Opinions from subs/switches on being shared

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Monday at 11:12 PM, aligurl80 said:

My Master threatens to share me all the time. It’s His fantasy not mine. I am slave and have no limits with him so if I stay with him it will be an issue in the future.,Right now it’s just a fantasy that gets his aroused. He likes to tell me if as we are being intimate because he knows how much I hate it.. so it arouses him more when I say, “Whatever you wish Master”. I think he thinks it honestly turns me on but it doesn’t. In fact it does the opposite. I’m demisexual and so it’s only my love and bond with him that makes me want to be with him sexually and serve him at all. When he talks about sharing me it’s like a bit of that bond with him is chipped away.

The chipping away bond is chipping away trust. You have told him you don't like it, yet he still insists. It reminds me of guys where you tell them you don't like anal and don't do it, and then they touch your Anus while giving you oral.

Absolutely not. I said I didn't like it, and they are choosing their wishes over the autonomy of your body. So yeah, I can see exactly why it chips your trust. It'd chip mine, too

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Just now, astrafjord said:

The chipping away bond is chipping away trust. You have told him you don't like it, yet he still insists. It reminds me of guys where you tell them you don't like anal and don't do it, and then they touch your Anus while giving you oral.

Absolutely not. I said I didn't like it, and they are choosing their wishes over the autonomy of your body. So yeah, I can see exactly why it chips your trust. It'd chip mine, too

Autonomy and sense of safety over your body; when they threaten your limits like that, they're NOT safe

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Sunday at 02:24 PM, ShySub75 said:

Sharing should be discussed. A sub serves their Dom, not others.

Well said

[co****]

13 minutes ago, astrafjord said:

Autonomy and sense of safety over your body; when they threaten your limits like that, they're NOT safe

Limits exist for a reason and no one has the right to cross your limits without consent. And you, no matter the role you play in this lifestyle, have the right to say no and have your limits and boundaries respected.

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42 minutes ago, coffeewithcream said:

Limits exist for a reason and no one has the right to cross your limits without consent. And you, no matter the role you play in this lifestyle, have the right to say no and have your limits and boundaries respected.

Well said

[ai****]

If my owner decides to share me; then yes, I’ll have to be shared, since I’m his property. If he gets new toys, I won’t be able to do much; my owner takes away my freedom

[si****]

My former Domme used to share me. Moreso with males than females on a sexual scale. But the opposite for other things like domestic duties. Miss would find those who wanted to utilise me and would just tell me to “get ready. We’re going out”. Then take me to them. Or occasionally I could be just doing something and be told to see who was knocking on the door. With the exception of a couple of times where while I was home and She was at work and she organised for me to take care of someone’s needs. She was either there in the room or within earshot to ensure that a) I did as instructed (behaved myself. Did as required due to limits being set prior etc) b) as a reminder as such that what I was doing was to make Her happy.
Miss did cuckold me a couple of times of which I was required to be their fluffer and cleanup after. As well as “try” to sit still while watching and receive their humiliating and/or degrading comments.
All of which I absolutely loved and appreciate being a part of. Both for my own personal fulfilment and satisfaction etc of making Miss happy. But also by being able to “help” others.