The more primal the dom…

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The softer l become, why is that?

I’ve realised that what gets me out of my head and into my body is desire that’s blunt.
Focused.
Unapologetic.
Sexually aggressive.
Disciplined.

A man who looks at me like he already knows what he wants.
A man whose doesn’t hide his hunger for me behind polite words and small talk.
A hand on my thigh, a command said quietly with authority, a look that tells me exactly where he wants me and that l better not think of disobeying him.
That’s the thing that makes me wet and eager to please.
Not romance in the traditional sense. Not analysis or endless WhatsApp “conversations”.
Not some “Dom” who’s basically cosplaying control because he hasn’t accepted his primal authentic style of dominance.

When a man has that kind of presence and self-confidence, I soften without thinking.
My whole body answers before my mind even catches up.
That’s when I drop into something deeper,
not obedience, but recognition.
Like: oh…hi Daddy.
You’re the one I can go still for.
You’re the one I can kneel for without feeling like I’m shrinking.
You’re the one whose blunt, primal style makes me pant in anticipation.
You’re the one that will care for me, own me and make sure I’m protected.

I don’t want to perform submission.
I don’t want to negotiate it or have to engineer it myself.
I want to feel it happen to me because he’s pulled it out of me.

That’s the something I’m learning about myself.
The more primal the desire, the softer I become.
The more unapologetic he is, the more I can breathe.
And it’s bizarre but the less he talks, the more my body listens.

I’m usually someone who lives in “words” and yet with the right Dom, l embrace and prefer silence.

I wonder why that is?

[bu****]

Because the right dom gives you the space in the air to obsess over him. It’s important you show him that you do obsess over him, but doesn’t feel amazing to feel safe enough to do that?

[In****]

Some of us just really prefer direct communication, and when we get it from a partner in an area where society tells us to beat around the bush, it's exhilarating.

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Thursday at 05:51 PM, bustysubenjoyer said:

Because the right dom gives you the space in the air to obsess over him. It’s important you show him that you do obsess over him, but doesn’t feel amazing to feel safe enough to do that?

It does, thank you

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Friday at 03:27 AM, InTheGoatShow said:

Some of us just really prefer direct communication, and when we get it from a partner in an area where society tells us to beat around the bush, it's exhilarating.

Very true