Does it actually work?

[Mi****]

16 minutes ago, Lady_Char said:

I don't care if he looks like a god. If his opening message is gross, it's getting deleted.

Maybe I could’ve said it differently. I watch hot guys send lewd messages or just “Hey” and have a success rate much higher than my success rate when sending the same messages plus messages that are thought out, done with effort, and from a place of wanting to converse and get to know someone.

Their success rate isn’t 100% because there are women who will block and report. But their success rate is still much higher than guys who aren’t hot.

[vv****]

Toxic guys are really outing themselves on this post 👀

[By****]

I always try to be gentle and never send less messages but it doesn’t world too

[Jonathanboyd]

Not a toxic guy, just giving a first hand account called facts, no opinions.

[Ch****]

Personally, no. It's one reason I get so tired of these sites.

[Ar****]

36 minutes ago, MisterSatisfaction said:

Women = send whatever you want to guys

Women, please do NOT send "whatever you want" to me

 

Ffs 🤦‍♂️

[Go****]

3 minutes ago, Aranhis said:

Women, please do NOT send "whatever you want" to me

 

Ffs 🤦‍♂️

I won’t send you any chocolate or ice cream, don’t worry 😝

 

 

[Mi****]

I never start with a lewd messages. I’m trying to make an impression and I don’t want that to be anyone’s first impression of Me.

[sp****]

Definitely not a comment but if the profile suggests its kinky then id try

[ok****]

I block them. It's a good way to weed out the creeps.

[vv****]

7 minutes ago, MisterDafydd said:

I never start with a lewd messages. I’m trying to make an impression and I don’t want that to be anyone’s first impression of Me.

This is the way. ☝️

[Ar****]

9 minutes ago, GoodGirlBetterBrat said:

I won’t send you any chocolate or ice cream, don’t worry 😝

Well-played, I can offer only admiration and no comeback 😂

[Go****]

1 minute ago, Aranhis said:

Well-played, I can offer only admiration and no comeback 😂

Yeah but you can buy me ice cream next time I visit instead 😂

[gy****]

I like to start out with HI THERE SEXY LADY!! is that too offensive??

[fr****]

1 hour ago, callmeleo said:

I called out one guy and he said “I thought you were a slutty type of girl.” Like sluts deserve a good morning/hey how are you/whats up too

Like sluts DONT* deserve

[Mo****]

I am one of the women who does not like being approached with lewd messages. I even state on my page to speak to me with respect. I like intelligent conversation and to connect and get to know someone. I also can't stand when I get messages from men who have not read my page and are not what I'm looking for or men that have read my page and aren't what I'm looking for but think they will be the exception. I pass on them and move along. No respect? No messages? Not what I'm looking for? I won't give them the time of day.

[ne****]

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For any men who start out conversations with a lewd message, how often does that actually lead to a hookup online or irl? And why is that your first choice when approaching someone?

It rarely works out but I still send them anyways lol

[Deleted Member]

I hope people learn to respect boundaries and respond with a respectful and sincere message. You will have more success if you show interest other than your physical attributes. Be better!

[Au****]

I find it weird, I can send tons of messages asking about something in their bio. which is a common interest with no reply but a hey goddess or hey slut get way more responses.

[Deleted Member]

51 minutes ago, ChicagoSub90 said:

Personally, no. It's one reason I get so tired of these sites.

Could not agree with you more! People need to put the time in if they want to see the return. I support what you’re saying.

[Mo****]

A woman wants to know she is seen and seen as a human not just some sex doll or sex toy. I love sex and yes I love being slutty but that does not mean I want a guy to speak to me with respect. Show genuine interest in me as a person, another human being, I enjoy intellectual conversation and will show respect where respect is given.

[da****]

Yes it works because some women don’t take themselves as seriously as you do lol, I send lewd message, they send a lewd message back. We’re on a app to fuck, not have philosophical debates about how to approach women on a literal kink app

[pe****]

I keep it clean too later on you know if you decide to turn that way then I'll join in but sometimes the ads they put out there saying it themselves that's when I might say something to that effect in return

[No****]

I wouldn't know. But I guess it's the same as mentioned receiving a "Hello, how are you this fine day?" from fake profiles...

[No****]

*as men receiving...