How to be a pet owner?

[Th****]

The following thoughts may sound a little idealistic.

Within the context of BDSM, I believe a pet owner (Dom) should already have certain qualities and preparation before seeking a pet. These include: proactive and honest communication, clear boundaries, solid knowledge of hygiene and safety, a proper understanding of BDSM dynamics, the ability to address issues rather than dismiss them, empathy, emotional stability, personal responsibility, and mutual respect.

In my view, these are not things that should be learned passively after finding a pet. They are part of the foundation. Entering a dynamic without this preparation can easily lead to misunderstandings or harm.

If the relationship is long-distance and intended to be long-term under an Owner/pet dynamic, then caring for the pet’s emotional well-being and needs becomes an even greater responsibility. A pet is not a toy. Obedience and affection should be built on respect and trust. Everything must be grounded in a sense of safety.

I’m curious how others define what a good Owner should be like. Are the standards I mentioned too high? Or are they simply what should be expected?

[Th****]

All valid points.
I have been sought out to be an owner at some point and after a lot of hesitation and talking explored. I did not have any experience yet have a furry pet IRL. While different aspects pertain with a human pet here obv, some things are just common sense . Like with anything in life if you can’t talk and negotiate, repair and draw boundaries nothing good (or lasting) will ever transpire

[18****]

“Not a fan of sex”

[DeviantInside]

I think all of this should apply regardless of the type of dynamic or relationship. Those standards should be the be the base level of expectation.

[do****]

44 minutes ago, DeviantInside said:

I think all of this should apply regardless of the type of dynamic or relationship. Those standards should be the be the base level of expectation.

☝🏾 that part