Av**** Posted February 27 In my experience it varies from person to person. Some like cuddling, some like lying down, some like to go for 2nd round. You need to ask the person what they would love to do at that moment.
CuriousRose Posted February 27 Not sure why you would want to. It should be something enjoyable. Have you asked her if it’s uncomfortable or anything like that? Women also have various types of orgasms
DAGDA Posted February 27 Confine her . I had a ex that would shake and flop like a fish out of water. Tied her down for her own safety. Without that it was all I could do the hold her down. Once for my pleasure I just watched her go. Even had a video of her .
ph**** Posted February 27 Only speaking from my experience here. The first time I fully orgasmed properly after I left my ex husband, I was shaking almost uncontrollably for a while. Once the visible shaking calmed, my skin vibrated for hours. That was the first time I had sex or fully orgasmed at all in 4 years, and I wasn’t accustomed to the feeling of that much pleasure at all anymore. Talk to her and find out what she needs from you as far as aftercare. I usually need to be held for a while, and then hydrate.
Ja**** Posted February 27 I get orgasms Just Standing around...PGAD is what i try to Check next...but Sounds like a different Problem...
sn**** Posted February 27 Personally, I ride that shaky rollercoaster until the very end. I won't get up to put my clothes back on or *** or get water or smoke until I've taken everything it had to give. Every veinous vibration every electric jolt every emotional upturn. So I love when my partner gets me water and protects that time for me.
pl**** Posted February 28 I always run thighs or back to move the tension, holding or hugging is always good. And affirmations. Always always affirmations.
DLoren Posted 57 minutes ago On 2/26/2026 at 12:53 PM, DottyNDave said: How can I help her relax and calm her when she orgasms Hi ! After talking with her, if you feel it's right and only you can feel it, keep going, don't let her calm down. Many people don't know this, but some women can have more than ten, even twenty, orgasms in a row. Make her climax until she's completely exhausted. Again, in your case, there's no question of trying to surprise her. Talk to her about it thoroughly beforehand.
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