HOW I FOUND MY FIRST KINK

[br****]

First time you felt seen, turned on, or just... unlocked. Tell your origin story. 🤩

[Be****]

I was 21 when I started taking massage therapy classes, and in my third class when I had to massage a man for the first time.I instantly got a direction in class and found out.I like massaging men along with women

[Be****]

Erection not direction

[synkha]

Just some random BDSM porn i found while searching :0

[Deleted Member]

Looking through adult sites when I was 19. So many kinks unlocked.

[wa****]

It was through porn and surfing the web I unlocked many kinks

[Ma****]

Found mine around two years ago. Thought about how I could control and tease while having fun - and not causing *** or degrading anyone. Googled it next to the word porn. Found a bunch. Clicked on one, had the Orgasm of my life - and knew from then on what my main kink is: tickling.

[Deleted Member]

First time I realized I was a Dom was when I met a sub, it just unlocked everything else immediately.. lol.. I also loved the first time a girl told me she likes spit play and rimming me, those 2 situations unlocked new adventures for me

[Eb****]

Except for finding different porn that I got turned on by, my first actual practiced kink was fisting. I had a Fwb who was a few years older than me. One night i was going down on her and she wanted more and more fingers. Suddenly my entire hand was inside of her. That's a short version of how I in practice found my first kink.

[ur****]

As a kid watching scooby doo I liked seeing Daphne tied up too much. This is why im into redheads and bondage

[JackJonesHull]

Whether it was the first time or not is debatable. Probably not the first time as I remember having handcuffs in my pocket, but it's the first I can remember clearly.
I would have been about 18 when my then girlfriend had me handcuff her to a cast iron radiator.

[ho****]

Everyone’s so original and mine is just from watching porn

[Deleted Member]

We used to do this drive to help women get like prom dresses and I late at night I went and stole a pair of panties and dressed up in the night and secretly enjoyed it and now years later im starting to buy my own fem clothes to get back into it

[Wr****]

I was a young naive man at a bar and approached a woman and asked her if I could buy her a drink she said only if you buy my husband one. I said absolutely. We all were having drinks, dancing having laughs. The gentleman said to me that his wife really liked me. I said to him that I liked her also. Then he said no she really likes you. Again I said I like also. Totally clueless. Then he asked if I wanted to get a room. Boom mind blowing 🤯. He explained that he liked watch his wife getting fucked. He ask if I have any problem getting and staying erect. I said no and the answer still now is no...lol. long story short we got a room and from that day I made 2 wonderful lifetime friends. I have been in the swinger lifestyle ever since.

[Deleted Member]

Funnily enough, stories. I read a lot of stories that involved ki@napping, Daddy Dom's, Rules, Spankings, general punishments and rewards, and other. It always turned me on or made me feel a twinge in my heart that what I was reading was what I wanted. I researched it properly as story BDSM is only a drop of real BDSM and not a good way to learn and after researching enough I figured out what EXACTLY gets me going. The gentle treatment with a bit more of a f@rceful touch just really gets me 🥹🐇

[de****]

I met a woman online. Went round and was in a bedroom when I heard a noise from the next room. She said it’s my husband. It’s ok he knows. At 1st I was like oh hang on. But I found it hot.
We met a few times after that while he was downstairs. From there I found I wanted to try more. And 2 years later I find myself a pleasure dom with a sub.
Along the way I have tried many things and enjoy them all. Very versatile.
Love the swinging life.

[za****]

When i was younger my bedroom window faced the neighbors bedroom window amd sometimes the curtain would be left slightly opened and i was fortunate enough towatch my neighbor and his wife do alot of crazy shit. Alot of tying up alot of costumes an imsame amount of toys being inserted on both partners

[Cr****]

I found mine thanks to online roleplay on some old 3d chat app.

[Ste501172]

One of my exes, I was in my mid 20's and we hadn't been dating long when she said I'm into BDSM. I had a vague idea of what it was but not really the specifics of how.a D/S dynamic would work. I found I enjoyed being a Dom, it fitted in with my personality and what I enjoyed sexually as well as being dominant outside the bedroom as well with her. Was a great learning curve and set me on the path I've been on more or less up to the present day.

[Deleted Member]

My ex cheated on me & after all the angry emotions left, I found myself more curious and turned on.

[fo****]

When my ex sat on my face the first time although I’m primarily dominant I loved the loss of control and feeling smothered

[Fi****]

Ex wanted to spice things up with another couple. I agreed (after a lot of talk and convincing). We had several encounters but, alas things went bad. Had nothing to do with the fun times, but it was the beginning of my kink for threesome, foursome and moresome... expanded my horizons for sure.

[SeduceMySynapse]

Narcissist didn’t touch me or give me any attention for weeks!! I felt used but I got hooked in so many times. He did give but not sexual touch. But I gave him pleasure. Then finally he gave me what o wanted out of nowhere! I went quickly into subspace. It was….. intense.

Never had anything like it again, sadly.

[Pr****]

the first time I really felt kinky was when my gf told me a guy kept telling her about how much he liked me....
my gf didn't want to have intercourse so we only did oral and anal...

after a few months I became very interested in how it would feel to be in her shoes during anal....
I started remembering the guy she told me about and found that he lived close to me.
we rode the bus together home from school and would talk about all of his kinky fantasies and I kept feeding into it telling him I'd do anything he wanted..

I ended up cheating on my girl and was a total slut for this guy... I only regret that I didn't tell her about it, but I don't believe she ever really knew what was going on, so I hope there was no real hurt feelings (we broke up for an unrelated situation..)
I fall in love with women, but I can't imagine feeling satisfied without a man to use me when I feel like I need it..

I'm not sure I've ever met a girl that would be interested in me after telling her I'm bi, but I don't want to be in a relationship again without telling my partner about my proclivities....

[Deleted Member]

I'm a male that was emotionally, financially, physically, and even sexually ***d without my consent for years. My ex wife was an attorney (and even the local attorney responsible for prosecuting the exact crimes she committed against me for parts of that time) and violent, and I ***ed there was no safe way out.
Once I managed to make an escape without getting ***ed, I started flirting via text or snap, some phone sex. Sometimes it was with other *** survivors, women I'd met in online support groups, because we knew how to make the other comfortable despite recent ***.

I realized I'm a dom, because I need to have that control to feel safe. But I also realized because of what I'd been through just how important the mutual consent is - and it's the dom that is responsible for maintaining that. That responsibility itself is appealing to me.
It's hot to push boundaries, but never hot to break them.