face is better than stock photos and memes, if your worried about privacy or the wrong person seeing you on the site)

We have that on the private gallery