Mt**** Posted November 1 Legit you will spank (gift) someone to message them and it will still say "profile prefers to me only messaged by people that gift" lol
Na**** Posted November 1 Mine has said that people can only send messages if they send one of those gifts but I didn’t put that.
We**** Posted November 2 Collect points.. use points for a 14 day vip membership and see if it’s worth buying for you
We**** Posted November 2 6 hours ago, BayBabeBSL said: Mine has said that people can only send messages if they send one of those gifts but I didn’t put that. You need to go to your messaging filters
Mt**** Posted November 2 Careful guys moderators will flag your account for talking poorly of the app. Already happened to me on another post because I commented on someone asking about people's accounts ghosting. All I said is that you will be mid conversion replying to someone question and boom. Now they need verification, or got blocked or blocked you for no reason
me**** Posted November 2 I pop in and check if anyone local is per using... but alas, no one here for dozens of miles. I subscribe maybe one month out of the year to keep tabs.
Ha**** Posted November 2 Be aware before you sign up that the site is blocking people from contacting women +/-10 year age difference by placing message filters on womens accounts without even telling them.
FETMod-HG Posted November 2 2 hours ago, Mtndan said: Careful guys moderators will flag your account for talking poorly of the app. Already happened to me on another post because I commented on someone asking about people's accounts ghosting. All I said is that you will be mid conversion replying to someone question and boom. Now they need verification, or got blocked or blocked you for no reason That would not have been the reason to flag your account. Talking openly about the app happens in many topics.
FETMod-HG Posted November 2 46 minutes ago, HatfieldMaster said: Be aware before you sign up that the site is blocking people from contacting women +/-10 year age difference by placing message filters on womens accounts without even telling them. This is a much discussed topic - they are the deafly filters to stem the overwhelming messages female accounts receive initially. They can change their filters.
Ha**** Posted November 2 10 minutes ago, FETMod-HG said: This is a much discussed topic - they are the deafly filters to stem the overwhelming messages female accounts receive initially. They can change their filters. That's a bullshit respsone. The women aren't aware the filters are set so why would they go and remove them? What makes it even worse is that BDSM is all about consent, and no-one has consented to this. Shame on you.
FE**** Posted November 2 2 hours ago, Mtndan said: Careful guys moderators will flag your account for talking poorly of the app. Already happened to me on another post because I commented on someone asking about people's accounts ghosting. All I said is that you will be mid conversion replying to someone question and boom. Now they need verification, or got blocked or blocked you for no reason You've only had one comment removed and that was because it was off-topic for the thread, not because it was negative to the app.
FETMod-HG Posted November 2 43 minutes ago, HatfieldMaster said: That's a bullshit respsone. The women aren't aware the filters are set so why would they go and remove them? What makes it even worse is that BDSM is all about consent, and no-one has consented to this. Shame on you. No shame on me - I'm a member who volunteers her own time helping the forum tick along. I have no involvement in the app or website build. As a female I find it very difficult in my own member profile to handle the volume of messages from men, so use those message filters to stop me leaving the app with overwhelm. Stopping new ladies joining from being swamped and leaving is the whole purpose of default settings. I have not seen any women complaining about them in the forum, only the men that are stopped from messaging them. I hear the men are not happy about the message filters - so go to the help area and create a ticket to report it to the support centre. Complaining in the forum does not get to the support centre.
Ha**** Posted November 2 10 minutes ago, FETMod-HG said: No shame on me - I'm a member who volunteers her own time helping the forum tick along. I have no involvement in the app or website build. As a female I find it very difficult in my own member profile to handle the volume of messages from men, so use those message filters to stop me leaving the app with overwhelm. Stopping new ladies joining from being swamped and leaving is the whole purpose of default settings. I have not seen any women complaining about them in the forum, only the men that are stopped from messaging them. I hear the men are not happy about the message filters - so go to the help area and create a ticket to report it to the support centre. Complaining in the forum does not get to the support centre. Of course you don't hear the women complaining - they're not even aware of the filters!!! Create a ticket to report to support center? Are you having a laugh? Have raised around 15-20 tickets about this and every single one has had some copy & paste nonsense along with a denial that the site are applying default message filters on new female accounts. A far fairer way of preventing women from being inundated with messages is to limit the amount of 1st messages that people can send per day. If men could only send 3 first messages then they would be a lot more careful to only message the women they were most interested in, rather than firing off a message to every single female. And before you reply "why don't you make that suggestion to customer support", they are not interested. No-one at the site is interested in making the user experience better. Have been a member here for 5+ years and never once has there been a customer satisfaction survey or any attempt to get user feedback on what needs improving. The bottom line is that as long as us men are stupid enough to pay the site owners/managers are happy.
fl**** Posted November 2 Notice how nobody can give descriptive details as to why you shouldn't join this site? That's because you aren't allowed to say anything. This site is full of scammers and run by the like.
FE**** Posted November 2 2 minutes ago, flipflopfarmer said: Notice how nobody can give descriptive details as to why you shouldn't join this site? That's because you aren't allowed to say anything. This site is full of scammers and run by the like. Where are you looking, this thread is full of people doing just that!
fl**** Posted November 2 4 minutes ago, FETMod-RG said: Where are you looking, this thread is full of people doing just that! Where's the my (second) comment that earned my a strike against my profile? The one where I talked about this censorship utopia?
Cr**** Posted November 2 Don’t do it. Bunch of fake accounts and seems the app owners are scammers. They place filters on fake accounts trying to *** you to buy a subscription only to message a bot.
FE**** Posted November 3 16 hours ago, flipflopfarmer said: Where's the my (second) comment that earned my a strike against my profile? The one where I talked about this censorship utopia? That wasn't removed because of what you were saying, it was removed because of the way you were saying it. As you can see by other comments being approved, we have allowed plenty of negative comments.
FE**** Posted November 3 4 hours ago, CryptKeeper1351 said: Don’t do it. Bunch of fake accounts and seems the app owners are scammers. They place filters on fake accounts trying to *** you to buy a subscription only to message a bot. Filters are placed on some accounts automatically; however, that's based on a set of criteria and the site doesn't decide on those accounts specifically. If you come across scammers, report them, it's with users' help that we are able to get rid of them.
Ot**** Posted November 3 I was gifted a short membership for my birthday and I can honestly say that there is nothing in the app that is worth the cost as it is run today. If your account is anything like mine, there are a large number of likes and matches, but when looking at them they all appear to be from accounts that had been bots, were pending verification, or similar. The forums don’t have much in the way of quality discussion (Reddit or Discord seem better), and there’s nothing really in the way of local community content (something that Fetlife excels in). Ultimately I’m not sure this app knows what it wants to be. Is it a social network? A dating site? It doesn’t seem to do either role well. I think they’d be much better served if they focused on one area and invested efforts into making it better.
ca**** Posted November 3 (edited) This would be an ideal thread for the developers / owners to take stock off. They produce and own and are 'responsible' for this site and how it 'works'..... I think some of these replies maybe give them an opportunity to improve their offering and is free consumer advice for them. As for the 1 month subs, I have no idea, follow the link to the Ts and Cs and see what they say in the 'small print'............ Edited November 3 by callipygian
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