Finding others who do edge/extreme play

[wo****]

It's been difficult. I know I don't have a whole lot of luck finding people close to me/with the exact same kinks that I do, but it seems that finding anyone into edgeplay on here is impossible. Is there somewhere else I'll be more successful other than tumblr?

[Mr****]

I get the feeling

[ho****]

I love edging it's one of my favorite ways to get off 30-45 minutes... If I can stand it

[sardonicus87]

2 minutes ago, honktouah22 said:

I love edging it's one of my favorite ways to get off 30-45 minutes... If I can stand it

Edging is NOT edge play.

[sardonicus87]

Also, if you find where tf all the edge players are, let me know. People keep swearing masochists are out there, yet everyone I talk to, the censored p-word that rhymes with rain (which, that doesn't help at all when you can't even talk about what you're into because it's censored) is a hard limit and their idea of "extreme" is sex with the lights on.

[ta****]

Edgers unite! This is officially our support group ahahah

[Ka****]

21 minutes ago, sardonicus87 said:

Edging is NOT edge play.

Exactly

[ho****]

I understand now

[Cade]

Speaking from my own experiences here, many kinks that are seen as extreme or edge play are simply not allowed to be talked about. Hell, even just basic s/m is difficult to discuss with the censorship that hinders effective communication of the basic ideas.

[Se****]

Not just edge play, I know a few friends who have difficulty having spontaneous conversations here. Either you get DMs from scammers or hi hello,bye. Lol

[Sp****]

I've been on here for less than 2 weeks, and most of the people (dudes) I've talked to are into some form of edgeplay or at least boundary pushing. Problem is that a lot of them seem to try to push boundaries right out of the gate and do not show care or respect or make an effort to get to know someone.

Now, some people might be into edgeplay without vetting, but that ain't me. No trust means no fun.

[Qu****]

Best bet is to find your local community and get involved. I do fire play, I took classes, helped out. Now I do some of the teaching & demo bottom. I'm building out an electro group in the same space. Don't just show up to a dungeon, be a part of it.

[Al****]

I think part of the issue is expectations. While you may be comfortable accepting the risks associated with random people, most require trust as a fundamental part of intimacy. Perhaps it would work best to keep some thoughts about how others interact to a low expectation until proven otherwise.

[br****]

I'm down for watever

[Um****]

12 hours ago, AlexStormOffical said:

I think part of the issue is expectations. While you may be comfortable accepting the risks associated with random people, most require trust as a fundamental part of intimacy. Perhaps it would work best to keep some thoughts about how others interact to a low expectation until proven otherwise.

Well said