Any other couples struggling to find a woman?

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Since you’re interested in experiences instead of relationships; you need to approach it like you’re looking for a sex worker. What’s in it for her? Performing for 2 people is a lot of work. Being attracted to both people in a couple is extremely rare. It’s why it’s better to find someone that isn’t it for anything else but compensation. I don’t think most couples realize how outright predatory unicorn hunting comes off, regardless of which part of the couple is leading it.

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6 hours ago, sardonicus87 said:

And just to be clear, I am not saying you are swingers, I am saying if anyone is, though I did misunderstand what you said at first.

We are not, but that's a common question we get asked. She primarily wants a gf, i primarily want her happy. I don't need to be physical with her, involve myself with their smexy times, watch, or be in the room. I can play with the dogs or watch TV. Wouldn't object to it either.

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13 hours ago, hiramcouple said:

We are not, but that's a common question we get asked. She primarily wants a gf, i primarily want her happy. I don't need to be physical with her, involve myself with their smexy times, watch, or be in the room. I can play with the dogs or watch TV. Wouldn't object to it either.

If that's the case - then she'd be far better off setting up a single profile and searching on her own - if you're not even going to be involved in any way, the couples profile simply won't work.

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17 hours ago, hiramcouple said:

We are not, but that's a common question we get asked. She primarily wants a gf, i primarily want her happy. I don't need to be physical with her, involve myself with their smexy times, watch, or be in the room. I can play with the dogs or watch TV. Wouldn't object to it either.

yep. remove yourself from all equations.  She can set up a singles profile stating she is married, poly, and specifically looking for a girlfriend. 

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It’s a tough subject for many. It’s difficult I guess. Most don’t like sharing but it seems like everyone likes playing apart or non monogamous relationships.

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22 hours ago, gemini_man said:

If that's the case - then she'd be far better off setting up a single profile and searching on her own - if you're not even going to be involved in any way, the couples profile simply won't work.

Tried that but she has less game than Stevie Wonder playing Pong 😞

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6 hours ago, hiramcouple said:

Tried that but she has less game than Stevie Wonder playing Pong 😞

if she cannot find a partner as a single profile, she won't be able to via a couples profile.