Circumsexuality

[St****]

Are you getting aroused by the idea of someone being or getting cut?

How high and tight do you prefer a penis to be circumcised?

Would you ask your SO to get clipped for you?

Is it the looks, the feel, the control or the sacrifice for you?

[Ta****]

If a woman ever asked me to get cut, it would end the relationship instantly!!!

[Ne****]

Absolutely not. And I'm a lifelong body mod sado-maso sort.
Adamantly against genital mutil*tion of any kind, definitely societally/"medically" sanctioned, but also the idea of aesthetics and trending beauty notions and constructed standards.

After saying all of that, I wouldn't ever ask (def never insist!!) another being to change their body for my comfort or pleasure.

As a more personal preference, however a person wants THEIR genitalia to look, cool beans. I prefer in tact based on principles and not necessarily look - no pen*ses are visually appealing to me and they don't factor in to my pleasure, desire, will or much else until I am interacting with them and an issue .. uh .. arises.

In the realm of sacrifice: wow. What an incredible notion. As we are in this kink space, I'd speak to the fantastical aspect that is body altercation for others,🩸, ritual, the imagined depths of these matters [offering the very substances of which we are constructed, flesh and fluids, and these parts of our minds and spirits..] can be quite intoxicating.. consuming.. ego-feeding...

[PurplePleasure]

No, I'm aroused by looking at foreskins and then pictures of them retracted.

I prefer uncut and wished more parents would stop mutilating the genitals of their little boys without their consent.

[Ne****]

4 minutes ago, PurplePleasure said:

No, I'm aroused by looking at foreskins and then pictures of them retracted.

I prefer uncut and wished more parents would stop mutilating the genitals of their little boys without their consent.

They ARE amazing organs, and fascinating to observe.

[wo****]

I have a son, early ***s. The hospital asked, I was in favor of him being circumcised. My reasons were that I am uncircumcised, it’s familiar to me, and my perception is that women prefer this for the aesthetics in the USA at least. It’s much less common in my wife’s country of origin and she was strongly against it. I went along with her decision.

When my son was about five we were discussing how he should handle the hygiene, the difference between circumcised and uncircumcised, as well as how circumcision is done. I told him I was going to have him circumcised but his mother didn’t want to, so we didn’t.

He said “Thanks for not having the skin on my penis cut off mom” happily.

[wo****]

My reasons were that I am *circumcised*….

[Ne****]

The fact that so many [ANY?!!] men want and need their male offspring to have genitals (or any body part) look just like them and their own genitals is HORRIFYING to me.
I don't know what it's like to be a p*enis-possessor, but I cannot imagine ever thinking, actually wanting or desiring to say, "Awww I hope my Daughter has my cl*t/labia etc"!!!! What is happening in the minds of men? Oh wait, yeah - WE KNOW.

[PurplePleasure]

14 minutes ago, NexumSange said:

The fact that so many [ANY?!!] men want and need their male offspring to have genitals (or any body part) look just like them and their own genitals is HORRIFYING to me.
I don't know what it's like to be a p*enis-possessor, but I cannot imagine ever thinking, actually wanting or desiring to say, "Awww I hope my Daughter has my cl*t/labia etc"!!!! What is happening in the minds of men? Oh wait, yeah - WE KNOW.

I agree completely! The purpetuation of this then creates women that act horrible to men that are natural because it looks 'weird' just cause they haven't run across them before.

[Li****]

I am a complete fan of uncut, although I love all dick. Uncut there's just something so sexy to the foreskin and delicious. Also it's a fun prop, you never know what's going to pop up when you push it out 🤷‍♀️ .... yummy

[wo****]

1 hour ago, NexumSange said:

The fact that so many [ANY?!!] men want and need their male offspring to have genitals (or any body part) look just like them and their own genitals is HORRIFYING to me.
I don't know what it's like to be a p*enis-possessor, but I cannot imagine ever thinking, actually wanting or desiring to say, "Awww I hope my Daughter has my cl*t/labia etc"!!!! What is happening in the minds of men? Oh wait, yeah - WE KNOW.

I believe you. I bet there are other things you find horrifying too, particularly about men it seems like.

About the “we know” what’s happening in the minds of men comment- You passionately share *knowing* the negatives, not just YOU know, but an unnamed group that you call “we” also *know*.

I’m a man myself and I don’t think I have ever claimed to know what’s happening in the minds of men. Then again, I’m a man, so what do I know. That probably explains everything.

Is the group you refer to as we taking on new members? I wouldn’t mind having the ability to KNOW what half the world’s population has in their heads. I might not have the aptitude. After all I’m a man, and we know all about THEM.

Maybe I should just uncritically listen to and agree with everything the we group knows. Listen and obey. Yeah, that’s the ticket!

[wo****]

1 hour ago, PurplePleasure said:

I agree completely! The purpetuation of this then creates women that act horrible to men that are natural because it looks 'weird' just cause they haven't run across them before.

It’s men’s fault that women act horrible. Got it.

[ChastitySub4Use]

I was circumcised, had my frenum removed, urethra/glans split, nipples burnt away and various other mods as part of an insane relationship and I'm now sterile too.

I thought at time it was great - amazing how in a state of arousal a man can agree to the most stupidest of things. I now regret it.

I have lasting damage that can't be reversed and cause me daily issues. The lack of feeling in my glans or the fact my penis looks like something out of a horror movie is the least of my problems! 

Not only do I have to sit down to P, not in itself that bad you may think but trust me try finding a public mens toilet with a cubilce you'd wish to use, normally like 2 for every 20+ urinals. Also my P keeps leaking out for ages after P'ing and normally after I pulled my jeans back up..... Add on top of that that if I orgasm (which is nigh on impossible short of anal) it is a clear fluid that stinks like 2 day old smoked haddock........ 

Edited December 26, 2025 by ChastitySub4Use

[ChastitySub4Use]

oh and BTW when these things go wrong and you get infection or worse, try going into an NHS hospital in UK..... if you ever want *** don't bother paying (unless you count the NI we all pay anyway) as laying on a bed, in a corridor, fully exposed with a group of doctors and nurses examining you/tutting at you and while half the waiting room can see you is possibly the height of *** (and state of NHS) and at that point you are thinking why did I even think this was a good idea? ;-)

I developed gangerine in my penis after an infection got so bad. Thankfully the NHS did manage to actually resolve that and didn't resort to amputation of the limb....... but even so!

Edited December 26, 2025 by ChastitySub4Use

[wo****]

1 hour ago, ChastitySub4Use said:

I was circumcised, had my frenum removed, urethra/glans split, nipples burnt away and various other mods as part of an insane relationship and I'm now sterile too.

I thought at time it was great - amazing how in a state of arousal a man can agree to the most stupidest of things. I now regret it.

I have lasting damage that can't be reversed and cause me daily issues. The lack of feeling in my glans or the fact my penis looks like something out of a horror movie is the least of my problems! 

Not only do I have to sit down to P, not in itself that bad you may think but trust me try finding a public mens toilet with a cubilce you'd wish to use, normally like 2 for every 20+ urinals. Also my P keeps leaking out for ages after P'ing and normally after I pulled my jeans back up..... Add on top of that that if I orgasm (which is nigh on impossible short of anal) it is a clear fluid that stinks like 2 day old smoked haddock........ 

I applaud and respect the fact that despite going through all of that, and despite this causing considerable suffering and having a negative impact on your daily life - you don’t blame the other party. You don’t speak hatefully about them or any demographic, group or category of people they fit into.

Tremendous suffering, yet no blame. Lifelong serious negative impact on your life yet not even one bad word or negative sentiment about the other person. You take personal responsibility and hold yourself accountable despite all the damage and suffering.
PLEASE share what is in your mind as a person who is a penis possessor that enables you to live with all this and not just blame and hate the other person, and others like them.
It is impressive. My guess is that by using your approach instead you avoid a lot of internal emotional *** and suffering. Anger and resentment don’t feel pleasant when we indulge them. It’s very wise of you to not center yourself in or around them.
Lots of others would live their lives resenting and angry, believing it is righteous to be angry at the other person while taking no accountability for their own choices and decisions that factored into this. Many would attack, belittle, and ridicule anyone who even suggested they take responsibility for the part they played in this. Not you!
What do you attribute your ability to acknowledge and accept responsibility like you do? I genuinely want to know what you think. What do you attribute your ability to refrain from spewing anger, blame, and accusations about the other person involved. I genuinely want to know what you think about this too.
I commend you and think others will benefit from you sharing that knowledge and how you understand this ability you have so others can learn and benefit. I believe it will make the world a better place. Please share. Thanks for being you!

[ChastitySub4Use]

1 hour ago, woburn169344 said:

 

I applaud and respect the fact that despite going through all of that, and despite this causing considerable suffering and having a negative impact on your daily life - you don’t blame the other party. You don’t speak hatefully about them or any demographic, group or category of people they fit into.

Tremendous suffering, yet no blame. Lifelong serious negative impact on your life yet not even one bad word or negative sentiment about the other person. You take personal responsibility and hold yourself accountable despite all the damage and suffering.
PLEASE share what is in your mind as a person who is a penis possessor that enables you to live with all this and not just blame and hate the other person, and others like them.
It is impressive. My guess is that by using your approach instead you avoid a lot of internal emotional *** and suffering. Anger and resentment don’t feel pleasant when we indulge them. It’s very wise of you to not center yourself in or around them.
Lots of others would live their lives resenting and angry, believing it is righteous to be angry at the other person while taking no accountability for their own choices and decisions that factored into this. Many would attack, belittle, and ridicule anyone who even suggested they take responsibility for the part they played in this. Not you!
What do you attribute your ability to acknowledge and accept responsibility like you do? I genuinely want to know what you think. What do you attribute your ability to refrain from spewing anger, blame, and accusations about the other person involved. I genuinely want to know what you think about this too.
I commend you and think others will benefit from you sharing that knowledge and how you understand this ability you have so others can learn and benefit. I believe it will make the world a better place. Please share. Thanks for being you!

Thank you, that is very much appreciated.

No, I do not blame the other party because of many reasons:

1) I entered into it willingly and agreed to it. 

2) I am in a job where I have to manage and take control of a team of people. Even if they mess up I will always take the blame/responsibilty. Sure, we may have a stern discussion in private amongst the team but not openlly in front of managers and in many cases it was my lack of time or being stuck in meetings that caused team to take short cuts or make decisions that were wrong. They weren't at fault, I was. It was my job to ensure that shouldn't have happened. Many people do not understand that you get the high salary in part because you have to take responsibility and blame when things go wrong. So I'm already in that mindset?

3) My kinks/fetish are odd (extreme some might say) but I have been into them for over 40 years and had countless experiences and relationships. So I am experienced enough and mature enough to know that what I am getting myself into. Sure I may regret some things later but I take full responsibility because I agreed or wanted it or even begged for it at the time despite my Master/Mistress objecting to it.

4) I'm 58, so pretty old and not that I claim to be wise but I would say I have learnt to handle situations. What myself and my partner may argue about in private is not for public consumption and I have never blamed my partner publically for something we both entered into. That is not just relating to kink life, it applies to every day life too.

NOTE: I have had a few partners off this very site, one of which I fell in love with and despite our very fiery relationship which often ends in months at a time not speaking to each other after we swear at each other and don't see eye to eye, what happened between us is our private affair and I am equally as guilty as her in what happened. If she reads this she will know who I speak about. I still love and adore her even after everything that went on. I should clarify she was not involved in my mods, that was by a Master I took on a few years back and he is still a very close friend despite everything that went on. 

NOTE2: If you ask/beg your Master to inflict ***, treat your body as a piece of meat, ask to be used and ***d, shared and beg to have your genitals rendered uselsss etc etc than you must accept the responsibility. Should he have gone through with some of it? possibly not but I was the one that suggested it and coerced him into doing it.

NOTE3: I'm in a very senior position in my day job, it involves lots of responsibility and being very dominant. In my personal life I crave the exact opposite. So my mindset with my kink partner was of utter submission and I gave myself over to him utterly. (within a set of things I'd signed up for). It is hard to explain but some weeks I just get home and think god, I just want somebody else to make all the decisions in my life and  I want to be a total submissive mindless slave.
 

Edited December 26, 2025 by ChastitySub4Use

[ChastitySub4Use]

BTW Woburn, wanted to send you a private thank you message but can't as your profile prevents it so I'll say it here. Thank you very much for you understanding.

[wo****]

1 hour ago, ChastitySub4Use said:

Thank you, that is very much appreciated.

No, I do not blame the other party because of many reasons:

1) I entered into it willingly and agreed to it. 

2) I am in a job where I have to manage and take control of a team of people. Even if they mess up I will always take the blame/responsibilty. Sure, we may have a stern discussion in private amongst the team but not openlly in front of managers and in many cases it was my lack of time or being stuck in meetings that caused team to take short cuts or make decisions that were wrong. They weren't at fault, I was. It was my job to ensure that shouldn't have happened. Many people do not understand that you get the high salary in part because you have to take responsibility and blame when things go wrong. So I'm already in that mindset?

3) My kinks/fetish are odd (extreme some might say) but I have been into them for over 40 years and had countless experiences and relationships. So I am experienced enough and mature enough to know that what I am getting myself into. Sure I may regret some things later but I take full responsibility because I agreed or wanted it or even begged for it at the time despite my Master/Mistress objecting to it.

4) I'm 58, so pretty old and not that I claim to be wise but I would say I have learnt to handle situations. What myself and my partner may argue about in private is not for public consumption and I have never blamed my partner publically for something we both entered into. That is not just relating to kink life, it applies to every day life too.

NOTE: I have had a few partners off this very site, one of which I fell in love with and despite our very fiery relationship which often ends in months at a time not speaking to each other after we swear at each other and don't see eye to eye, what happened between us is our private affair and I am equally as guilty as her in what happened. If she reads this she will know who I speak about. I still love and adore her even after everything that went on. I should clarify she was not involved in my mods, that was by a Master I took on a few years back and he is still a very close friend despite everything that went on. 

NOTE2: If you ask/beg your Master to inflict ***, treat your body as a piece of meat, ask to be used and ***d, shared and beg to have your genitals rendered uselsss etc etc than you must accept the responsibility. Should he have gone through with some of it? possibly not but I was the one that suggested it and coerced him into doing it.

NOTE3: I'm in a very senior position in my day job, it involves lots of responsibility and being very dominant. In my personal life I crave the exact opposite. So my mindset with my kink partner was of utter submission and I gave myself over to him utterly. (within a set of things I'd signed up for). It is hard to explain but some weeks I just get home and think god, I just want somebody else to make all the decisions in my life and  I want to be a total submissive mindless slave.
 

Thanks for sharing all of that. You covered a lot and explained quite clearly how and why you have that mindset, thank you for sharing and taking the time to do so. I am a strong believer in taking responsibility for our own choices, actions, and the consequences of those actions.
I also really like and respect your approach to managing and taking responsibility for your team and all the potential negative outcomes as a leader. I think it is a significant factor in career advancement, particularly when supervising and managing teams/others. You serve as a great example for all and explained all of it very well. Aspiring leaders can learn from this and benefit by adopting your mindset.
You certainly outperformed any hopes and expectations I had with this post. I admire you. That is something I have a very high bar and standard before I put someone in that category.
Kudos to you for being the way you are. I believe everyone who adopts your approach to life stands to benefit a great deal.
Thanks again for taking the time to share all that , and for doing an excellent job doing so.

[ChastitySub4Use]

Thank you.

Trust me, when your boss tells you on a friday afternoon he has just signed up a new customer on the caveat they get a demo of a product that doesn't even exist but he has promised them a demo of it on the following monday you'd understand my issues.... ;-)

Er, so that is 30 days work and we have 2 days to complete it? and I have to ask my team to work the weekend?

Gives you some idea as to why I came home on a friday night and think fuck it I want my foreskin removed (actually thought about alot worse but Mster wouldn't dream of going through with it....)....... LOL

PS. He wonders why I smoke 40 a day..... 

Edited December 26, 2025 by ChastitySub4Use

[ChastitySub4Use]

and PPS for anybody ever contemplating doing this a BIG WARNING, it is not like in the porn vids. I bled so much, literally squirting out ***, that I had to have a tourniquet around my penis while being driven to A&E. Do not even think about doing any penis mods at home. The risk is insane both from *** loss and infection. My mods were done with a hot filament knife, similar to a soldering iron but with a filament blade, medical type. Even that did not successfully cauterise the wounds.

and anybody that wants to see the results message me and I will provide pic. Just don't look at it while eating your boxing day meal ;-) My girlfriend/Mistresses first reaction when seeing it was OMG, it is so ugly and it has a hole ini t!

Edited December 26, 2025 by ChastitySub4Use

[Ta****]

As a foreskin owner, I can say a lot of my sexual stimulation comes from that bit of skin.

[ChastitySub4Use]

20 minutes ago, Tarvanh68 said:

As a foreskin owner, I can say a lot of my sexual stimulation comes from that bit of skin.

as a guy without a foreskin I can confrim that I have very little feeling or enjoyment through my glans.

Be aware though that the foreskin is not the issue. My frenum removal happened before my foreskin removal. The lack of frenum means the foreskin can't naturally pull up/cover the glans. So you lose sensitivity with just the frenum removal. After having my frenum removed I never had my forsekin naturally pull over my glans and in fact it gradually dimished even without being cut.

and in my case I'd guss at about 90% of pleasure/stimulation being lost with removal of frenum

Edited December 27, 2025 by ChastitySub4Use

[ChastitySub4Use]

@woburn169344 this message will probably get deleted but just in case you get chance to read it, I have now submitted a new thread about scammers but was refused by the mods, they claimed it was because it was a dupe post, so I replied to existing thread that they linked me to but they then closed that thread down. The site is now infiiltrated by scammers, prositutues and financial dommes etc. The mods shut down anything that dares suggest this so likely this messgae will last all of 5 minutes. The scammers now ask for emails and names within their first messsage or so and they have all been German in my recent experience. Coincenitally the country the site uses for its payment system? I do not believe any of these people are genuine and after a few minutes have found that they wouldn't know what a body mod was to save their lives.  Why are the mods so desparate to close down any discission on this?

PS. CURIOSULY ALL THESE NEW SPAMMERS ARE PREMIUM/VIP MEMBERS...... 

Edited December 28, 2025 by ChastitySub4Use