ey**** Posted October 18 Everyone to some degree has a "they wouldn't be interested in me" perspective at times (not including obvious times when they wouldn't) which can sometimes be a little about esteem. But is certainly better than an "everyone SHOULD be interested in me" complex
th**** Posted October 18 I think everyone is hard on themselves. No one is immune to negativity from their own mind. We are our own worst enemies and no matter how many times I’ve been told I’m beautiful, we still pick our selves apart. I was bullied growing up, talking about it is new for me. Finding out I’m into Dom/cuck relationships really gave me the trust and empowerment I needed. I think girls don’t give men a chance to be *** so it’s easy for some women to complain their men don’t have empathy. I think men are great and usually high in the empathy path. It just shows up different from a woman who is by society always scene as “nurturing”. So can a man be too attractive? Is in itself a vein question by putting people on an unfair pedestal that, I personally, would never want to be put on as a woman. Attractiveness starts with kindness for me.
ja**** Posted October 18 Author 16 hours ago, JakeBakeman said: So that's what my problem is... I am learning to come to terms with it too
Re**** Posted October 18 Yes. Like a beautiful woman whom folks know they are out of their league... same for the men. It's pretty bias. I experience it with employment all the time.
ms**** Posted October 22 honestly, yeah, if a guy is too attractive, I don’t wanna have sex with him or even interact with him because personally I feel like he gets a lot of attention already so what would my attention matter and because of my own personal insecurities so.
co**** Posted October 27 It's how no one approaches the hottest women unless they're so drunk they have no chance. I think so, I see the kinda unattractive men they chose to settle with here
Co**** Posted October 28 I had a partner breakup with me cause they told me I was too attractive and that all my friends were too good looking 🤷🏽♂️
th**** Posted November 1 Well it also depends, those that are attracted to some more than others. And what's attractive to one is not necessarily attracted to another especially when there's an underlying tone of entitlement or I know I'm that kind of hot LOL
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