Je**** Posted February 15 Hydrate hydrate hydrate . My Ex i swear never finish bottle of anything in her whole life!! For real it made a huge difference in the volume. But also made it easier and less dependent on lube. Cuz its a marathon not a sprint lol! Shit we use to just sit on couch watch a movie or show and id casually rub her pussy slowly for a hour. But not trying to get her off or rushing
Mr**** Posted February 15 @TheGoodGirl_ You have received a great deal of good and supportive advice already, and for that I say both kudos and congratulations. I just wanted to double down on two points. First, *hydrate 30-45 minutes ahead of time at a minimum* (one hour is more appropriate) and be aware of any stomach discomfort from over-hydrating all at once. One way to think about it is, life is interesting and you may be in a position for great sex at almost any hour of the day, so hydrate accordingly. Second, this thing is the after-effect of taking sensation to, through, and past the pure pleasure threshold. All sorts of things are likely to feel "too much" or like "the wrong sensation" (e.g., the urge to urinate when on the cusp) but you'll have a much better time by going into this with the slightest inkling of mischief in your play. Enjoy!
DK**** Posted February 15 1. Stay away from toys. I know they are tempting. They dont have the connection that an individual needs from another person. This is about taking your time to find that spot that makes you have amazing orgasms. 2. Practice with yourself. How well do you actually know your body? (The art of Yoni Massage - great book, read it. It will open up so much to you!) You have to be 100% comfortable making yourself squirt before finding someone that can make you squirt! You may find that spot for you personally, when you find that person you have a true connection with, they could find a totally different you never knew you had! 3. Squirting is NOT ***! Thats where alot of people get it wrong. I was with a true squirter and she said its a different feeling than the one you get when you have to ***. Your juices should taste like the best filtered water you have ever had! Which goes into number four. 4. Make sure you're hydrated. I know water can be bland to drink at times. It is essential for the body to have in every aspect especially if you want to squirt or you can squirt. Cut out all processed drinks because they can effect the outcum. Electrolytes are extremely important. Even if you dont squirt after having an orgasm, hydrate because your body still has to make its natural "lubricant" and it does dehydrate you. Also, when you squirt it should be CLEAR with no coloration. 5. Set a mood for yourself. Set some time aside when you know there isnt a chance of you being disturbed. Distractions can be mood killers. Be sure you put a towel or something down that covers a good sized area. Anywhere from 1-4 feet from the "ejection port" (haha). Place part of the towel under your booty to get some residual flow. I have seen some women squirt a good distance. 6. Be 100% comfortable with making yourself squirt before bringing someone else into the mix. And when you do want to see if someome else can make you squirt, be sure you are completely comfortable with and trust them. Remember its a marathon, not a race. At least not yet. Once you get there, then you can start seeing how quickly you can make yourself squirt. I was seeing a woman years ago who wasnt comfortable with anyone going down on her. It used to take her almost an hour before her guard would be let down enough to enjoy it. I finally got her to the point where I could go down on her and make her climax in about 30 seconds. Fingering between 14 and 16 seconds. Everytime I did she would always as how I was able to do that. I told her it was because she trusted and was completely comfortable with me. I hope this helps. Happy Valentine's Day!
Th**** Posted February 15 Author 3 minutes ago, DKYTMM said: 1. Stay away from toys. I know they are tempting. They dont have the connection that an individual needs from another person. This is about taking your time to find that spot that makes you have amazing orgasms. 2. Practice with yourself. How well do you actually know your body? (The art of Yoni Massage - great book, read it. It will open up so much to you!) You have to be 100% comfortable making yourself squirt before finding someone that can make you squirt! You may find that spot for you personally, when you find that person you have a true connection with, they could find a totally different you never knew you had! 3. Squirting is NOT ***! Thats where alot of people get it wrong. I was with a true squirter and she said its a different feeling than the one you get when you have to ***. Your juices should taste like the best filtered water you have ever had! Which goes into number four. 4. Make sure you're hydrated. I know water can be bland to drink at times. It is essential for the body to have in every aspect especially if you want to squirt or you can squirt. Cut out all processed drinks because they can effect the outcum. Electrolytes are extremely important. Even if you dont squirt after having an orgasm, hydrate because your body still has to make its natural "lubricant" and it does dehydrate you. Also, when you squirt it should be CLEAR with no coloration. 5. Set a mood for yourself. Set some time aside when you know there isnt a chance of you being disturbed. Distractions can be mood killers. Be sure you put a towel or something down that covers a good sized area. Anywhere from 1-4 feet from the "ejection port" (haha). Place part of the towel under your booty to get some residual flow. I have seen some women squirt a good distance. 6. Be 100% comfortable with making yourself squirt before bringing someone else into the mix. And when you do want to see if someome else can make you squirt, be sure you are completely comfortable with and trust them. Remember its a marathon, not a race. At least not yet. Once you get there, then you can start seeing how quickly you can make yourself squirt. I was seeing a woman years ago who wasnt comfortable with anyone going down on her. It used to take her almost an hour before her guard would be let down enough to enjoy it. I finally got her to the point where I could go down on her and make her climax in about 30 seconds. Fingering between 14 and 16 seconds. Everytime I did she would always as how I was able to do that. I told her it was because she trusted and was completely comfortable with me. I hope this helps. Happy Valentine's Day! Thank you 🙏🏾
DK**** Posted February 15 7 minutes ago, TheGoodGirl_ said: Thank you 🙏🏾 May I send you a private message?
Sa**** Posted February 15 29 minutes ago, slowrideohio said: It is the man technique that causes the “squirting” Actually it's from stimulation... Whether from toys or a partner
oa**** Posted February 15 You can feel the upper ceiling inside usually about 3-4” in. Right before a woman squirts there’s a downward pressure on your fingers and that’s the bullet being chambered lol from there you’ve got to kind of learn how to pull the trigger. I’m in decent shape and it can make your arm tired. The motion that I’ve found works well once your in that pull the trigger portion also is under normal circumstances not one a woman would enjoy lol. But applying pressure back on the g spot area that’s pushing onto your fingers and making a kind of hook shape “like when people pretend to be pirates” use that upwards pressure and a motion like yours telling someone to come here. As for during sex it can be harder to recognize that pressure. Especially if a woman has that grip it’s all pressure hugging the 🍆 but I find it’s still pretty repeatable when a woman with enough stamina rides and facing you leans back a bit. Think like arch and put both hands behind you on his legs. That way ideally the angle of his cock hits that same area/similar motion regardless. From the female side I’ve had partners say eventually it clicks and they begin to recognize the sensation over time better and can gradually relax more and lean into letting it happen ”like prior they had a subconscious block” Idk hope that helps 🤷🏻♂️
oa**** Posted February 15 4 hours ago, TheGoodGirl_ said: Thank you 🙏🏾 This guys gets it ^^^ and I forgot to mention it but he did. Hydration is key. An ex of mine if we were at a camp out festival type thing. Day 1 tons. Day 3-4 very very little. And like he said. Proof it’s not ***. Anyone that dehydrated would have foul smelling urine after 4 days of dancing/drinking etc. the real squirt is flavorless odorless just clear luquid
xl**** Posted February 16 I’ve experienced this several times. Just be present and it’ll happen. Don’t over think it.
ly**** Posted February 17 I've been blessed a few times. Lol. Two were complete surprises to them. I knew nothing of the technique, though, but I know I've done that exact action instinctively.
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