Regular partners or new strangers

[ki****]

Do you feel like you enjoy kinks more with a regular partner or do you prefer discovering someone new?

[ra****]

Both regular partners get to know you and you have vibe whereas new people bring with them that learning curve new feelings and different energies…

[Deleted Member]

Frequent Friends are the sweetest spot for Me. Humans will always seek and enjoy novelty, it's part of our psychological makeup.
Familiarity, reliability, and security are just as appealing AT CERTAIN TIMES as newness and the unknown thrill, and these vary in degree, recognition, and frequency for every person, AND are also constantly in states of flux.

For Me, for current times, I prefer and would prefer more regular partners.

[pr****]

Honestly, someone new is very exciting. Always. But nothing beats learning your partners kinks and body and really developing that chemistry.

[ba****]

Better with a friend

[Cu****]

I've got A Regular...but always open!!

[Sq****]

Trust is required for how I operate and live this lifestyle. I'm aware the risk and thrill is appealing to some. That isn't for me. At all. Earning mutual trust is the majority of my vetting process.

[Lo****]

I suppose it depends on the kink. Something I might call more taboo or "weird" would feel less so with someone new as they don't already have preconceived ideas of what I'm into. Things that involve *** or blindfolds for example would be better with a trusted partner.

[Xplosivrob]

10000% a regular partner!
It takes time to properly learn ticks. One nighters just dont cut it.. its only surface deep and dont really carry much meaning.

I prefer the journey, rather than the pure INSTANT discovery. Its what makes it so much worthwhile- my opinion and no disrespect to those who prefer single konk dates

[jinxed]

Same attitude as Xplosivrob! I can see how the first kiss or first slap can be exciting with a new partner, because you don't know yet what to expect. Everything is brand new and a surprise! But... 

In my experience, it's after the initial excitement, when the more complex psychological and physical aspects of a dynamic start to show, that unconditional submission can grow bigger and bigger until every look, touch and word means something only we two understand. 

And the routines! Those beautiful procedures that are established automatically and then signal your brain that it's time to make yourself pretty / be well behaved / get excited / expect punishment.. For me, personally, that is heaven. 

 

[BlueGrace]

I will only enjoy my kinks with my Doms, never someone new. I have to have multiple prerequisites before having sex with anyone. I’ll never have sex outside my dynamic.