Questions about Parties

[Fi****]

We've never been to a sex party. Just curious as to how they are structured. Are there games, food, and drinks? What type of activities take place? How long does a party typically last?

A question for the guys; do you nut in first thing and then wait for it to come back after a few minutes/hours? How do you pace yourself?

Where are the parties typically hosted at? Air B&B, hotel, camp ground, resort?

Lastly how does one find out about an event?

We would like to attend one or host an event one of these days.

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[Sh****]

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[ey****]

for a lot of things - it depends on the party.

I guess from the bottom, how do you find out... stuff like swingers clubs are generally advertised/known/published - most tend to require a membership and most tend to lean towards couples (as you are) - from there you can kinda get a look and feel, but don't underestimate the social aspect. You can usually get an idea about what is involved from listings etc. 

Knowing people is the means to get invited to more private ones. And you can get to know people from events - not just swing, but kink in general.   Munches etc.  Though the private ones are usually "we booked a space and are inviting people we like/trust" - again, what is involved or expected will be a case-to-case basis.

Over on fetlife there's often parties advertised which are... questionable... it's like the old joke of guys going "so I'm organising a threesome, I just need two women" - there have also been those who've as a couple booked a hotel room for the day and inviting men for gangbangs etc and a contribution is required and it's somewhat questionable of whether this is the persons interest, or a hopeful way to make ***.  But yeah, a lot of hosted gangbangs and sex parties which... are not, it's just someone hoping people will come to his house.

I guess one thing to sometimes think about. If you were to host one - how would you like it to go? And it might be a case of, yeah, I want people who are definitely going to show.... and there's stuff you'd want to offer/provide and stuff you'd expect from guests coming to your house or space booked in your name.