WHAT HOLDS ME BACK

[ji****]

Yes access

[Te****]

A 7 nation army

[ji****]

I used to be a member of a swingers group called c4pe but I guess they had some legal issues and went out of business and haven't really had any luck finding any other real sites and I'm kind of frustrated because you can get quite a bit of time and energy into checking out sites and then find out that they're not real they're just things for getting your *** see 4p was the first site where I actually met real people never had any issues with hammer people trying to get in your pocket I wished somebody would let me know of another organization I know there's got to be one out there

[GeneGrey]

The munches are just too far away for me to drive.

[Ky****]

Access for local people everything is rather far away, skepticism tried to engage both at munches and events before I moved.

[Fipsy]

Myself keep me from trying

[Ca****]

Sex addiction, withdrawal of instant gratification, invisible mental barriers 😶

[Ba****]

Access is kind of redundant here
If you need 2 or more people but you only have 1 people there is not much you can du until you have more people

So for me it’s mostly my self control/restraint, ethics and the potential lack of relevant information, in that order

I’ll even list the first 2 quite high among the potentially many reasons I currently don’t have access, along side my honesty about those other reasons, well at least the ones i’m aware of

[Ba****]

*do not “du”

[fa****]

Women are hard to find. They never write back.

[cum4meSlowly]

I have played with a Femdom group but that was before Covid. I even had a great kinky relationship with an older submissive woman but can’t find local submissives to play with and develop a meaningful relationship. There appears to be many profiles that are made but the user does not stay on the site. Is it that women get swamped with potential suitors or what are inappropriate messages?

[Conin]

access, small town ***

[DarkArts1066]

Usually having someone else to share it with.
My kinks aren’t extreme at all… but some of them are a little different, a lot revolve around specific roleplay scenarios, and so that makes it difficult sometimes to broach the subject with someone, and ask them if they will participate.
I have sought out prostitutes in the past, to indulge my fetishes with, but not for a while now.

There is always a solution to a problem. 😉

[Deleted Member]

Having someone to do it with is usually my issue

[OrganicBeta]

Work 🤣

[wa****]

No one to do it with mostly

[BB****]

Lack of experience in general

[Th****]

Because of myself!

[lo****]

*** of misunderstanding

[GenuineWill]

Age

[Pr****]

A trusted partner to do it with (mummification)

[NY****]

For me it has been *** if letting go.. I have predominantly been a Dom, with switch tendencies.. I 5yrs ago had a partner of 10yrs pass away and have been pretty dormant in my sexual life, with a few flings here and there. After some therapy and introspection I have decided to find a mistress to put me in my place.. this way I can let go of my emotional *** and put down the leadership role for a while. I have found someone who has reignited a spark that was once a Mir glimmer.. sometimes letting go can come in forms we least expect..

[ri****]

Lack of partners

[Be****]

Finding the girl to do it with!

[Fr****]

One who say they a sub but not