Pictures

[Deleted Member]

So I don't understand why you would join a site and not upload pictures!! I get visitors and would like to see them but they don't have pictures!! Why bother if u don't have pictures!! (Dont have to be naughty, just want to see what u look like!!)

[Wo****]

Privacy a lot of the time.

[Mz****]

Perhaps those who visited you are new and pictures haven't been accepted yet, or verified, or perhaps people don't want anyone finding them via a public search engine, perhaps they're shy, or simply being discreet..maybe people value their privacy, and after all not everyone needs to see what someone looks like to exchange thoughts, ideas or experiences, and will share pictures privately with those they come to trust or perhaps people feel like a target for *** or at risk of a deluge of mail because of the entitlement others feel and want to avoid that or perhaps the best reason of all, simply because they don't want to...

If it bothers you so much, have a look in settings,  you can filter mail to deny access to those without a picture, the same may be possible in the search options.

[Mo****]

33 minutes ago, BabyHuey said:

So I don't understand why you would join a site and not upload pictures!! I get visitors and would like to see them but they don't have pictures!! Why bother if u don't have pictures!! (Dont have to be naughty, just want to see what u look like!!)

Mate I agree, but what you have to remember is that a lot of people who come to this place, have issues with privacy for *** of being discovered as being kinky, and being treated as a freak by others.

[Ex****]

I agree with the comments above. I think women on here get hounded when they put photos on here, some are new to bdsm and trying to find themselves. I’m definitely not a picture hunter when I chat to women on here, when they are comfortable they will place a photo and not be pressurised by mostly guys asking for a photo.

[Ta****]

Sometimes I think it is down to what sort of job they might have.

If you are in a position where you have to remain discreet... you know....!

Oh that reminds me....I was going to ask the site owners if the next treasure hunt could be a 'Spot The M.P.'  treasure hunt.  All faces of prospective  M.Ps will of course, remain at least partially erased,  througout!   🤓

[Deleted Member]

There are many who work in jobs where it could become an issue if revealed they were kinky. It's just to keep some level of discretion and privacy.

[Sammyb-9585]

There are many many reasons to why men and women do not post pics

Rightly as the other posters have said for many many of us we work in jobs that this lifestyle would cause is huge difficulties for me that is certainly the case . If I wasn’t in the job I’m in my pics would be very different

For some people who are married and playing away without permission is a another reason

The issue of girls getting hassle on a few levels exists ..... some of my friends on site have received derogatory comments and insulting comments , why this happens I will never know because if you don’t like something in a picture it’s not necessary to comment n insult the person . Thankfully it seems far more prevalent on other sites than here


while I have had people who repeatedly come onto your profile 4, 5,6 7 times upwards a day and use them as a personal wank bank .. excuse my expression .

Equally you get those who are over enthusiastic and who like specific things or seeking specific photos who want to talk or ask for more pics

And let’s not forget it can be a red flag for those who are not genuine , however there are many to find out if someone is genuine or not ...

Like anything in this lifestyle it’s important to have an open mind , see the bigger picture and try to be non judgemental

[ol****]

As most have said this is a matter of personal choice.

Some people probably only join this site to perv on pictures, that's fine as lots of people post pictures knowing full well this is true.

Perhaps a conversation via pm or the forum will ellicit a picture in the fullness of time?