24 years of marriage.....

[He****]

So we've been married for 24 years have always been monogamous and overall pretty vanilla sexually.
THIS IS ALL 100% TRUE AND EXPLAINS HOW WE ENDED UP ON THIS APP:
It all started a couple years ago and we were just doing the usual dirty talk and I asked my wife ....of all the friends I have had (past and present) which one would you have sex with if you could choose? Keep in mind we have been married a long time and we have a lot of trust so I am really not a jealous person and comfortable with my manhood etc etc ....

She then mentioned a name and it really wasn't a shock for me because he is one of those hippie type free spirits that just always seems happy and a bit aloof....which can be an attractive quality when you are with someone like me who is sometimes the opposite.....

Anyways, eventually I started teasing her and telling her that I could probably make that happen because even though I hadn't seen him for years, I still knew he was in town and probably single... Or not in a serious relationship... Plus I could always tell he kind of had a crush on my wife (she is definitely hot) ...but he was always respectful and a good friend....

So one thing led to another and eventually I started to kind of train her.... First by making her say his name while we f#$ked and then as it progressed (over weeks) I started to tell her that I was going to set up a 3some with him and make her fu$& us both... Over our marriage she has been extremely faithful and we have never even talked about it ...let alone done a threesome.... I am very hetero and so is he so it wasn't something that I actually thought would happen and I hadn't talked to him in years......

Fast forward about a month and in order to progress (our sex life was instantly better when I started playing this game with her) I actually reached out to him on FB just to say hi and didn't mention anything about this.....just the usual How have you been? What have you been up to... Ect... I then showed my wife the convo and told her "I wasnt kidding...." And she was blushing and I could tell she wanted it to happen.....so I worked my magic and started to talk to him for a bit over the next couple of weeks...

There are so many details... And I definitely played the long game and it took a while but I eventually told him we should get together and that my wife was asking about him and he of course didn't know what to say...and he was very respectful and generic with his response.... So I set a date (about a month out and it happened to be the weekend of her birthday...

In the meantime I told my wife that I have basically scheduled it and she was kind of in shock because she has never seen this side of me and she didn't know if this was some type of trick or mindgame... I told her that I was 100% wanting to do this because I was getting off on the thought of her giving in to her desire and giving her pleasure that I can't give her by myself....

So keep in mind I haven't actually scheduled anything And I still don't know if my buddy would even want to because we weren't really those types of friends...and I decided that to make this work and to further make it a game, I added my wife to the group chat and we were going to plan what we wanted to do for her birthday..... and I instructed my wife to start flirting with him in the chat to see how he would react and so she uncomfortably started to chime in and soon it was very entertaining for me to see how he reacted.... She kept it very cryptic and wasn't too overt....so he was definitely not sure what to say..... Once we finally decided what to do (corn maze on Halloween) he finally asked "should I bring a date or something?" He was definitely uncomfortable and had no clue what I was trying to plan.... I told him "definitely not...we are looking forward to seeing you and my wife is excited to hang out with us....." Now of course he kind of has the idea but not 100%

Just to make this whole thing dirtier , I ordered custom panties with my name on one cheek and his on the other..... And made her wear them that night with a skirt and she dressed up as a cowgirl (it was Halloween also)

So we show up at his place after a lot of banter back and forth that went on for weeks leading up to it. And he opens the door and we walk in and you can tell already that he's kind of nervous because he's trying to act normal but he can see that my wife is dressed up really really nice and she looks absolutely beautiful and he says I just have to get ready .....

When he leaves the room I look at my wife and I say what do you think? And she just smiled at me and she was excited because she could tell how nervous he was and she said I got this LOL and then she started to lightly flirt with them in front of me and he just kind of looked at me and was waiting to see my reaction and I just smiled back at him and then she said that it's my birthday this weekend and I got all dressed up and he said that she looked beautiful....

She then told him that she matched all of her clothes to look pretty ( if you could see this guy's face....😂 He had a bead of sweat on his forehead ) He didn't know what to say...... And my wife said "Even my panties match...." And she lifted her skirt up to show his name and mine on each cheek.....He laughed uncomfortably and looked at me to see my reaction and I said " since it's her birthday, I think we should spank her....." I then walked her to his bedroom and bent her over his bed and we each stood on each side and took turns going back and forth ....medium hard... Until the last one and I made it extra hard.....

I then pulled her panties down and looked at him and gave him permission to "have fun"...... We then took turns on her.....

After this we went to the corn maze and spent the night at his place and did it again......a few weeks later I rented an Airbnb and we made a weekend out of it.... And then eventually it just faded because he was actually trying to date (he has been single for a Long time) so we just amicably ended it before it got too weird......

Anyways SO HERE WE ARE. Yes we are not considered young, but it is never too late to have adventures with each other and it is much easier if you have honesty and trust.....and communication is crucial.... I would never have known this side of her if I didn't take initiative and she definitely didn't know this side of me......

Now this APP is the next chapter and we really don't have a plan this time....but my wife loves the Attention of course ..... We both have taken good care of our health and have stayed very fit ....this makes aging a little less depressing 😂

There really wasn't much of a point to this thread, but just thought I would share a story.....

[780one]

Hot stuff heat seekers!!!

[Fu****]

Thanks for sharing your story. That's a fun one and is very similar to the story my husband and I have (also after about 24 years of marriage).

[de****]

I generally don’t read long narratives lol. But it was hot, it have me some perspective that i needed. Yall should find what your looking for here, have fun, btw yall seem to be a sweet couple.

[He****]

19 minutes ago, dee8u said:

I generally don’t read long narratives lol. But it was hot, it have me some perspective that i needed. Yall should find what your looking for here, have fun, btw yall seem to be a sweet couple.

I hear you man 100% with you on that and I never write things either however I will say that s***ch to text is a great invention LOL

[mr****]

Great story I found myself smiling as I read it and I hate to read lmao

[de****]

Hearseekers,
I’ve always wanted to be the third(not asking for an invite) lol.
I’ve only had one encounter and it was only for the male, she still got involved so ingiess my question is. What are some green flags that you, the male part, are looking for?
As mentioned, ive run into couples but for some reason the vibe seems to fade without meeting.

[He****]

1 hour ago, dee8u said:

Hearseekers,
I’ve always wanted to be the third(not asking for an invite) lol.
I’ve only had one encounter and it was only for the male, she still got involved so ingiess my question is. What are some green flags that you, the male part, are looking for?
As mentioned, ive run into couples but for some reason the vibe seems to fade without meeting.

Well.... I am definitely not an expert on the matter... My situation was unique in that I was able to coordinate it over the course of a couple months and planned it out (This was part of the fun for me for sure) For me personally and I think for a lot of married or LTR hetero dudes, is just getting passed being naked with another guy and not wanting it to become gay.... And not to be misunderstood I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST GAY IN ANY WAY....I am just not... So for me this was one thing that I made clear to him...but we both knew each other for a long time so it was pretty easy.. and the most important part of the equation is what SHE wants ... As her husband, I already know her limits as far as things she won't like and who or what type of guys she is attracted to...
I think you are on the right type of APP for it and I don't think in most circumstances it would workout too well in your social circles unless THIS COMMUNITY is your social circle ...if that makes sense? As the third it would definitely be good to read the profiles on here because some of them are pretty clear on what they are looking for and at that point all you can do is send them a message or like their stuff and then it is up to them to reciprocate. Since being on here for a very short time, we get lots of messages and 95 percent of them are for her so as a woman on here....they have a lot to choose from and if they don't get back to you...don't take it personal because it definitely may not have nothing to do with how you look or whatever... It is just that she may be into a VERY particular thing or type...

[Sq****]

Is there a more compact version?

[He****]

16 minutes ago, SquirrelandWrangler said:

Is there a more compact version?

Man and woman have 3some with friend... Is that understandable for you?? 😉

[Sq****]

8 minutes ago, HeatSeekers said:

Man and woman have 3some with friend... Is that understandable for you?? 😉

Who said it wasn't understandable? I started reading and realized I don't have the time to invest to that degree but still willing to hear a smaller, more compact version in case there could be valid input. 🙂

[He****]

8 minutes ago, SquirrelandWrangler said:

Who said it wasn't understandable? I started reading and realized I don't have the time to invest to that degree but still willing to hear a smaller, more compact version in case there could be valid input. 🙂

Fair enough.... The response would still be the same... Man and woman have 3some with friend.... 😂🤷

[Sq****]

Then I am either extremely excited for you or terribly sorry. Whichever applies accordingly to the rest of the details.

[He****]

5 hours ago, SquirrelandWrangler said:

Then I am either extremely excited for you or terribly sorry. Whichever applies accordingly to the rest of the details.

Ok I think I can summarize in 1 sentence :

It is never too late to try new adventures in your relationship.



The story and the whole build up to the event was the meat of it..... But I get it... I am not much for reading either...

[or****]

Coffee?

[Bi****]

That is an amazing experience, and i am happy for you both to find a new way to express your love and passion for each other!

[de****]

Honestly that was a really hot story loved the idea with the underwear. If you're looking for another experience I'd be happy taking turns on your wife

[Masterofbaits]

I can tell that it’s probably true. Because when something like this happens to me , the author in me wakes up. I have this need to tell it to somebody because you cant explain what you experienced to anyone in real life. Keep enjoying!

[He****]

Yesterday at 12:31 AM, Masterofbaits said:

I can tell that it’s probably true. Because when something like this happens to me , the author in me wakes up. I have this need to tell it to somebody because you cant explain what you experienced to anyone in real life. Keep enjoying!

You are correct...100% real. If anything, I left out a lot of spicy details because it was getting too long...