ki**** Posted November 22 Rope and bondage have always been an interest of mine, but finding a consistent partner has been a challenge. I self tie pretty often, but it is a much different experience. Personally I enjoy the process regardless of it being in the context of sex or not, but that doesnt seem to be the case for many folks? It seems secondary. I'm wondering if there are people who enjoy the process of tying just on its own?
Ct**** Posted November 25 I certainly enjoy the process. I enjoy how it starts easy, basic ties, still comfortable. But then each consecutive loop and knot removes more and more freedom. At a certain point it goes from something you might be able to squirm out of to something you have no shot at escaping. Then personally I like to bend and twist my sub into pretzels, bow their backs in strict hogities, take away as much movement from them as I can until they're just a moaning squirming piece of meat. Maybe they can wiggle their toes and blink, maybe I'll take that away too.
Se**** Posted November 25 Absolutely! For some off course but def for me the act is pure joy and all manner of restraints as mood dependent. But finding a real connection is not easy even with vanilla relationships let alone BDSM. So when you find it, cherish it!
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