To**** Posted Thursday at 10:02 AM I’m curious about something deeper than the usual “morning text” or “goodnight message.” For those of you who identify as submissive: Which daily ritual, rule, or routine genuinely shifts your mindset into submission... not just something you do, but something you feel? Is it: • A specific phrase you say or write? • A check-in that makes your body respond before your mind catches up? • A posture you take? • A task that reminds you who you belong to? • Or something small, almost invisible to others, but powerful to you? I’m particularly interested in the rituals that: • create the drop into your submissive headspace • calm your nerves but tighten your desire • make you feel connected, obedient, or “held” throughout the day Subs : what is that one ritual that quietly rearranges you from the inside out?
Mandy-3385 Posted Thursday at 12:42 PM Getting called sweet names, like “baby girl” 🫠 even in a text, makes my mind go blank
QueenBratt76 Posted Thursday at 01:33 PM When he would shift his voice to a low & steady tone," MINE" I'd submerge into sub space
ma**** Posted Thursday at 03:15 PM That deep shift into being called a good girl. But there is also this look in the dom's eyes. That only you get, its like approval, lust, dominance all in one. You can feel it when they look at you like that even across the room. The dom's eyes can tell a lot, especially if we are in trouble. Can really hit you without saying anything.
PL**** Posted Thursday at 08:52 PM To change my headspace my Sir usually calls me by that one name and I move into my subspace. The inside out....hmmm I would say it's when he does those little things that make life easy. It makes me want to reciprocate.
No**** Posted Friday at 05:02 AM Im going to second on the “good girl” idk why it works. But also hmm letsee you are saying its morning… u just need the cookie to wake Up wet and ask for something. Or if theyre rushed say.. fit it in like in your shower time or whenever.. but make them fit u in.
Pr**** Posted 19 hours ago I always tell her "Good morning beautiful." like clockwork, it's part of the structure and routine. It is exponentially deeper than just some kind of greeting. If something changes that there is immediate attention to the fact it was not present. If I do change it up, it's likely for an important occasion in a positive sense. Whether she's waking up in my bed or I'm messaging her for when she wakes up to it in her home, it's always a consistent that sets the tone. As well as being a small reminder to how I see her, inside and out. Anything else that follows is based purely off of context or whatever is going on. Outside of that there isn't any one particular thing that will be done to instil the rest of those factors that's cut and dry. I adapt to her needs and expectations while leaving room for her to create wants as a result. It's a paced lifestyle with a soft Dom/Daddy (not the booktok daddy) dynamic for her.
PowerDDLG Posted 6 hours ago Daddy has me journal daily. The moment I open my notebook and pick up my pen, my mind automatically shifts into subspace. It’s not only for Daddy, but truly impacts how I start and choose to run my day 🖤
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