Deleted Member Posted November 10, 2025 8 hours ago, Cyan-Stork said: Who isn't neurodivergent? Plenty of folks are NT and it absolutely is different to those considered ND.
Deleted Member Posted November 10, 2025 Speaking to "skipping steps" and being super focused on sextivities: I want to be a healthy, non-toxic, functional / funktional / fucktional person, ok?! I also get excited to connect on any level that isn't sexual (or sex first/forward) and THAT is when I may feel myself shift into a different gear, let's say, and I'm 'cutting to the chase.'.. Everything's groovy, everyone involved seemingly having a good time, a Consentual good time. Then, afterward, for sure (and, admittedly, sometimes during and even prior to getting down) BOOM - whether coinciding with waning hormone and neurotransmitter levels after that chemical 'hit', and, my own personal core being, damage, AND brain chemistry etc, I feel so gross because I once again skipped the parts of: getting to know you, going slowly, keeping to my inner virtuous and justice-centered being who wants to do things correctly.. smartly.. safely. *sigh*
ey**** Posted November 10, 2025 10 hours ago, Cyan-Stork said: Who isn't neurodivergent? about 80% of people. There does feel like ND is over represented in kink - for which there is probably a likely reason. But it's still not the default and then, of course the issue, that ND effects people in different ways.
ch**** Posted November 10, 2025 Yup yup Adha cPTSD/bipolar2(?) terribly RSD wannabe ENM after 38 yrs together.. I am an alien in this world of rabbit holes and feeling like a snake in the grass but think decent old ND bloke being adventurous before it’s too late
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