Ne**** Posted November 10 8 hours ago, Cyan-Stork said: Who isn't neurodivergent? Plenty of folks are NT and it absolutely is different to those considered ND.
Ne**** Posted November 10 Speaking to "skipping steps" and being super focused on sextivities: I want to be a healthy, non-toxic, functional / funktional / fucktional person, ok?! I also get excited to connect on any level that isn't sexual (or sex first/forward) and THAT is when I may feel myself shift into a different gear, let's say, and I'm 'cutting to the chase.'.. Everything's groovy, everyone involved seemingly having a good time, a Consentual good time. Then, afterward, for sure (and, admittedly, sometimes during and even prior to getting down) BOOM - whether coinciding with waning hormone and neurotransmitter levels after that chemical 'hit', and, my own personal core being, damage, AND brain chemistry etc, I feel so gross because I once again skipped the parts of: getting to know you, going slowly, keeping to my inner virtuous and justice-centered being who wants to do things correctly.. smartly.. safely. *sigh*
ey**** Posted November 10 10 hours ago, Cyan-Stork said: Who isn't neurodivergent? about 80% of people. There does feel like ND is over represented in kink - for which there is probably a likely reason. But it's still not the default and then, of course the issue, that ND effects people in different ways.
ch**** Posted November 10 Yup yup Adha cPTSD/bipolar2(?) terribly RSD wannabe ENM after 38 yrs together.. I am an alien in this world of rabbit holes and feeling like a snake in the grass but think decent old ND bloke being adventurous before it’s too late
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