Dom and sub views on period sex

[Be****]

Curious to see how other doms/subs feel about being with your partner while on their cycle. Not really even thinking about the benefits to the woman for having sex during the monthly, but the act in general. I eventually want to be free-use for my Dom and will never want to tell him no. I know it's going to be an individual thing and would just need to be discussed in advance, I'm just looking for a general concensus. Also, have any of the ladies found things that work to contain the mess? I've done some reading up on just laying out towels, using a cervical sponge, using a menstrual disc...... anyone have something they do that works or something they tried that definitely doesn't?

[Ri****]

I love it my cramps are really bad like debilitating can't walk bad. Sex while on my period helps ease that *** a bit for me so if I had someone willing to fuck me every night while on my period that would be amazing. If it helps think of it as natural lube. Take a bath right before and flushing helps clean before and after

[Go****]

I used to hate it but that was with a less-than considerate partner. With my current partner, he isn’t phased by it and goes by how I’m feeling at the time, so I feel comfortable with it now.

If it’s a heavier flow, you can use towels or puppy/incontinence pads for the bed/surface, but also a bath/shower just before can help.

Alternatively, sex in the shower contains the potential mess, and is handy for cleaning up.

[gabegirlish]

menstrual disc works fine, but it can be a little uncomfortable for both you and your partner. I'd use it during the period, remove it for penetration. just enjoy and embrace the mess

[Deleted Member]

I'd prefer to make the biggest, 🩸🩸🩸iest mess possible AND for anyone in the vicinity to REVEL in it. Adore it. I am a free bl**der and don't attempt to contain it (unless in public).
Puppy training pads and those given by hospitals work well to preserve bedding and furniture.. carpet and so on. Disposable and washable, and come in a variety of materials.
Also, silicone or latex sheeting.

Trying to 'pretend' menstruation isn't happening for a partner/Domme/Mistress etc. to mostly not notice and or isn't bothered isn't something I'd participate within, however, discs and cups for when penetration isn't going on have been helpful.

[Ri****]

The menstrual disk if he's big can be a problem with spillage

[Be****]

7 minutes ago, RigelVenus said:

The menstrual disk if he's big can be a problem with spillage

Oh that's something I hadn't considered!

[ra****]

12 minutes ago, BeauJee66935 said:

Oh that's something I hadn't considered!

They’re not the easiest thing to get in the right place by yourself either 😅
I’ve been using them for years and it seems like they either get bumped into the right spot or get knocked totally out of place by his dick .

And forget about “just letting go” on a heavy day unless you’ve got some towels or blankets under and around you 😂

[no****]

I used to use the divacup and that worked well

[Deleted Member]

28 minutes ago, RigelVenus said:

The menstrual disk if he's big can be a problem with spillage

I wouldn't use a cup or disc WITH penetration from any *item* - that isn't conducive... they aren't I U Ds or diaphragms after all... 🤔 unless I'm unaware of an aspect?

[Deleted Member]

2 minutes ago, exploring2026 said:

I used to use the divacup and that worked well

DURING penetrative activities??

[Be****]

3 minutes ago, exploring2026 said:

I used to use the divacup and that worked well

During sex?

[no****]

Yup.

[no****]

If you put it in and get the suction then it’s a go.

[Deleted Member]

Apparently folks ARE wearing DISCs during pen. activities. Not MY personal jam (lewd pun intended.) Soft, slow, gentle = doable, but the kindnof raucous sexnanigans some get up to dictates this might be ill-advised at times.
Woo, learning and sharing!!

[no****]

We aren’t using it to makes sure we don’t get pregnant…that would be silly. It’s so she can still have sex without making a mess…

[jo****]

I have done this standing up or benched in the shower. Makes the mess just go away…

[fa****]

I'll recommend anal with clit stimulatiom

[Gi****]

Hey B.Jee, as a human I cringe(d) at the thought of playtime during the shedding, but as a sub, I find myself wanting to scratch that itch for her NO MATTER WHAT, and feel and know I'm honored... and the fact y'all have entered into [some kind of] agreement (congrats, btw)... if free use is a part of y'all's dynamic and play, then I'd assume he's already thought of, and is OK with, 100% free use... but yeah, always let him know when there's sharks in the water 😅

[sa****]

It's jus *** from a natural bodily process it washes off jus like anything else

[Be****]

5 minutes ago, GimpinAintEasy said:

Hey B.Jee, as a human I cringe(d) at the thought of playtime during the shedding, but as a sub, I find myself wanting to scratch that itch for her NO MATTER WHAT, and feel and know I'm honored... and the fact y'all have entered into [some kind of] agreement (congrats, btw)... if free use is a part of y'all's dynamic and play, then I'd assume he's already thought of, and is OK with, 100% free use... but yeah, always let him know when there's sharks in the water 😅

I love your comment!!!!! Sharks in the water 🤣 thank you Gimpin, you made my day!!!! 😘

[Deleted Member]

I have used a menstrual cup. The one I have is made to be used during sex so that nothing….spills out 😂 it’s really comfortable and the person with a penis only fills a soft stop(?). I really recommend it but if the persons you are with has a long penis you have to be aware that that will push the cup further inside and you will have to fish it to get it out 😂😅 (uncomfortable but doable) the brand is beppy

[BattyDearest]

Getting a blanket that's meant for splashes is excellent for containing menstruation. A mess will be had with period sex, there are wet wipes, towels, and showers for this reason.

But a lot can be done with clitoral stimulation without penetration. If you're not looking to make a mess. Clean up before, put in a new tampon. And you're usually good to go

[Gi****]

In other news.. lol... fr, you can buy leak-proof bedstuffs... it was psychological for me... not in the oral dept., but.... [I live for her enjoyment]

[Nu****]

To contain the mess I've used ice cubes several of them and then put giant cotton balls up there you just have to remember to take them out and count how many you put in LOL.