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What Being a Feeder for 2 Years has taught me


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So when I first got into Feedism 2 years ago. I | initially thought it was just full of people meeting others people to feed them and eventually get into a relationship from there. It took me a while about half of the the year to figure out what I liked about actually doing it for me to see that its really just learning about what my sub and there needs. But I do love what someone just Devour a Fucking Burger or 2 gets my mind all Boggled up @e
Also l've learned I'm not that deep into my significant other not having mobility I'm really mostly into them just getting fed then getting aftercare afterwards.
There's categories to it there's

Soft Core Feedism: Feedees, like who like to eat, Gainers who have a certain goal, Feeders like my Self who just loves stuffing someone till they look like they could have some more
they caring for there
significant other
2.Hardcore Feedism: basically just consist of very large proportions and then really just giving into their gluttony
3.Then there's what everyone only thinks it is Death Feedist, death Feeders, Death Gainers
Either way some people they might not like it to other people they do. What do y'all think? What are your experiences of it?

34 minutes ago, Starfish1234 said:

Wtf

That is inappropriate. Be tolerant and respectful.

I guess kink shaming is a thing on here šŸ’€

I’m not shaming. I didn’t know this was even a real thing

Oh then that’s alright then yea. A lot of People are getting into it now more then ever it’s been paying my friend in the pics rents she’s made a couple Bucks about 4 figures just doing it for the past couple years others I see on TLC who are deeper about 5-6 this is just women though the men probably about 4 figures unless there really fucking big

That’s wild. I thought it was a fake post. Never heard of driving down sandwiches & getting gluttonous was part of a kink or sexual thing. Congrats if it’s making stacks!

I’ve been an ethical feeder for about 2 years

I’ve never fed anyone into immobility cause I have a stopping point so does most of the people I meet n feed @lilithedivine I’m not a Death Feeder

18 minutes ago, ChocolateDFF said:

I’ve been an ethical feeder for about 2 years

Ok buddy, you don't see absolutely anything wrong about making someone eat 8000 calories a day as your profile claims. As long as they don't die or become immobile that's perfectly fine šŸ™‚ Cardiovascular and metabolic disease, joint problems, respiratory issues, cancer risk, this is where you don't draw the line.

Message to any moderator here wanting to delete my comments because of "personal attacks". Shame on you for facilitating predatory behavior on this app. OP's kink cannot be performed in any way that is sane or safe and while you are here silencing criticism, you're allowing *** to continue. How can you sleep at night?

Just now, liliththedivine said:

Message to any moderator here wanting to delete my comments because of "personal attacks". Shame on you for facilitating predatory behavior on this app. OP's kink cannot be performed in any way that is sane or safe and while you are here silencing criticism, you're allowing *** to continue. How can you sleep at night?

Abu*se

I'm a feeder and I do believe aftercare is extremely important, however if hard-core feeding with no aftercare is requested then that is also provided.
There is no better feeling then watching someone devour your load or even assisting them with feeding.

Wow, there is a lot of negativity here, I'm quite disappointed. Its ok to just say that kink isn't for you and move on. This particular kink requires a strong long term grasp on limits and of that makes you uncomfortable, that's understandable, but please. I get panicked at latex because my brain automatically associates it with suffocation, and that's valid, but people are allowed to enjoy it. Feeding is an extension of care, quite directly. And I enjoy an emotional kink.

2 minutes ago, dirtylilhippie said:

Wow, there is a lot of negativity here, I'm quite disappointed. Its ok to just say that kink isn't for you and move on. This particular kink requires a strong long term grasp on limits and of that makes you uncomfortable, that's understandable, but please. I get panicked at latex because my brain automatically associates it with suffocation, and that's valid, but people are allowed to enjoy it. Feeding is an extension of care, quite directly. And I enjoy an emotional kink.

Correct the negative remarks are not needed. If it's not your thing great, move along. I refuse to submit to any man ever this is why I am dominant however I don't knock it at all.

30 minutes ago, dirtylilhippie said:

Wow, there is a lot of negativity here, I'm quite disappointed. Its ok to just say that kink isn't for you and move on. This particular kink requires a strong long term grasp on limits and of that makes you uncomfortable, that's understandable, but please. I get panicked at latex because my brain automatically associates it with suffocation, and that's valid, but people are allowed to enjoy it. Feeding is an extension of care, quite directly. And I enjoy an emotional kink.

So you're basically comparing a kink that has a potential for de-ath (feederism) with one that is harmless (latex) and I'm supposed to treat them as the same thing? But oh no! The negativity!

30 minutes ago, Floridafun69 said:

Correct the negative remarks are not needed. If it's not your thing great, move along. I refuse to submit to any man ever this is why I am dominant however I don't knock it at all.

I wonder how aftercare works in feederism. Do you encourage the person to be healthy from now on? Do you offer to pay their medical bills?

7 minutes ago, liliththedivine said:

I wonder how aftercare works in feederism. Do you encourage the person to be healthy from now on? Do you offer to pay their medical bills?

1st you must educate yourself on the kink before commenting as if you know anything about it.
Ofcourse a person can get sick if they consume from an individual that may be sick. That is common sense. However this kink is developed through time and you as an eater make sure the person is not sick or on any type of meds. Again this is all consensual. Oh your reference to latex ppl do have latex allergy that can also harm them. Fyi

25 minutes ago, liliththedivine said:

So you're basically comparing a kink that has a potential for de-ath (feederism) with one that is harmless (latex) and I'm supposed to treat them as the same thing? But oh no! The negativity!

Honestly you sound a little paranoid. Yes, suffocation from neglect is real. I could lose a limb to my ropes. We use safety words. We carefully monitor our activities to keep them safe and regulated. Obviously its more complicated staying safe and the *** risk is real here, but its all that way. We don't shame risky behavior, that is the Whole. Damn. Point.

15 minutes ago, dirtylilhippie said:

Honestly you sound a little paranoid. Yes, suffocation from neglect is real. I could lose a limb to my ropes. We use safety words. We carefully monitor our activities to keep them safe and regulated. Obviously its more complicated staying safe and the *** risk is real here, but its all that way. We don't shame risky behavior, that is the Whole. Damn. Point.

"We don't shame risky behavior". YES WE DO. Bdsm is supposed to be SAFE, sane and consensual. There are ways you can do bondage while keeping it safe, but there is no way you can make somebody overweight and keep it safe. How do you "monitor" someone in feederism? OP has openly admitted he's into making someone eat 8000 calories a day. Doesn't sound like much monitoring to me.

3 minutes ago, liliththedivine said:

"We don't shame risky behavior". YES WE DO. Bdsm is supposed to be SAFE, sane and consensual. There are ways you can do bondage while keeping it safe, but there is no way you can make somebody overweight and keep it safe. How do you "monitor" someone in feederism? OP has openly admitted he's into making someone eat 8000 calories a day. Doesn't sound like much monitoring to me.

Honey, I hate to break it to you, but this shit ain't safe, and if that's how you feel, you arent educated enough to be in these spaces. Get out now before you get hurt in ways you don't ask for.

35 minutes ago, Floridafun69 said:

1st you must educate yourself on the kink before commenting as if you know anything about it.
Ofcourse a person can get sick if they consume from an individual that may be sick. That is common sense. However this kink is developed through time and you as an eater make sure the person is not sick or on any type of meds. Again this is all consensual. Oh your reference to latex ppl do have latex allergy that can also harm them. Fyi

You can only get sick if your feeder is sick or on meds and not because of the act of eating way too much? šŸ˜…
Latex is unsafe for allergics and safe for those who aren't. Feederism is self-destructive for every eater. There's no comparison.

4 minutes ago, dirtylilhippie said:

Honey, I hate to break it to you, but this shit ain't safe, and if that's how you feel, you arent educated enough to be in these spaces. Get out now before you get hurt in ways you don't ask for.

No, get out yourself since you're unable to admit that some acts are inherently harmful regardless of the situation.
You are the irresponsible person, not me.

17 minutes ago, liliththedivine said:

No, get out yourself since you're unable to admit that some acts are inherently harmful regardless of the situation.
You are the irresponsible person, not me.

I don't think the point you made here is the one you thought you made. I literally said everything is risky. All of it is inherently harmful. You are seeing risk with this kink but no where else. That's the safety issue here. A Dom can ***, a sub can allow it. That's the risk here. Same as the rest.

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