ra**** Posted February 4 Showering. While some make it sexual again, I find the act of servitude stimulating. Being able to wash my Dom’s back, massage their muscles and wash their hair. Then, being able to receive the same in turn. After, getting lotion and pampering ourself. Yes, my Dom will be putting a face mask on with me. Settling down and watching a good movie. Maybe some tea or warm drinks. Cuddling is important to me, so having a good cuddle will have me sleeping like a baby.
Su**** Posted February 4 Honestly I want to sit in bed so I can process the scene ending. Then depending on how much punishment I received I might need help getting there but I always take a shower. It just helps me relax and unwind. After my shower I like snackies and cuddles. And maybe a movie. Just be aware I might accidentally fall asleep on you if I get comfy.
Do**** Posted February 4 1 hour ago, rayvenous_ said: Showering. While some make it sexual again, I find the act of servitude stimulating. Being able to wash my Dom’s back, massage their muscles and wash their hair. Then, being able to receive the same in turn. After, getting lotion and pampering ourself. Yes, my Dom will be putting a face mask on with me. Settling down and watching a good movie. Maybe some tea or warm drinks. Cuddling is important to me, so having a good cuddle will have me sleeping like a baby. Love this
Nu**** Posted February 4 For punishment my husband likes to use mousetraps on my nipples. And if I'm REALLY bad he'll use it in my clit. Oh no goog God talk about ***... I remember it for a long time too
Ba**** Posted February 4 If it was a tough one, I like it when my wounds are cared for. I want to maintain that feeling of being small after a punishment, so not too much pampering.
al**** Posted February 4 It’s simple for me. I want him to stay the night. Pull me into His chest letting me rest my head on his heart so I can hear it beating as He tells me I’m His good girl and I fall asleep.,
Th**** Posted February 4 Short answer: It depends upon the scene and play partner. TLDR: I am firm believer in the punishment/praise should match the behavior. That being said, different playmates have different needs. This is why I am big on communication and knowing the person I am playing with. We are all here for pleasure even though we might have unique definitions for what we consider pleasure.
go**** Posted February 4 First thing to get out of the way, hand the poor girl a towel. Then Immediate kisses praises, then read her body language and if not sure give her options. Do you want to cuddle? Off of you here tickling your back while we cool off? You know sometimes they wanna kissed and hugged and squeezed right away sometimes they are maybe over stimulated needing very calm quiet time just knowing you’re there and attentive. Best thing you could do is get her in the habit of communicating her needs. Overtime you’ll just know, do yourself a favor don’t put a time limit on it. It might mean snuggles then making snacks, sometimes giving safe space is needed. End of the day I think it depends on the women, the time of day , the day of the month *big time), the lining up with the stars…? in my experience they seem to like to keep me on my toes.. worth it.
ra**** Posted February 5 This depends on where i am at… like a club on the way home i want to stop at Sheetz and get loaded tator tots… and then be put to bed… Home… bacon… lol
4U**** Posted February 12 February 4, aligurl80 said: It’s simple for me. I want him to stay the night. Pull me into His chest letting me rest my head on his heart so I can hear it beating as He tells me I’m His good girl and I fall asleep., This, but love when he cleans me up with a warm washcloth or warm wet wipes first.
4U**** Posted February 12 1 minute ago, 4Urplesure3 said: This, but love when he cleans me up with a warm washcloth or warm wet wipes first. Oh, and offering me a drink to cool down.
Go**** Posted February 13 Cleaning me up, cuddles, more cuddles and food/drink if needed. If it’s not late, a bubble bath being done is hugely pampering for me because I love being in them but hate doing them 😆
BlueGrace Posted 1 hour ago The snacks and praise! I don’t always like to be cuddled after a scene because I am overtouched and need space. I enjoy snacks and praise. A crisp, cold zero sugar Dr Pepper paired with peanut M&Ms or a peanut butter and strawberry jelly sandwich, no crust.
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