an**** Posted December 15, 2025 You do your shadowwork and finish healing yourself and raise your vibration
Ca**** Posted December 15, 2025 Love yourself, the way you want someone to love you. Cliché? Absolutely. Working? Barely. But it’s me, my standards, and a weighted blanket fighting the holiday loneliness 😬🫡 I’m just emotionally selective and currently unavailable to nonsense I need feelings, context, and at least one deep conversation first I refuse to outsource intimacy to people who skip the emotional foreplay It's anti-climactic. 😘
ho**** Posted December 15, 2025 Id have to of had to want more. Even worse. My mother passed away week ago and the cravings to just be around someone is the most difficult thing I've ever dealt with. Im turning into that crazy get off my property guy I think. Ill get through it but I might have to sell the ranch to say sane. Unless I try farmers only .Com 🤣
De**** Posted December 15, 2025 Uhh video games and music. Maybe dsbm isn’t good for mental health but it’s working so far
Wildmind420 Posted December 15, 2025 Suck it up and suffer through the depression because no one wants me even on my best days so I just have to deal with it alone.
ha**** Posted December 15, 2025 I go camping, drink bourbon, and big outrageously large camp fires. Oh, I also take Baileys for my perculated coffee
sardonicus87 Posted December 15, 2025 I like how everyone's response when you want more is to "just go do things alone", because that doesn't rein*** loneliness at all... *massive eye roll*. . Guess everyone else gave up and isn't trying either, explains why I'm the only one ever putting in effort. . It's an easy fix... people in "society" need to get over themselves, get out of their house without staring at their phone, and give people a chance. . Apparently, that's never going to happen, they'd all rather complain about being lonely while simultaneously not doing literally the only thing that can cure it.
sardonicus87 Posted December 15, 2025 *reinf 0 r c e. . Seriously, F.0.R.CE is censored even within another word? Jfc, that's another reason I can't stand the internet. I'm so tired of this place and hate that "online" is the only option.
De**** Posted December 16, 2025 6 hours ago, Wolf6114 said: I master bate a lot. The hand don’t talk back Real
ch**** Posted December 16, 2025 This is my first Christmas alone in 10 years, so if you find out, please help lol
Deleted Member Posted December 16, 2025 Communication that's the biggest turn on ever, with the right connection on the right level and oooshhh
Ad**** Posted December 18, 2025 This is my 6th Christmas single, it's rather lonely and I haven't really had a chance to connect with anyone yet.
Deleted Member Posted December 18, 2025 For this you have friends. They help you in the time when you feel alone and bored. When the snow falls on the street and the neighbors *** play outside. But you have to stay inside your apartment and don't know what to do. Prepare for this time earlier the year. Have some numbers on s***ddial who are in your league and give them a call. But is a boring Christmas not a gift for every maso chest? LOL.
ja**** Posted December 25, 2025 Men and women experience this entirely different, women are ***ed off that they can't find some perfect match that satisfies their demisexuality and all this other goofy stuff, meanwhile men can't even find women that will respond to them
Gentlemandom47 Posted December 26, 2025 I don’t think there’s a way to conquer it, honestly — at least not in the sense of defeating it or making it disappear. For people who are demisexual (or simply wired for depth), the holidays amplify what’s already there. The noise gets louder, the contrasts sharper. You’re surrounded by images of closeness, warmth, belonging — while knowing that what you want can’t be rushed, bought, or scrolled into existence. When words stop being enough, I think the answer isn’t to chase substitutes. That only makes the absence louder. What helps, for me, is tending to the conditions where connection could grow rather than trying to *** the feeling itself. Keeping routines. Looking after the body. Staying anchored in things that have weight and continuity — reading, walking, cooking properly, being present with people even when it isn’t romantic. It doesn’t replace touch, but it steadies you so loneliness doesn’t turn into desperation. I also try to remember that wanting more doesn’t mean something is wrong with me — it means I’m oriented toward meaning rather than immediacy. That’s harder in a world built on instant gratification, but it’s not a flaw. Sometimes the most compassionate thing you can do during the holidays is to allow the ache to exist without trying to numb it or explain it away — and trust that depth takes time, but when it arrives, it’s real. You’re not alone in feeling this way, even if it feels like it right now.
Deleted Member Posted December 29, 2025 Becoming poly or open relationship might help but it brings lots more responsibilities so it might not be a trade off !!! Being poly doesn’t mean a license to cheat. It means that if somebody cannot fulfill your needs !!!, that you can you can find somebody to fulfill that need, put you have to be open and honest !!!
Deleted Member Posted January 2 I'm right there with ya! Im alone and lonely and I don't have any prospects or exes to come over and help me out. I just need some flesh on flesh contact. And maybe a cute a** to eat
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