WHAT HOLDS ME BACK

[Be****]

Lately, I’ve realized it’s not *** holding me back, but just waiting for the right energy to match my own. I crave the power play that goes beyond the binary—where beauty meets raw strength. Sometimes what you crave is right there, as soon as you stop letting old expectations dictate your desire.

[no****]

Nothing just scared once hold me back I'll do whatever makes you happy and comfortable PLZ

[Ur****]

I feel like 👍🏻 m 21 but look 60 and that f**ks me up. I need ladies to just let my know if in handsome or cute or hunky 😩

[aa****]

i cant find anyone to mess around with

[Ad****]

I see a lot of people with the same issue. Can’t find someone to mess around with. Does nobody go out and meet people anymore. Like find an event within what your looking for and go in hopes to connect with new like minded people.
Social media sites are full of bots and flakes. Only had a couple small connections online but nothing major most don’t go anywhere like people are scared to meet in person when the conversation arises or just only looking to lead on and chat behind a screen.

[Za****]

10 hours ago, AdventureSeekingCpl said:

I see a lot of people with the same issue. Can’t find someone to mess around with. Does nobody go out and meet people anymore. Like find an event within what your looking for and go in hopes to connect with new like minded people.
Social media sites are full of bots and flakes. Only had a couple small connections online but nothing major most don’t go anywhere like people are scared to meet in person when the conversation arises or just only looking to lead on and chat behind a screen.

i agree with you 100%

[Ba****]

10 hours ago, AdventureSeekingCpl said:

I see a lot of people with the same issue. Can’t find someone to mess around with. Does nobody go out and meet people anymore. Like find an event within what your looking for and go in hopes to connect with new like minded people.
Social media sites are full of bots and flakes. Only had a couple small connections online but nothing major most don’t go anywhere like people are scared to meet in person when the conversation arises or just only looking to lead on and chat behind a screen.

Well i found i more strange the “access” was even included in the question and i assume most list it as the only thing because they are too insecure to think about why they have no access
Also i think covid is still a popular excuse to not get embarrassed in person

I’m mainly using this app for the forum part and to find events, i have to go to one eventually, can’t write anyone until i farmed up enough points anyway

[ey****]

I kinda feel this thread is interesting in the sense...

it's mostly men

the women are mostly given reasons like... the men they meet want to rush things, they want to build up trust first, so on : the issue isn't the availabiliy of men, the issue being the suitability.

the men reasons hinge around - I don't have a girlfriend/Mistress/sub/partner - being absolutely sure if they did they'd jump into this idea

And like. I think it's a loaded question in the sense that actually doing the kinks, yeah, having someone they trust has to be a majority reason.  I guess if it was phrased... what's stopping you partaking in a local kink scene? What is stopping you wanting to take inative for expanding knowledge/skills without a partner? Aside from a willing human/victim - what barriers exist?

[DA****]

Me I can't seem to find any woman right now to have fun with.

[gr****]

I'd say *** and self preservation along with connecting with someone to play around.

[Deleted Member]

January 21, Bianca_B said:

For me its my health. I know I want to do things, I've yet to reach a place where I feel safe enough around other people to do them. Being in the scene socially can be nice but that by itself does not fill the void. I'm getting there though, one day at a time.

Beautifully put. You need to build trust with partners to do ALL the things you want to try and you (or maybe it's just me) can't do that with a simple hookup/ one night stand. I'm looking for a semi long term/ ongoing FRIEND that is willing to take the time to allow the trust to grow for us both. Safety means everything.

[Deleted Member]

Not wanting a hookup looking for a connection most judge me before getting to know me im willing to swing either way for the right one I can be picky when I comes to same sex been a long time since had same sex play

[Bianca_B]

Wednesday at 06:55 PM, Sisi_93 said:

Beautifully put. You need to build trust with partners to do ALL the things you want to try and you (or maybe it's just me) can't do that with a simple hookup/ one night stand. I'm looking for a semi long term/ ongoing FRIEND that is willing to take the time to allow the trust to grow for us both. Safety means everything.

It really does! I hope you find that 🩵

[Ly****]

Can’t find anyone down for what we are looking gor

[ri****]

I just want to lose my virginity, but I'm too scared to talk to woman

[Al****]

Attraction && safety. Common interest or kinks

[lo****]

Safety but is anyone even real here??

[Ma****]

My wife

[mi****]

Finding a partner that shares my kinks

[fi****]

It's the constant " someone check my profile" but don't want what they're looking for, which is a play partner/fwb

[Be****]

I don't know anyone local

[st****]

opportunity, ireland has next to no users on any platforms

[SkyFall00]

There is hardly anyone in the area let alone on these pages...