Se**** Posted 3 hours ago A genuine question. I’ve realised that most of my dynamics have never centred around a shared home. Not because I’m opposed to it, but simply because it’s never been how things have unfolded. Between distance, work, and time spent travelling, play has often happened in deliberately chosen spaces. Hotels. Neutral ground. A place where nothing else intrudes. There’s something about stepping into a space that exists only for that connection. No distractions. No history. Just intention. Time slows. The rest of the world left at the door. Roles settle more easily. Everything feels heightened because it’s been chosen. It feels curated. I’m curious how others experience this. Do you prefer shared domestic space, or somewhere deliberately set apart from everyday life? And does the where change how deeply you drop into the dynamic? SD
Me**** Posted 2 hours ago I share a space with my submissive of 9 years. We play in the home and we have designated spots within the home as well. We have safe spaces to talk about if our head space is not right as well. It works for us both in a dynamic and as loving partners. When we are in a neutral space it takes him just as much time it is about headspace for him over the space we are in.
di**** Posted 2 hours ago My Dom comes to my apartment. He has a key to come and go as he pleases. It’s an odd Dom/s dynamic as we are not friends, not in a relationship, and not dating outside of our sessions. Sometimes I wish it was in a neutral location as the sounds my neighbor hears is shocking, no doubt.
No**** Posted 2 hours ago Our dynamic happens in my flat for various reasons. My Dom lives with a housemate and I don’t. We are dating outside of our dynamic but it’s 90% dom/sub 10% boyfriend/girlfriend. We have plans to live together in the future
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