Confession

[Th****]

I've been a Dom since I was young. Been considering exploring my...softer side.. advice in this department?

[Ma****]

You're a grown assed man! You've been in the community for "years!"
Why in God's name would you feel the need to get public input from absofukinlute strangers on wether you should explore your soft side?????

Are you a troll or what????
Do what you want!! Or do you want attention for being so soft???

I'd advise you grow up and realize that you as a Dom should be comfortable with all aspects of yourself!!!!

[St****]

^^ well that’s not helpful. I do agree that the whole point of the life style is to safely explore all aspects of yourself and your partner. I’m a Dom as well but sometimes submit to my Domme. It’s a fun game we play where we constantly try to out each other into subspace.

The point I am trying to make is. There is nothing wrong with exploring. As a long term Dom you should be comfortable with this idea. Find a partner that makes you feel safe and want to be soft.

Not sure if you meant softer side as sub or soft Dom but either path requires good communication of expectations and a partner that will help you navigate it.

[Ey****]

Try anything really that your not the one in power, only when you feel safe of course.

[Ey****]

Don't listen to the first guy. He doesn't sound nice

[Sq****]

That's incredibly vague and without context.

[Ma****]

48 minutes ago, EyeSeeYou79 said:

Don't listen to the first guy. He doesn't sound nice

I'm not nice!! I'm honest and frank!!!

[Ar****]

9 minutes ago, MasterB0659 said:

I'm not nice!! I'm honest and frank!!!

Were you not aware that you can be both of those things without belittling people or being totally void of all empathy?

[Ma****]

I'm actually very empathetic. I just don't filter my thoughts or responses to massage others feelings.
Each of us are responsible for our own feelings and emotions!!
I don't live my life to validate others feelings or issues

I state My feelings and thoughts!!!!

[ba****]

MasterB0659 you are truly nothing but a grumpy ass old man A person of your age should have some respect and common sense did he ask for your negative input noo I don't think he did pops keep it rolling floozy Don't listen to this dude he has pedo vibes all over and probably has mody tobacco from years ago stuck in his wrinkly skin 🤣🤣🤣 don't be a clown clown

[Ma****]

Wow!!! Must be close to some deep seated issue!! Resorting to *** as an argument is really weak!

[ba****]

Lmao hey homie no one was talking to you keep it stepping I'm not arguing with a boy such as yourself

[Ma****]

Have a good Day, Sir!!

[CopperKnob]

56 minutes ago, MasterB0659 said:

I'm actually very empathetic. I just don't filter my thoughts or responses to massage others feelings.
Each of us are responsible for our own feelings and emotions!!
I don't live my life to validate others feelings or issues

I state My feelings and thoughts!!!!

And you call yourself a master. Some emotional intelligence wouldn't go amiss 🙄

[ba****]

Well said

[Ma****]

2 minutes ago, CopperKnob said:

And you call yourself a master. Some emotional intelligence wouldn't go amiss 🙄

Liberal

[Sq****]

1 hour ago, bachelor_2 said:

MasterB0659 you are truly nothing but a grumpy ass old man A person of your age should have some respect and common sense did he ask for your negative input noo I don't think he did pops keep it rolling floozy Don't listen to this dude he has pedo vibes all over and probably has mody tobacco from years ago stuck in his wrinkly skin 🤣🤣🤣 don't be a clown clown

His initial response was pretty rough, but I see where he's coming from. This entirely lowered yourself beneath that. Congratulations on whatever it is you felt you need to win.

[CopperKnob]

5 minutes ago, MasterB0659 said:

Liberal

And proud of it.

[al****]

Well, to be public is to allow everyone to comment on this. You got people who don't sugarcoat things and others that will. Just read everything and take what you want from it.

At the end of the day it's your lifestyle and kink

[ba****]

Only a simp says something about winning noo it's simple IDC about winning I care about respect you don't shun someone for what they have to say your priorities is pretty twisted

[ba****]

And thats your opinion your entitled to it but keep it to yourself 😉 okay cupcake

[Sq****]

Or you could let them get handled by the mods, but instead you commandeer OPs post to turn it into a personal circus. Something, something respect and baked goods. I hope you work through it.

[de****]

Just go for it, preferably with someone you can trust. Have fun while your at it. What I would recommend is carefully considering what youd like to experience and vocalize it to any potential partners. Reaching out to the community can be scary at first for the above situation. So take it all with a Crain of salt amd hopefully you come back with a kinky tale.

[ey****]

I was going to make a suggest, but it was based on an assumption - and that is if you'd been involved in a local community that there was every chance of there being someone you can discuss with who knows you

but then this brings me to another assumption - when you say "softer side" do you mean a softer Domination style... or... exploring activities associated with submission?

[Th****]

Find someone whom you trust and who will be patient while you explore this side of you. Just go for it.