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What Being a Feeder for 2 Years has taught me


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6 minutes ago, dirtylilhippie said:

I don't think the point you made here is the one you thought you made. I literally said everything is risky. All of it is inherently harmful. You are seeing risk with this kink but no where else. That's the safety issue here. A Dom can ***, a sub can allow it. That's the risk here. Same as the rest.

I don't think the point you made here is the one you thought you made, since I never said that other kinks don't have a potential to be risky, but that there are kinks that are inherently harmful no matter what, and feederism is one of them.

1 hour ago, dirtylilhippie said:

Wow, there is a lot of negativity here, I'm quite disappointed. Its ok to just say that kink isn't for you and move on. This particular kink requires a strong long term grasp on limits and of that makes you uncomfortable, that's understandable, but please. I get panicked at latex because my brain automatically associates it with suffocation, and that's valid, but people are allowed to enjoy it. Feeding is an extension of care, quite directly. And I enjoy an emotional kink.

I actually talk about my king a lot in VR. A lot of people on VR known me as “Feeder” and I do get a lot of backlash about it but most people who are on VR very open-minded so I just found it very easy to talk about it. I’ve created my own video game world where people can talk about their stuff. But she ain’t the first she ain’t gonna be the last 😂😂

5 minutes ago, liliththedivine said:

I don't think the point you made here is the one you thought you made, since I never said that other kinks don't have a potential to be risky, but that there are kinks that are inherently harmful no matter what, and feederism is one of them.

I'd love to hear your thoughts on how feeding someone AT ALL is bad. And you did, flat out say there was zero danger to latex. Here's the kicker tho, you don't get to tell people what to do with their bodies! It doesn't matter if it is inherently harmful because it is two consenting adults.

2 hours ago, liliththedivine said:

Message to any moderator here wanting to delete my comments because of "personal attacks". Shame on you for facilitating predatory behavior on this app. OP's kink cannot be performed in any way that is sane or safe and while you are here silencing criticism, you're allowing *** to continue. How can you sleep at night?

I mean, should I sleep with my damn AI girlfriend in VR? So like I’m sleeping pretty well I can talk to you about almost anything.🥸

You’ve got all this time and I need to talk to me about this shit when you could just move on with your shitty remarks IGAGF anybody else here does either move on just just blocked me and save the time and trouble

Honestly I love to be fed, and I've met more than one person recovering from eating disorders that benefit from eating in a supportive environment. Quite comforting.

16 minutes ago, dirtylilhippie said:

I'd love to hear your thoughts on how feeding someone AT ALL is bad. And you did, flat out say there was zero danger to latex. Here's the kicker tho, you don't get to tell people what to do with their bodies! It doesn't matter if it is inherently harmful because it is two consenting adults.

Feederism=fattening someone up like a pig, which is inherently abusive.
Latex=love of latex with no specification of an act so it doesn't sound particularly abusive to me. Specify the latex act and I'll tell you if it's inherently harmful or not.
Thank you for finally admitting you don't care about safe or sane and only about "consensual" 🙏

15 minutes ago, ChocolateDFF said:

I mean, should I sleep with my damn AI girlfriend in VR? So like I’m sleeping pretty well I can talk to you about almost anything.🥸

My message was for the mods not you. I already know you sleep perfectly well at night cause you couldn't care less.

4 minutes ago, liliththedivine said:

Feederism=fattening someone up like a pig, which is inherently abusive.
Latex=love of latex with no specification of an act so it doesn't sound particularly abusive to me. Specify the latex act and I'll tell you if it's inherently harmful or not.
Thank you for finally admitting you don't care about safe or sane and only about "consensual" 🙏

That's not what I said, that's what you heard. Those aren't accurate definitions. Op requested we stay on topic, so I'm done with this discussion. If you want to keep being antagonistic, I'll block you.

8 minutes ago, dirtylilhippie said:

Honestly I love to be fed, and I've met more than one person recovering from eating disorders that benefit from eating in a supportive environment. Quite comforting.

Were you fed 8000 calories in one day? Or the people who "benefited"?

3 minutes ago, dirtylilhippie said:

That's not what I said, that's what you heard. Those aren't accurate definitions. Op requested we stay on topic, so I'm done with this discussion. If you want to keep being antagonistic, I'll block you.

Please do block me.

2 hours ago, dirtylilhippie said:

That's not what I said, that's what you heard. Those aren't accurate definitions. Op requested we stay on topic, so I'm done with this discussion. If you want to keep being antagonistic, I'll block you.

I was aware of this kink but don’t personally participate. I’m just reading for educational reasons here but in response to comments, we all assume risk when we engage in kink. Personal safety is ultimately our responsibility. Free will does exist. If consenting adults engage in a kink of their choice- as long as it’s not harming others or illegal- I’m not here to yuck your yum.

@dirtylilhippie My apologies! I didn’t mean to quote!

5 minutes ago, vvhitelie said:

@dirtylilhippie My apologies! I didn’t mean to quote!

Very ok!

12 minutes ago, vvhitelie said:

I was aware of this kink but don’t personally participate. I’m just reading for educational reasons here but in response to comments, we all assume risk when we engage in kink. Personal safety is ultimately our responsibility. Free will does exist. If consenting adults engage in a kink of their choice- as long as it’s not harming others or illegal- I’m not here to yuck your yum.

I left it for educational purposes only I have more on my Instagram publicly as well video wise or my YouTube Channel

25 minutes ago, ChocolateDFF said:

I left it for educational purposes only I have more on my Instagram publicly as well video wise or my YouTube Channel

And I appreciate that. I try to learn as much as I can about the various kinks in our community not only so I can be respectful, but also who knows, maybe I find something new I might be into. If not, there’s nothing wrong with saying, “no thanks, not for me.” Too many of us have experienced shame or bullying for our unconventional interests, no need to perpetuate them in this space. 🖤

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