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3 minutes ago, Nonnahs said:

Its cringey. To me it gives off they love themselves more. They cant stop obsessing over their penis and blow jobs and couldnt give a shit about women. Those guys shoudl stay home masturbating with a fleshlight. Not involve a whole person they dont care about. Now a guy who treats u with respect , earns trust and feels safe is very atttractive. I know im not trying to get ***ed over someone witha small ****** right. I need safety. The fact men think thays absurd speaks volumes on how differeny we feel. They dont know they look and act predatory. Or are cringey.

The most beautifully truth spoke!!! ❤️

Well what you said was half the truth nonnahs. You have a lot of women that feel the exact way you do and that’s honestly how most people see it me included. But you do have others that want to see a pic or two. The keyword tho is want. Tips for the OP here. If she wants to see a nude from you she’ll ask you and if you’re comfortable with it then at that point do what you will. Don’t ask women if they want to see it don’t surprise them with a pic randomly like hey check this out. Actually when your talking to a woman on here or where ever keep the nasty talk and pics completely out of it at the beginning. When you come straight out with it in your first couple text most of the time it makes you look like the exact opposite of what they are after. Most women have to put up with so much nasty pics randomly sent and nasty things messaged to them on here and every other site that they are tired of it and seen and read all kinds of crazy stuff that they would appreciate a normal conversation. Show some interest in them talk to em act like a human. A little respect goes a long way

It is cringey and pathetic. A dick by itself is not a beautiful thing to most of us - same goes for random vagina. Most of us regardless find a lot of people icky, don't want to see much of them, don't want to fornicate with them.
Now starting with a randy dick-pic - what a dipshit, I don't know you and I don't want to, because you don't have any social skills, let alone manners. Even if I was in a genourous mood - the cringe. It's not a good picture, I see your underwear has been washed too many times and those pants, not even Goodwill would want them. You are incapable of making a decent picture - and that's always a no for me.
I don't feel threatened, I feel annoyed, sometimes disgusted or amused about that shriveled mess.

59 minutes ago, lowkeysavage said:

Well what you said was half the truth nonnahs. You have a lot of women that feel the exact way you do and that’s honestly how most people see it me included. But you do have others that want to see a pic or two. The keyword tho is want. Tips for the OP here. If she wants to see a nude from you she’ll ask you and if you’re comfortable with it then at that point do what you will. Don’t ask women if they want to see it don’t surprise them with a pic randomly like hey check this out. Actually when your talking to a woman on here or where ever keep the nasty talk and pics completely out of it at the beginning. When you come straight out with it in your first couple text most of the time it makes you look like the exact opposite of what they are after. Most women have to put up with so much nasty pics randomly sent and nasty things messaged to them on here and every other site that they are tired of it and seen and read all kinds of crazy stuff that they would appreciate a normal conversation. Show some interest in them talk to em act like a human. A little respect goes a long way

I couldn’t have said this better myself!!! It’s like I’m constantly saying this to these fuckers! IF I WANT A PIC OF YOU, ANY PIC, I’d FUCKIN ASK YOU!!!

5 hours ago, Girl6Knicks said:

Also women aren’t sending random pic because men are dangerous and we do t know what you are capable of if we show that vulnerability to you. You can just take off and run and not want to get to know us as human beings. So trust plays into that. Patriarchy harms us all but women bear the biggest brunt.

Yes, most women don’t do, but some do as well without consent. I think, it’s mainly the different socialization in patriachy. When you grow up with ideas like “be nice and adapted because you are weak” or “real men have no *** (not even social anxiety) and sexual activity is so masculine” your behavior may become pretty different.

I already got some nudes from women here although my profile tells multiple times: I really don’t want to.
(Other non-consent stuff like stalking as well)
In my eyes, empathy and respect for the needs of other people are character treats. Some have and strive for them and some don’t.

It's evolution, survival biology. Men will pretty much have sex with anyone , even rude people 😃. It's keeps humans reproducing..spread the seed .
For women , the emotional connection is more important.
 

7 minutes ago, Spanksy_ said:

It's evolution, survival biology. Men will pretty much have sex with anyone , even rude people 😃. It's keeps humans reproducing..spread the seed .
For women , the emotional connection is more important.
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Your “biology” is not mine.

Yeah I know ..it's a generalisation.. kind of humourous.

They only SAY that they don't like D-pics on their profile
And then ask for them in private messages 🙄

We are very different biologically. Default preferences are therefore, naturally, different.
For the most part of course, there are variations (in biology, upbringing, culture) and exceptions to everything

I thing personal but do you understand the concept that others may not like what you like?

Your view on things may not be the default view on things that others take.

Hey, so you’d enjoy being flashed. That’s not true for everybody.

And let me ask you a question: Would you enjoy it if you were flashed by somebody you didn’t find attractive in any way?

I'd not like random V pics to be honest. But the important word is unsolicited. Just sending a D pic and nothing else is annoying and with no prior communication is non consensual and against the rules of the lifestyle.

Women are also more likely to get aroused by mental stimulation than physical views - words not pics. This is why erotica and dark romance is so huge. It's how many women get off.

2 hours ago, RoseSatin said:

I'd not like random V pics to be honest. But the important word is unsolicited. Just sending a D pic and nothing else is annoying and with no prior communication is non consensual and against the rules of the lifestyle.

Women are also more likely to get aroused by mental stimulation than physical views - words not pics. This is why erotica and dark romance is so huge. It's how many women get off.

This!

I just googled unsolicited dick pics and it's a serious crime ..cyber flashing it's called.
That does make sense ...it's like flashing in real life .

Just now, Spanksy_ said:

I just googled unsolicited dick pics and it's a serious crime ..cyber flashing it's called.
That does make sense ...it's like flashing in real life .

Exactly! That's how we see it !

It can be difficult to see these things from the perspective of others. Remember that men have been forcing themselves on women forever. We are only beginning to see the harm in that but it is harmful.

Us women get so bored with dick pick because for me I get them so much on dating sites, so I want something different more simulation for me get me excited. That why I challenge the men on here to give me something different they have beautiful body you are more then what underneath in your pants

Id rather have a video of you cumming or being with another women so i can see what "it could be like". Thats just me though.

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