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This topic is obv not an invitation to slide into my dmā€˜s and strike up a random conversation. Iā€˜d like to discuss and share knowledge on this thread . Thank you

For me finger lightly rubbing in circles on and around my clit. May take a min but it works as long as ur relaxing.

Hey good girl. Ugh this is something I love to work on and talk about. LoL alternating between rubbing the clit and working your fingers inside with the Spider-Man finger form 🤟 making a 'come here' motion with the curved fingers. I'll even keep my fingers curved and jerk against the gspot always causes a flood. I've got two partners right now, I've taught them both to squirt. With one I can make an absolute mess within seconds. Puddles everywhere. The other is still a little embarrassed and holding back but relieved when I encourage and praise. It takes a little practice and a mop/towel don't be afraid to be a little aggressive. Small splashes to multi orgasmic gushing, always such a turn on. 🄵

20 minutes ago, TheGoodGirl_ said:

This topic is obv not an invitation to slide into my dmā€˜s and strike up a random conversation. Iā€˜d like to discuss and share knowledge on this thread . Thank you

Simply the fact that you have to outline that draws attention to how fucked up guys can act on this app. Come on guys get your shit together.

Great positions I've had success with is missionary with her pelvis tilted up using a pillow under her or making spoons. I've found once you've trained your body, it cums easier! Have fun, keep it clean, be safe!

4 hours ago, QueenQadesh said:

As a woman here’s how I trained myself
1 purchase the njoy Pure Wand for direct and highly localized stimulation
2 make sure you have an amazing vibrator
3 practice edging, the more buildup the more to release
4 make sure you’re fully relaxed (massage, dr*gs, liquor, continual touch ect)
5 it may take a while, don’t penalize your pussy it’ll come my love

Aww thank you … that’s very helpful


As a female, it is absolutely more likely to happen when you relax, aren't stressing about it, and HYDRATE 😁

That is true indeed the more relax and comftble you are the better...and in if do and theb think u have the fewling u need to *** just keep going if it feels nice...

1 hour ago, kmcrochetlover said:

Because I don’t really have any patience today with the guys who are just a little too high on the ick factor, if you want to message me privately, I’ll tell you all my tips and tricks lol.

Would love to . Can’t get through the filter though šŸ™ƒ

14 minutes ago, North_Star_Dom said:

Simply the fact that you have to outline that draws attention to how fucked up guys can act on this app. Come on guys get your shit together.

Yeah, it’s quite overwhelming šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø

10 minutes ago, FrancoCallo said:

Great positions I've had success with is missionary with her pelvis tilted up using a pillow under her or making spoons. I've found once you've trained your body, it cums easier! Have fun, keep it clean, be safe!

The elevated position had been mentioned a few times… good to know šŸ‘ŒšŸ¾

I do it naturally but if I know im gonna have a big night, lots of water the day before and day of and dont be scared of lube even if you are already wet the extra glide adds to the pleasure

Get on all fours on the bed and have him stand i get the perfect angle everytime

šŸ™„šŸ˜®ā€šŸ’Ø So many ridiculous responses.

Every individual has to find their angle. The first time For Me involved several elements indirectly related to the act itself: TRUST and Comfortability with and at the direction of a patient, experienced, caring Partner + it wasn't the goal nor even mentioned (speaks to the adeptness of this particular person in a Dom role) + an amount of buildup and Discomfort + Me manipulating myself at their direction VIA CAM!!
I'd been instructed to obtain 100 feet of cotton laundry line, placing strategic knots along the rope which coincided with various points on my body, told how to tie myself step by step. Laundry pins clipped to nipples, breast tissue, labia, clitoris. Masturbation. At the moment of climax, rip off the clitoral pin.... My first time ejaculating and I squirted across the room with a lengthy primal vocalisation.

When entirely on my own, d*ldo & cl*toral stimulation will sometimes yield similar result.

When partners go right for the spot just to empty the 'reservoir of result', and particularly if repeatedly doing so, it isn't pleasurable for nor desired by Me. That's not "org*sm", that's mechanical manipulation.
If that's what YOU are going for, it's a matter simply of finding that spot/angle - two fingers is a typical 'tool' to achieve this.

However, the build-up, the frenzy, the novelty of a unique situation/partner/setting/ritual/circumstance all serving to Feed The Mind are the most important and Best elements IMHO.

Ive had good luck making women squirt by using my index and middle finger inside with a "come hither" motion, while at the same time using my thumb in a circular motion on her clit. It must feel incredible because all the women ive done that to have gushed everywhere...

It’s mostly about the technique and angle. I have magic hands I can admit! I use to actually teach couples how to make her squirt. During sex is definitely more rare because it’s the angle and perfect length that matters. Hydration the day before and and the day of are definitely a huge attribute as well as you being relaxed. I have literally made every female I’ve trained or been with personally by using my hand or a g-spot vibrator except 2. It was heart breaking. Lol. Self squirting for a woman is best by a toy or rigorous clit rubbing. Good luck!!

I know women are the best teachers as solo and the two fingers thrusting the upper wall and pulsing up and down like a jackhammer will not gain trust maybe some can but I dont believe every woman has the ability to spray it out like a pornstar I could be wrong but men are enthralled thinking they can make a woman squirt from what they saw on film. It's building a solid loving trust relationship experimenting patience and tempo. Im sure im going to get schooled and lambasted but im ok to learn be corrected. To every Woman happy valentine's day

I've almsot always had my partners be able to squirt by being hydrated and literally holding it in until the literally cant anymore, lile shaking a bottle of carbonated beverage but not opoening it until it's going to explode then being able to open the whole thing all at once, worked 3/3 times so far

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i used to be able to squirt on command.....didn't need anyone's help lol which was pretty powerful lol. You can make yourself squirt, using a dildo or fingers (mine are too short lol) amd clit stimulation. use the dildo lastly n pull out n it usually helps woth the explosion lol

5 hours ago, TheGoodGirl_ said:

Yeah, it’s quite overwhelming šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø

I can only imagine

6 minutes ago, ZaraFoxy said:

Ive always wanted to learn how to squirt 😭 ive never even had a guy make me cum yet

That’s so unfortunate

Everyone has differences, so what works for one doesn't work for all. and unfortunately not every one can do it and even people that can don't always do it.

some pregame info:
stress and comfortability matter going into this. please make sure you're in a relaxed state and don't try to *** yourself into doing it, the pressure of such will only make it more difficult.

find the best material to get you off or make sure you have a partner that knows your erogenous zones. set the mood, whether romantic, kinky or otherwise, get into a good head space for the activity.

also prepare for mess. A plastic sheet, some towels, under your bed sheets helps. there's also alot of hydro phobic bedding now available on the market for messy lovers.

the act:
build slow and steady. you want to involve both your body and mind, whether that's a good smutty audio book or more graphic material. for the actual physical areas, you'll want to focus on the clitoris and g-spot. you don't want to hammer yourself with your fingers or toys (or your partners parts), it's generally a slow steady, focused build up.

the clitoris is at the top of the vulva, while the g-spot is on the "roof" of the vaginal canal. the best way to imagine getting to the spot is a coin change swiping motion as if you're trying to get spare change out of a machine but upwards.

once the climax is about to be reached, generally the worst thing to do i find is to change anything at all, that same steady unrelenting motion is key. this means hand cramps are very prone if you're using your fingers, so try to switch hands/ fingers/ positions BEFORE getting to the big show if you feel fatigue coming on. once the climax hits, don't stop, it might be overwhelming and over stimulating but push through it, by pushing through the initial orgasmic wave is when the squirting is more likely to happen. it may feel like you're going to ***, but don't worry about it not a big deal even if you do, as you learn to do it, you'll learn the differences between the feelings over time.

Have fun!

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