After intimacy stay or leave ?

[lu****]

What do you prefer after intimacy stay for a while or leave after the performance ?

[8bitkilller]

Leave unless I really like the person.

[th****]

Stay for awhile so can have all night fun if yall agree. I love to embrace all night fun.

[sw****]

Stay because aftercare might be needed depending on how intense the session is.

[Deleted Member]

i need him to stay and cuddle me or if not and he leaves the sadness really hits me and i cry lots, but never in front of him.

[Ch****]

Cuddle!

[In****]

I really need the aftercare after the session, otherwise I'm in my feelings and not feeling very good

[Sa****]

Aftercare is essential after an intense session.

[Deleted Member]

Definitely stay for after care and all night cuddles till morning.

[Ar****]

There should not even be a question of this being a preference in a BDSM/kink setting.

[Sp****]

If I'm comfortable enough with the person I feel that aftercare , cuddling holding and being held is very important. My partner may or may not feel the same way and that's important to know as well. Some people jump out of bed and have to disconnect for a moment because the intensity is so great that it overwhelms them.

[Da****]

Gonna be honest with you here- you're kind of a scumbag if you think it's okay to just leave when you're done. Aftercare is EXTREMELY important after any session. It's not a matter of preference. It's a matter of whether or not you are a decent human being.

[ma****]

Stay to cuddle, talk, etc

[Deleted Member]

The fact you’ve even asked this question and referred to it as a ‘performance’ says all I need to know. Huge red flag 🚩

[Tr****]

I bounce because majority of men skip after care so I stead of dealing with that kinda disappointment I just go 9 times out 10 I didn't cum any way so I just go

[Sa****]

Cuddles is a requirement ,not a request for me sleeping with someone

[si****]

Two sides.

I overhear in public Women talking about men not cuddling. And yet some of my female friends who said to their female friends that men don't like to cuddle - , turn over and snore.

Important for me; all kinds of touch before - cuddles /snuggles, simple touches ( some not even related to sensual sexual intimacy), playful, teasing. And I want touch before. ( even when we will not be sexually involved that evening).

And touch after. I like to cuddle after before falling asleep. And wake up in the morning with cuddling - touch of any kind.

I get this sometimes. It is a such a full, fulfilling experience.

[wy****]

Some cuddling, talking and kissing afterwards… aftercare is sometimes a necessity.

[mi****]

Leave

[si****]

2 minutes ago, mizlina said:

Leave

Yes. I have heard Women who say they want the man to stay after they are satisfied with the act they wanted.

[xl****]

Depends on the person. Depends on the vibe. Depends greatly on the dynamic

[mo****]

Depends if it’s a one night stand or not. Q nighters I always preferred to leave after sex and sleep in my own bed. That was until the night I met my now husband. That was different. I never wanted to leave again.

[Cl****]

If it's 8bit I'm staying 😆

[si****]

Yesterday at 12:28 AM, simplemedicine said:

Yes. I have heard Women who say they want the man to stay after they are satisfied with the act they wanted.

My ADHD. I meant to say some don't want the sexual partner to stay

[Deleted Member]

Depends on the relationship between everyone after my man fucks a pretty chick I prefer her too stay