public strapping?

[ja****]

does anyone know how to wear a strap on in public without it being so ***fully obvious or uncomfortable?

[Do****]

That’s so weirdly interesting, what specs are you running and what are you wearing?

[Mr****]

I guess up in your ass

[Mr****]

I’m not wearing anything but regular clothes I was just making a smart ass point

[Sk****]

Find either a packer or something less rigid than a general strap-on. Still functional, but might take a bit more finesse.

[ba****]

Maybe through the waistband?? 😅😭 I was going to originally say one of those medieval knife things that straps to your thigh but I’m not sure if that’s practical 😭

[Xe****]

Welcome to the everyday struggle of being a dude.¯\_(ツ)_/¯ ha I kid

[ey****]

what is the purpose for wanting to wear one in public?

Strap ons are designed to point outwards for penetration - so like unless you got one that was both small and ultra soft there's going to be issues.   Unless, of course, you went for a packer, but that is similar but different. 

[my****]

Don’t they have something like this for crossdressing women? If not maybe you should invent a flaccid prosthetic.

[sk****]

I think you’re thinking about a packer, not sure though

[Deleted Member]

Yes, I know how to wear one.

[Ro****]

It's difficult because most strap ons are much longer than an actual non erect penis, a lot less flexible and the harness is designed to hold it standing out at an angle even an erect penis won't demonstrate (they normally hang down or angle up).

I'm guessing it needs to be in public, hence the not obvious. Are you expecting to be able to, for example, use it without needing to spend time changing into the harness?

If not, then the ideas above about packers are probably best - whatever it is that transmen use.

If you plan to be able to just get someone alone (say in a hotel room or club toilet) and be able to unzip and get straight to it, I'm not sure what will work other than finding one smaller and more flexible than many and angling it right.

You now have me wondering if there's a market for inflatable strap ons... or even if such exist now... all my experience of them has been when a dominant has taken time to put it on while I was tied up and blindfolded...

[wi****]

There are some pack-and-plays that are hollow/flaccid for when you want to pack, and they come with a hard rod you can insert when you want to use it for play. You could wear the packer and keep the rod in your pocket.

[Br****]

Gay