Popular Post Bad_girls_pussy Posted October 23 Popular Post Would u rather know ppl pretty well bf a hook up and remain friends or just have a little knowledge and not keep contact with them?
SH**** Posted October 23 Well if I know her pretty well before am I still gonna get to fuck her after that 1st hook up??
LeShoes Posted October 23 Not really that concerned in preplanned concepts. I like and enjoy the connection and if it’s spontaneous to intimate indulgence or a timeline of it doesn’t matter.
Ja**** Posted October 23 Definitely has to be the first for me, as a single parent might have to secure the castle which means I need to screen everybody who enters it before they enter it
Li**** Posted October 23 I personally don't do hookups, because I prefer to know people pretty well and to have a connection, because this is how it better works for me, the whole purpose of this whole thing (better domination) but also outside the BDSM world
ki**** Posted October 23 It’s all depend if I was out drinking if not I would like to know them and there kinks
Li**** Posted October 23 Depends. For a one time thing or something really casual - the less I know the better in some sense. However, the best sex of my life has always been where there's a deeper connection. It's not even close.
Geobad69 Posted October 23 For me its better to know someone and have more regular fun, especially if the vibe between the two of you is on point
dd**** Posted October 23 Depends on mutual alignment and dynamic of the situation. Personally if its just hooking up then there really isnt too much getting to know each other off of that level right off the hop, that usually takes more time together and conversation. Keeping contact follows the same lines, whether if both people had mutual fun and would like to resume.
Dr**** Posted October 23 Ive found that thru a few simple messages that you can establish common ground finding report and easier communication allowing for defined and clear boundaries Wich leads to smoother and safer play satisfying all parties involved leading to longer and more fulfilling relationships between all parts of the party. I personally would rather get to know people with common interest and never share a physical touch than to just add another notch to the bed post.
Wu**** Posted October 23 Happy to establish a vibe to begin with. I don't necessarily have to know them really well, but there has to be chemistry. As long as you keep up honest communication and respect the other person's boundaries, needs and feelings while maintaining your own there's no reason you can't be friends whatever happens.
Deleted Member Posted October 23 A little rapport and staying connected. Doesn't need to be a close connection but one of understanding and respect between the two.
Deleted Member Posted October 23 Either OR .. Depending on situation and location. If close to home and possibly see this person again. And if it was good. Lol. Maybe just keep in touch. But if something happened was out of state or another town . I would sayy goodbye and compliments and be gone.
al**** Posted October 23 I just want honesty. In the past I’ve mutually connected really great with someone and when we met it was like we’d known each other for awhile. Had a great time together but afterwards even though we still texted, it slowly fizzed out and faded away. It always leaves me feeling depressed because I’m not a hook up girl. I’m willing to be physical but only if I am under the impression that it’s an ongoing thing. I’m not into increasing my body count.
Ko**** Posted October 23 Personally I love an ongoing and closer connection. So long as boundaries are communicated and agreed. I have had the greatest play dates when we meet over months every other week getting more and more intimately aware of the others personal pleasures. Alternatively I have had more than one occasion where I will match/message int he morning, and be hot and heavy with them that same night after they obediently meet at my office after hours. And then never spoken too again, I do wish there was more but I completely respect that they did not want much connection and only a warm living toy to play with 😅
ta**** Posted October 23 I’d like to know someone really well. A good couple of weeks online sharing deep intimate thoughts and feelings. Anything but names, or ways of tracing each other. Then one night of 💥 and we never see or hear from each other again!
Av**** Posted October 24 Friends with benefits. I want to know you. I want to hook up on an ongoing basis. I also want to hang out outside of kink (kink adjacent, like a museum date but remote vibe or buttplugs). But it's not exclusive. I enjoy that depth more.
Sp**** Posted October 24 I prefer to know someone a bit anyway. This way you know what buttons to push to drive them Bat $hit crazy
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