Be**** Posted January 20 Thought of the day: Nothing is hotter than two partners who genuinely put in the effort to understand and fulfill each other’s deepest desires. Mutual intention, trust, and curiosity hit different. Anyone else feel this way? And why does finding this kind of connection feel so rare?
Do**** Posted January 21 Agree completely. In any dynamic, when both are completely there and immersed and getting what they need at the same time - magic!
po**** Posted January 21 Men are full of shit and cheap and want you to invest emotionally into them with little expectations of them . They’re becoming more pathetic as generation go on
Si**** Posted January 21 3 minutes ago, polished_toeBBW said: Men are full of shit and cheap and want you to invest emotionally into them with little expectations of them . They’re becoming more pathetic as generation go on That's a completely spurious, irrational take. Could it have something to do with your profile lambasting all men, everywhere and demanding gifts and trinkets from every man just to entertain a conversation with them? Because, as a man, this is pretty off-putting, and definitely tells me not to approach.
ey**** Posted January 21 13 hours ago, BerlinSoulNYCHeart said: Anyone else feel this way? And why does finding this kind of connection feel so rare? It's rare only in the sense that it's not a "day one" thing, but something that has to be built up to in time.
Ni**** Posted January 21 2 hours ago, SinfulAlphaSub said: That's a completely spurious, irrational take. Could it have something to do with your profile lambasting all men, everywhere and demanding gifts and trinkets from every man just to entertain a conversation with them? Because, as a man, this is pretty off-putting, and definitely tells me not to approach. Hell, i read a profile like that i run the other way. The "be a real man" energy gives me the outdated boys dont cry vibes
Sh**** Posted January 21 2 hours ago, SinfulAlphaSub said: That's a completely spurious, irrational take. Could it have something to do with your profile lambasting all men, everywhere and demanding gifts and trinkets from every man just to entertain a conversation with them? Because, as a man, this is pretty off-putting, and definitely tells me not to approach. I can bet that 0% of that message registered. When you click on that profile you see it's someone who hates basically anyone unless they pay or put her on a pedestal. Typical narcissist. It's ironic and very nice though that the "don't approach" sign is so bright and glaring 😂😂
ma**** Posted January 21 It feels rare because people are selfish. Generally, I try to really ensure that I'm meeting my partner's needs by communicating their desires.
Si**** Posted January 21 37 minutes ago, maumelle430498 said: It feels rare because people are selfish. Generally, I try to really ensure that I'm meeting my partner's needs by communicating their desires. Not to be offensive, but this is a reflexive, slightly lazy assertion/assumption. Maybe people are actually more selfless than you're giving them credit for. Maybe genuine, human connection feels rare because it takes time to find, nurture and establish. In my opinion, genuine/true connection is often never, or rarely, found because people, far too often, waste their precious, finite time, focusing on unhealthy or mismatched relationships they have no business being in. Finding a partner in which there is potential for genuine connection takes time, effort, and consideration. However, almost everyone I know has wasted years upon years of their lives in relationships that were doomed to fail. Instead of spending these years alone, searching for their perfect match, they settle by latching onto someone nearby, convenient, and available, to prevent loneliness. This further exacerbates people's experience of never, or rarely, being able to find true, genuine, human connection.
ma**** Posted January 21 3 hours ago, SinfulAlphaSub said: Not to be offensive, but this is a reflexive, slightly lazy assertion/assumption. Maybe people are actually more selfless than you're giving them credit for. Maybe genuine, human connection feels rare because it takes time to find, nurture and establish. In my opinion, genuine/true connection is often never, or rarely, found because people, far too often, waste their precious, finite time, focusing on unhealthy or mismatched relationships they have no business being in. Finding a partner in which there is potential for genuine connection takes time, effort, and consideration. However, almost everyone I know has wasted years upon years of their lives in relationships that were doomed to fail. Instead of spending these years alone, searching for their perfect match, they settle by latching onto someone nearby, convenient, and available, to prevent loneliness. This further exacerbates people's experience of never, or rarely, being able to find true, genuine, human connection. I think true connection is rare because most people lack the attention span to develop a genuine human connection. The greatest gift is undivided attention. Ok, maybe it's not being selfish. Maybe it's a lack of focus. I do find it's incredibly difficult to find someone that lets go and rolls deep. There's just something about that connection when you're both rolling so hard with it that nothing else matters. It just doesn't happen often.
ey**** Posted January 21 3 hours ago, maumelle430498 said: I think true connection is rare because most people lack the attention span to develop a genuine human connection. I agree I also think people try to "***" a connection. And sometimes, even... trick themselves... there is one. The kinda issue sometimes with online interactions when one person has more stock in it that the other. So it is "let's talk and see if there's a connection" feels like trying to *** one.
DARKERn Posted Friday at 10:21 PM Wednesday at 10:22 AM, maumelle430498 said: I think true connection is rare because most people lack the attention span to develop a genuine human connection. The greatest gift is undivided attention. Ok, maybe it's not being selfish. Maybe it's a lack of focus. I do find it's incredibly difficult to find someone that lets go and rolls deep. There's just something about that connection when you're both rolling so hard with it that nothing else matters. It just doesn't happen often. And I believe that lack of attention span is brought on due to social media and all the overwhelming BS are brains are exposed to non-stop every day with our cell phones in our hands. My opinion
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