Women's Real Orgasm Talk The Kind they Don't Usually Say Out Loud

[mr****]

This conversation is for women who actually experience orgasms and want to speak honestly about them

Men can read. This conversation isn't for you

Not all orgasms are the same and I'm curious about the real range of experiences beyond what usually gets shared

Clitoral versus vaginal versus anal versus combination.

Do they truly feel different for you or does it depend more on context comfort and connection

Intensity versus duration.

In the moment which one matters more to you

Solo versus partnered orgasms.

Is there a real quality difference or is it simply preference

Multiple smaller orgasms versus one deeply intense one.

If you had to choose which would you take every time

What makes an orgasm genuinely satisfying instead of something that just technically happened

Real lived experiences only. No theory no gbt answers

[CuriousRose]

Clitoral is typically super quick and doesn’t last for me. It’s one of those areas that gets you there quicker. Vaginal penetration orgasms tend to have only worked while I was on top paired with clitoral stimulation most of the time. I have had orgasms where the person I was with knew what they were doing and angled themselves the right way to hit the other internal areas that lead to orgasming. Those tend to have a longer length of orgasm for me.

Foreplay is something that I need to and in order for me to have a deep satisfying orgasm there needs to be a lot and a tremendous amount of care for each other. So I prefer deeply intense ones rather than a bunch of small ones. I mean. Ideally I would want a bunch of small ones and longer big ones but that doesn’t happen often.

Anal orgasms I have had before just with anal alone and nothing else. That is hard for me to explain what it feels like, it’s quite internal and it does feel good and different than a normal orgasm cia clitoral or vaginal penetration.

As for alone it’s great every time but I do miss that special connection with someone to get there. But at least I know my body, where to touch to feel good and get me to climax.

[gl****]

Ohyessssssssssssss. I simply love to ssssllllllloooooowwwwwwllllllyyyyyy, sensually, alightin every singly molecule of available erotic energy into your pleasure.
mmmmmmm to feel your body, listen to your moans and groans the way you squeeze me…..
Yes, I think you know what I am referring to!!!!

[Se****]

1 hour ago, CuriousRose said:

Clitoral is typically super quick and doesn’t last for me. It’s one of those areas that gets you there quicker. Vaginal penetration orgasms tend to have only worked while I was on top paired with clitoral stimulation most of the time. I have had orgasms where the person I was with knew what they were doing and angled themselves the right way to hit the other internal areas that lead to orgasming. Those tend to have a longer length of orgasm for me.

Foreplay is something that I need to and in order for me to have a deep satisfying orgasm there needs to be a lot and a tremendous amount of care for each other. So I prefer deeply intense ones rather than a bunch of small ones. I mean. Ideally I would want a bunch of small ones and longer big ones but that doesn’t happen often.

Anal orgasms I have had before just with anal alone and nothing else. That is hard for me to explain what it feels like, it’s quite internal and it does feel good and different than a normal orgasm cia clitoral or vaginal penetration.

As for alone it’s great every time but I do miss that special connection with someone to get there. But at least I know my body, where to touch to feel good and get me to climax.

honestly tho same

[Bl****]

1 hour ago, CuriousRose said:

Clitoral is typically super quick and doesn’t last for me. It’s one of those areas that gets you there quicker. Vaginal penetration orgasms tend to have only worked while I was on top paired with clitoral stimulation most of the time. I have had orgasms where the person I was with knew what they were doing and angled themselves the right way to hit the other internal areas that lead to orgasming. Those tend to have a longer length of orgasm for me.

Foreplay is something that I need to and in order for me to have a deep satisfying orgasm there needs to be a lot and a tremendous amount of care for each other. So I prefer deeply intense ones rather than a bunch of small ones. I mean. Ideally I would want a bunch of small ones and longer big ones but that doesn’t happen often.

Anal orgasms I have had before just with anal alone and nothing else. That is hard for me to explain what it feels like, it’s quite internal and it does feel good and different than a normal orgasm cia clitoral or vaginal penetration.

As for alone it’s great every time but I do miss that special connection with someone to get there. But at least I know my body, where to touch to feel good and get me to climax.

Very well articulated 👏

[Nu****]

I do orgasm pretty easily with all of the ways you've suggested. Sometimes one can even just roll into another one. But yes there are differences. I can cum analy also. I can only describe those as being more intense. It's a more aggressive primal type of orgasm as opposed to one vaginally with or without the clit those ones can be felt throughout my whole body. I do think I have longer deeper can feel it for several minutes afterwards orgasms when I do it by myself. I do use toys and a bullet on my clit. I just really know my body and what it likes. It also helps that I have a lot of phone sex due to where my husband is.

[Do****]

"men can read" true, but they never bother to read instructions. 😂 The women aren't surprised your request got ignored, are you? LoL

Anyways, back on topic... What makes an orgasm genuinely satisfying is the connection I have with my partner. Sure, my body can respond accordingly to any of the simulations you've described, but the ones I will continuously seek out are the ones where I have a good lustful and/or loving connection with my partner. Even by myself, if I am not in the right state of mind then there's no satisfaction guaranteed.

Stop focusing on only her physical pleasure and consider eliminating her mental distractions before engaging - that's how you give mind blowing orgasms.

[Do****]

*stimulations, not simulations

[1P****]

DonaFlor - Youre exactly right! Ladies, Im not commenting on yall's asked opinions topic. I am backing up this lady here. 💯

[wb****]

I’ve never had an orgasm during sex, I’ve come close but then something changes and it’s gone. Doesn’t seem to matter how I say to not change anything, something always changes. Needless to say I’m a royal *** if my partner is set on me finishing.

I have squirted twice, no orgasm with just the squirt. I know weird, story of my life.

I have gotten very good at taking care of me. But like I discussed in a different post, I have to be completely A LONE. Not on phone, or video with someone, I can’t even finish if I know I’m going to send it to someone. I apparently have trust issues.

With that said I can orgasm in as quick at 2 min or have it take as long as 20 min or rarely not at all. When I do finally orgasm it is from manual clitoris (no vibrator) and my whole body spasms a few times then it’s just my vagina for a min or two more.
I can’t answer about vaginal or anal because, well hasn’t happened. Daddy’s come very close but not quite.

[ph****]

I prefer the slow buildup of smaller orgasms into intense ones. I can’t do that for myself alone though. That requires assistance. It’s hard for me to find someone I trust to fully relax with to make me squirt. I can make myself orgasm alone, it’s just not as good. It lasts longer if I use my fingers rather than a toy. The toys do get it done just more intense small orgasms and much quicker.

[li****]

The more feelings you have for the person, the better it feels. An orgasm isn't a milestone to me. It's actually easy to achieve and I'm not interested in multiple orgasms. Having an orgasm that actually feels better than masturbating - that's something else.

[re****]

2 hours ago, wbl51265 said:

I’ve never had an orgasm during sex, I’ve come close but then something changes and it’s gone. Doesn’t seem to matter how I say to not change anything, something always changes. Needless to say I’m a royal *** if my partner is set on me finishing.

I have squirted twice, no orgasm with just the squirt. I know weird, story of my life.

I have gotten very good at taking care of me. But like I discussed in a different post, I have to be completely A LONE. Not on phone, or video with someone, I can’t even finish if I know I’m going to send it to someone. I apparently have trust issues.

With that said I can orgasm in as quick at 2 min or have it take as long as 20 min or rarely not at all. When I do finally orgasm it is from manual clitoris (no vibrator) and my whole body spasms a few times then it’s just my vagina for a min or two more.
I can’t answer about vaginal or anal because, well hasn’t happened. Daddy’s come very close but not quite.

Are you transparent in letting him know you don’t orgasm?

[wb****]

53 minutes ago, reddington98 said:

Are you transparent in letting him know you don’t orgasm?

Absolutely

[Go****]

I'm part of the 20% that experiences orgasms from penetration. They're much more intense orgasms for me than clit stimulation. But I can only squirt from clit stimulation. I'm also not fully satisfied unless I've had multiple orgasms. Orgasms with a partner are much more intense for me than when I play solo.

[ba****]

I can experience full body orgasms since spending time on hormones.(5 years)I can squirt from anal , however not vaginal, unfortunately I don't have a vaginal canal ( zero depth so I can't speak on that unfortunately. But can definitely orgasm from clitoral stimulation. For me connection and comfort is a huge factor in how satisfying the orgasm is. I prefer one intense orgasm over several smaller ones. I would take one massive orgasm over several smaller ones any day. I just feel that one big one takes my breathe away and I'm just in total exctasy for several minutes after.

[re****]

Yesterday at 12:31 AM, wbl51265 said:

Absolutely

Maybe you’ll have to guide him on how to please you properly.