fe**** Posted Tuesday at 07:48 AM So I have quite the large collection of sex toy but mostly dildos and I have all shapes and sizes and I use them for anal but I for the life of me can’t figure out how to safely take girthy toys like knotted dildos and extra thick dildo with over two inches of girth I can take length fine but I’ve tried everything to try to take thicker from numbing lubes to slowly taking slightly larger toys of the course of a few weeks and that kinda helped but the next size up I can’t do that with does anyone have any tips on this :3
Ro**** Posted Tuesday at 08:27 PM There are anal trainers which are coned shape (but bumpy) , so can sit on it and slowly like weights increase the size, you also have inflatables that you can balloon up to. Relaxing yourself, so breathing helps and slowing your muscles to relax and stretch. It's like any muscle, stretching over time. I can't speak personally, only what previous slaves/submissives have trained with. I was shocked with what could taken, best of luck anal slut
Ne**** Posted Tuesday at 08:30 PM Literally what RochaMocha said but you could also try getting some poppers from a local sex shop and that will ease things right up
ha**** Posted Tuesday at 08:38 PM I always lick and finger a girls asshole before I fuk it. I tell her to relax her whole body and take deep breaths. Alcohol or weed also helps a lot!! I also tell her to push the ass muscles down like you are pooping and that opens up the anus. Then lube it up, use lots of lube!!! I use baby oil bc it is so slick and not sticky or stringy like other lubes. Then I slide in 2 fingers after about 5 or 10 minutes. Then I add another finger every 10 minutes while still telling her to stay relaxed, push down, and take deep breaths. After 20 or 30 minutes, I can fuk or fist her. You'll know if you can fist bc the anus is so relaxed that it slides in effortlessly with no forcing. Btw, Im straight
De**** Posted Tuesday at 10:02 PM I used and inflatable dildo to train myself. Once in, you can slowly pump it up until your used to the new size and go up again. I did learn not to use numbing lubes too. You dont always know if your pushing too far with them. It took a long time for me and a lot of dedication because I had to go daily until it was a normal action to take the whole thing at full girth. Patience is key.
si**** Posted Wednesday at 02:38 AM Firstly a quick safety note. Never use numbing lubes because the rule is that if you are feeling ***. Something is not right. And the numbing lubes may hide that *** and cause ***. My preferred method for being able to take and enjoy something/someone girthy. Is mostly about position. Ensure it is well lubed either by a commercial one. Or even your own saliva. Then for at least the initial bit of time. I go for either cowgirl. Or reverse cowgirl. In that position it is all up to me for how fast and deep it enters. Once in position. And with the item in alignment and just touching you with just a little pressure per se. Close your eyes if need be to focus. Then take a couple of deep breaths in. Then when you’re feeling ready. As you exhale. (Never on the inhale) relax your whole body. And so that your sphincter muscles also relax. And with just that and using your relaxed body weight to drop further. You’d be surprised. If you go to quick remove it. And start again. Through my personal experience. An appendage which is part of a human is easier than a store bought. They may claim to feel like the real thing. But after having spent probably thousands of dollars buying various ones to suit…. That are absolutely nothing like a real one
Rh**** Posted Thursday at 01:47 AM My mommy had me train over a long period of time adding a few minutes each day, then stepping up to the next size. Huse has a set of plugs that increases 1/8 in. They also have a harness to hold it in. Go slow, be consistant with your training and it will happen.
Booty_Gobbler Posted Thursday at 10:32 PM In my experience (as basic as an answer as this is) just practice and consistency. Work your way up and be sure to take your time and dont make any large jumps in progress. Anal injuries aren't fun.
HuPigSquishy Posted Friday at 10:38 PM I once had this same exact issue, I learned a multi part approach. - position, what a difference this makes for depth or width - breathing technique to really relax.. - pushing outwards gently while working toy in and out.. relaxing.. going again - better lubes, again made a huge difference by changing the type of material of my toy used, as well as lube change - wearing a butt-plug prior to playing, the goal for me was 2hrs prior to.. and I started at 10-minutes and worked up to 2-hrs. - sleeping while plugged my first time, I woke up after a 1-2 hr nap plugged, gapped and ready for the session - training.. involving taking the dildo completely out.. wait 10-secs.. driving back in slowly.. bottom out.. wait 10- withdraw.. repeat - the spear fucking led me to the desire to be fucked.. which is another thing that opened me up - gentle finger pulling, stretching technique a friend taught me That has all been different things I’ve learned over my years playing. Hopefully it helps someone else out
ki**** Posted yesterday at 05:05 AM Start slow and work up to it over time! Eventually you can go bigger. I can get almost 5 inches in width now!
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