:1772038743,7002726, A big wooden paddle for such a bad girl is needed

For a 2 handed wooden paddle that goes across the entire ass... My record is 13 whomps! 😏

Hands cry at the sight of my ass! Many have fallen! Paddles are what's needed! 😏

It really depends. On the scene and the day.

I've been in a highly intense preplanned public impact scene that lasted no more than 10 minutes. But then there's been private scenes that are more sensual and go on for about 2 hours.

When wax is involved, more time is needed for clean up, wax Read more… removal and shower.

If it's a date night or a sleepover time varies. Sometimes we don't even do a full scene. We just do things here and there and then just fuck.

And on the flip I've had a Dom that I would go over there and it was 1-2 hours before he had other plans. So it was all about figuring out what the timing would be for how intense the scenes were.

If you go to a dungeon and do a public scene, they are typically limited to 20 mins no more than 40 minutes is about what people's attention span is. And you don't want to be using one thing all night when other people are there to play as well.

Timing also depends if you are including planning, set up, eating, clean up, debrief and aftercare or if that will be taken care of prior to and followed up the next day.

Getting a blanket that's meant for splashes is excellent for containing menstruation. A mess will be had with period sex, there are wet wipes, towels, and showers for this reason.

But a lot can be done with clitoral stimulation without penetration. If you're not looking to make a mess. Clean up Read more… before, put in a new tampon. And you're usually good to go

I think people only develop themselves if they already wanted to change. No one can make anybody develop who doesn't already want to.