Popular Post Th**** Posted November 27 Popular Post I recently went through a life changing health issues and my body has changed in a few different ways as did my way of thinking. I danced for a lot of years so my body in my opinion was perfect and I have a pretty face so I was very confident. After having some surgeries and my breasts now different and the weight gain I don't quite feel as I did before about my body. I've been working hard to get back to not being scared to get naked not only in front of someone but in front of the mirror. Are a few extra pounds sexy , or is that just something guys say to try and get in my pants? There's more to the story to why I feel this way . I have went from having sex with whoever I want whenever I want to hardly having it almost ashamed to have it and only want to share myself with one person a person that wants me completely and helps me remember my sexy. I feel strange and miss the sex kitten I use to be . How do you get used to such dramatic changes? I don't want to feel guilty for having sex it's driving me crazy and making me very grumpy. Thanks for listening.
Mu**** Posted November 27 Hi there! I have a similar experience, I had a pretty body that I was not ashamed to put on display and use in my favour. I had also had some dramatic life changes and surgery, a new life whatsoever. It's hard, it's challenging to respond well to it or not be ashamed or uncomfortable. But I have to tell you that I still have an audience. Different people from different backgrounds than before, but with mostly good and clean intentions. So nothing is lost and I hope you will find someone who makes you feel like the kitten you still are 🐾
Chops Posted November 27 Well me personally I like a woman with a few extra pounds always have i think its sexy and thats me telling tge truth you should feel ashamed of your body specially if it was something out of your control
Bi**** Posted November 27 The thing a lot of these men would fuck a sack of potatoes if given the chance. There’s nothing sexier than confidence so I’m sorry you don’t feel that right now. Loving yourself is of the utmost importance. I personally would prefer a woman with some curves than rail thin. I have been with woman of all shapes and sizes. Personally I like a little more meat
ba**** Posted November 27 I definitely prefer a woman with a few extra pounds and I feel like men that say that typically mean it
Ki**** Posted November 27 I'm sure there are many men & women that are superficial about looks, weight, breast size and curves. The most important and beautiful thing to me about a woman is her submissive sexually. Confidence in who she is, who she wants to be and what she brings to the relationship. Get your confidence back. If you can't love yourself, you won't be able to love another!
RJ**** Posted November 27 Only you say what you like. If you dont feel comfortable then fix it. Guys have their preferred body types just as women do. It's how you see yourself not how you feel around others. Im currently on my weight loss journey because I woke up and looked in the mirror and said damn how did go from a somewhat fit soldier to this obese clown that struggles to do anything. Hope it helps. Im sure you're pretty regardless of what the scales or tape says. May you have a blessed life.
St**** Posted November 27 Hey that growth is huge and you have to be comfortable with you no one can tell you how you should be other wise. You have your boundaries and that's okay. You should like how you look no matter what
Mi**** Posted November 27 I have been in exactly the same place as you. And in my experience, there are plenty of men that absolutely adore women with something to grab hold to. I'm a comfortable size uk18 and have men absolutely worshiping my body. It's more about how you feel within yourself. Once you get back to loving or accepting yourself, men will be flocking to you darling. Give yourself some love xx
Pr**** Posted November 27 Getting used to changes like that is growing as a person and coming to terms with your own mortality. I went from athletic to athletic but still having some what of a dad bod aesthetic. I don't feel any difference because I worked on my own issues, fixed myself, and picked a partner that is attracted to me for what I am and who I am. It's life. It'll do what it does regardless of how you feel. Adapt and grow. That's really it.
Ed**** Posted November 27 Take a few minutes to look back at some of historys most famous p@intings and tell me how many skinny bitches you see. No its not something men just say to be polite. We should all do our part to be as healthy as possible. But physical appearances our to coveted these days
8I**** Posted November 27 Gosh I relate to this so hard I’m dealing with skin changes due to dealing with MCAS and flares and it’s so awful! Men just don’t seem to get it that our bodies sometimes rebel against us you know? And those men? Aren’t worth our time 💅
Pv**** Posted November 27 You should still be confident. In addition to the surgeries age makes it challenging to be what we once were. You’re working on it which is something to be proud of. I think you’re still pretty and sexy for that matter. Keep going beautiful!
DL**** Posted November 27 Hi ! When you said the guys are telling you that extra pounds make you look sexy because they just want to get in your pants you are right and you should be so confident because of that. At the end they do want to get in your pants, don't theml ? Look alway on the bright side. The world is the way you look at it. You make your on world at every second. Happiness is a choice not a goal . 🙏🌹🙏🌈🙏💓
Am**** Posted November 27 For me I love when she has few extra pounds! I’m almost 300 pounds but I’m 6’3 and super think. Having sex with an extra skinny person makes me nervouse as I think I brake them. To me you’re super sexy and hot. Also if a man ever says somthing maybe you need to look at the men you having sex with. They might not need the right tipe anymore. I’ve always been heavy sense like grade 10 so I’m extra used to it
In**** Posted November 27 So from my experience I basically have no interest in me since I got bigger. Im the plus size with short hair girl. Apparently how ive been perceived its not attractive. I have a lot of health conditions and meds and those have caused weight gain. 6st in one year was the worst. My boobs have sagged and are totally flat on top. I used to be perky and have a lovely clevage. My tummy dropped. Ass big. And for me it hasn't made me more attractive to men. And its very disheartening cos there's plenty of bigger women out there that are classed as beautiful and men want. Unfortunately due to chronic *** I cant just get fit and losing weight seems to be impossible. I havent been with anyone in nearly 2yrs. Mainly no interest in me. Partly my lack of body confidence and Partly the mental block. I always had a high sex drive and confidence and I miss that part of myself. But honestly men have destroyed it. Ive been insulted and ***d cos of how I look. And ive got to the point that I dont listen. Yes it still hurts to some extent but ive heard it all. I just want to find one that will accept me for me. I seriously hope you find the guys that will build you up and not pull you down. And hope that other lasses will do what theyre meant to do and support one another. From your profile pic I can see, you look stunning. And it should be for you youre wanted not just your body. Sending hugs xx
be**** Posted November 27 A few extra pounds can be sexy. I fell very attractive now at a size US 14. I hated myself at a US size 0. And I’m finding myself now most attracted to women my size.
lu**** Posted November 27 Some guys are going to definitely say that to get in your pants. Buuuuuut there is also guys who are actually about it, you just have to see through their bs.
cl**** Posted November 27 It's not the few extra pounds orthe tone fit body that make me want to be with someone it's the way u act its the way u move its the confidence that u enough if one girl had a perfect body but no confidence and a girl had few extra pounds and knew she was capable of getting the job done id take the few extra pounds any day and pair that with a good attitude and its a lethal combo
turret Posted November 27 Don’t feel hard on yourself, love the way you are and change will come when it feels right for you. Maybe try some yoga and/or at least an hours walk per day, cutting down on snacks and avoiding high calorie boozy things
fl**** Posted November 27 Everyone has their own tastes, of course, but I have always found a woman with curves sexy as hell. Having glanced at your pics, I personally think you’re gorgeous. I totally get where you’re coming from, as confidence lost can be a tough thing to overcome, but I’ve also found that we are all our own worst critic. The picture of you in a sexy little black dress in particular looks amazing, and I think most would agree. You’re beautiful!! Know that, even if you struggle with it 😍😘❤️
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