My Ideal Power Dynamic

[Da****]

A beautiful woman to worship my feet and body, attend to my every need 👅 and surrender to me to use her as I please 🥰

[Ki****]

This has come up in my relationship as well. I set out this time with the intention of finding a Sub. I had previously had a gf I attempted to train but she never got the mindset. We have been together for a year now and I find myself feeling like I needing a service sub occasionally because of her limitations. We are discussing trying to find a third but that has her feeling like I don’t think she is enough.

[Ch****]

Each and every dynamic is different. Pleasure Dom, Soft Dom leaning towards Daddy Dom. Sub with a praise kink and being called a ‘Good Girl’. Once you have connected physically and mentally the possibilities are endless. Her neck aching to be in my palm. She is mine as much as I am hers.

[annita0]

None

[ye****]

The one I have where he literally knows instinctively everything I need and has control over his size and hardness to make every single act the ultimate pleasure.

[Co****]

Mommy domme / little boy ideally
I'm a bit of a brat

[MB****]

Gentle dom/pleasure dom

[In****]

Soft dom/primal dom. Coaches and leads emotionally when it comes to Bratting or me getting in trouble. Acts like an *** in the sheets lmao

[ki****]

A Pleasure Dom who is strong, intelligent, intuitive and can truly own me in a ltr dynamic based on kink. A mental, emotional and physical connection.

[st****]

Ideally another switch to match me being a switch.

[lo****]

Gentle domme + keyholder

[Un****]

1 hour ago, kinkykentangel said:

A Pleasure Dom who is strong, intelligent, intuitive and can truly own me in a ltr dynamic based on kink. A mental, emotional and physical connection.

You just described me to a T

[Sa****]

DD/lg

[Vi****]

A brat tamer, stern but still emotionally intelligent enough to be soft with me 🥹

[wb****]

What I was looking for a month ago is completely different than what I’m looking for now. Before the Jan I wanted a firm daddy who would let me be a little bratty up to a point. Some who would provide direction. A Daddy who I could be me with instead of always in charge I could with time hard myself over to completely.

Now I still want a Daddy but now I need someone to hold me while I come back to myself. Someone who will take the time to help me heal even if that looks messy. I need someone who is going to hear my boundaries I mean really hear them and honor them.

At the end of this storm I’m going to be able to show how much I appreciate every moment of his patience. When I find him he will be just as cared for as he cares for me.

[ca****]

Probably would be with someone of similar statuer as me whom is a switch with top preference so there can be a constant little feihgt over whom ends up as the toy

[EmpressKandy]

To answer that honestly, Probably a Soft Sir/ Gentle Dom at home. But out in public be the more hard core with everyone else.

[Pa****]

I want a 100% 24/7 TPE with a bratty sub who is smart and funny and creative. I want to respect her as a human being and have her trust that I will care for her. No safe words, no boundaries. I'm a dom with empathy. I want to explore and discover her limits and that its 100% up to me to find when not to push harder, and provide aftercare, making her feel warm and safe and loved and owned. I'm not into *** and ***. I want a sub that is devoted to me and who appreciates being valued as a human being.

[Pa****]

*** Hum/deg***

[Ro****]

Definitely a babygirl/ pet slut with good dose of primal prey and a sprinkle of brat. Already building that with my amazing anchors.

[br****]

“I show up with steady energy and clear intention. I’m not here to sit back and wait — I participate, I communicate, and I build connection with purpose.
I’m grounded, observant, and I move with a quiet confidence that doesn’t need to be loud to be felt.
I value honesty, boundaries, and mutual respect. I connect best with people who are mature, open‑minded, and intentional about what they want.
If you appreciate calm presence with depth and someone who actually engages, we’ll get along well.”

[Mi****]

I’m the Head Bitch in Charge. The CEO of my house. I’m very goal oriented and I don’t like to micromanage. My ideal dynamic is someone who shares my hopes, dreams, ideals, and goals and we work together to accomplish them. I set goals, and my partner works together with me to accomplish them. Honesty, integrity, and communication are essential. If I say the lawn needs mowed, I don’t care if my partner hires a lawn service (after asking me if it’s within budget) or waits for the coolest part of the day to do a little at a time themself. It gets done. I don’t need to know about every leaf and branch cut. The attaboy comes when the goal is accomplished, I have nice lawn, and I can not be stressed about scraggly weeds every time I look out the front door. And a happy me is a happy thee.

[Deleted Member]

A mental physical and emotional 24/7 dynamic

[Ba****]

Well cross the dominant chimp with a silverback gorilla and you have how i behave among my people in my territory

[Ra****]

Need a gentle femdom