Popular Post ra**** Posted March 3 Popular Post Big time thought process as somebody that soaks beds… Do you think/know you squirt and or flood more when you feel relaxed and or safe? I find both to be ways I flood more. Like someone trying to get you to do it not the same as feeling comfortable with somebody. I was explaining to somebody that I don’t particularly CUM squirt flood the same amount when I’m by myself I’m not relaxed. I’m not out of my mind. I’m there and I’m functioning so I don’t CUM as hard. Is this the same for other people?
Ha**** Posted March 3 Truth of it is any woman who feels safe and protected by her partner and who can fully relax and enjoy the moment is always going to orgasm harder and better than the reverse situation
Bl**** Posted March 4 Also, what are we using to protect our beds? I am a using a mattress protector (because I don’t have a live in ) and so Im stripping everything and am scared to have sex without it. lol 😬 Do we have some better options?
ra**** Posted March 4 Author 15 minutes ago, BlondeReader1988 said: Also, what are we using to protect our beds? I am a using a mattress protector (because I don’t have a live in ) and so Im stripping everything and am scared to have sex without it. lol 😬 Do we have some better options? Decent question as a follow up question I had a friend that used dog pads these are easy to toss... There are also the hospital *** pads they can order that are more decorative a waterproof dog blanket. There are several options if you go online and look up kinky people that make waterproof bedding, and there are people out there. There are a lot of options out there.
Bl**** Posted March 4 2 minutes ago, rainbowcataclysm said: Decent question as a follow up question I had a friend that used dog pads these are easy to toss... There are also the hospital *** pads they can order that are more decorative a waterproof dog blanket. There are several options if you go online and look up kinky people that make waterproof bedding, and there are people out there. There are a lot of options out there. Ooh that’s a good idea and I’ll definitely look it up! Thank you!!
Ha**** Posted March 4 3 minutes ago, BlondeReader1988 said: Ooh that’s a good idea and I’ll definitely look it up! Thank you!! There are alot of people as op said that make full on water proof bedding sets you can also throw a plastic zipper bag over the mattress then it’s as simple as wipe away
Au**** Posted March 4 In Australia you can check out splash blankets, I have 3 in different sizes and they are fantastic
Hezzair Posted March 4 Two parter. I definitely squirt buckets more the more relaxed I am. I personally don't like the disposable chux pads they use in the hospital or the puppy pads bc 1) not environmentally friendly and 2) I cum so much it's not enough for me so I have washable ones made with bamboo. I have smaller ones that are the hospital size and then I have velvety ones that look like blankets that are *technically* pet blankets but they work great. I just toss them in the wash when I am done. Just have to remember to use scented detergent bc free and clear ones don't tend to get the job done on these.
ra**** Posted March 4 Author 7 minutes ago, Hezzair said: Two parter. I definitely squirt buckets more the more relaxed I am. I personally don't like the disposable chux pads they use in the hospital or the puppy pads bc 1) not environmentally friendly and 2) I cum so much it's not enough for me so I have washable ones made with bamboo. I have smaller ones that are the hospital size and then I have velvety ones that look like blankets that are *technically* pet blankets but they work great. I just toss them in the wash when I am done. Just have to remember to use scented detergent bc free and clear ones don't tend to get the job done on these. The hospitals used to have those reusable ones. I agree with you on puppy pads… but still a quick and easy option.
Ga**** Posted March 4 To me it’s fairly mechanical- but I’m not usually not relaxed. Volume depends on how hydrated I am and how many times I’ve already cummed. And on edging- the more I’ve edged the more I’ll cum. If it’s a 90 second thing with the wand, though, it’ll usually be decently manageable. If I’m going solo I’ll just choose to move to the bathtub, and if I’m with someone I’ll try and use the doggy pads- If I’m sitting, the mattress is lowered there by my butt, so the pads will just kinda work as bags, so if I pick them up correctly they will just hold the liquid. If it’s from penetration or g spot stimulation I’m fucked, yes. But I have the reusable doggy sheet, king size, and the mattress protector.
ve**** Posted March 4 I love this topic. Lol. My bed is always soaked. I have pads so my bed doesn’t get wet anymore. I have alot every single time. Alone, with partner, finger, cock, toy, it all produces alot. It used to embarrass me and I’ve tried hard to hold it in when I don’t want to, but the pressure and the contractions are so strong I can’t stop it. If I hang off my bed and wrap legs around partner, the bed frame, floor, bookshelf behind him all get soaked. G-spot, the other spot is close to my urethra, and anytime it’s clit stimulated and inner I def can’t hold in. I forgot what the question was. 😆 If you’re newer to it then not being relaxed will or can prevent it. Ik if I’m in my head it doesn’t happen until I’m being so stimulated brain goes blank. 😂
Ga**** Posted March 4 14 minutes ago, verynew_subgal said: I love this topic. Lol. My bed is always soaked. I have pads so my bed doesn’t get wet anymore. I have alot every single time. Alone, with partner, finger, cock, toy, it all produces alot. It used to embarrass me and I’ve tried hard to hold it in when I don’t want to, but the pressure and the contractions are so strong I can’t stop it. If I hang off my bed and wrap legs around partner, the bed frame, floor, bookshelf behind him all get soaked. G-spot, the other spot is close to my urethra, and anytime it’s clit stimulated and inner I def can’t hold in. I forgot what the question was. 😆 If you’re newer to it then not being relaxed will or can prevent it. Ik if I’m in my head it doesn’t happen until I’m being so stimulated brain goes blank. 😂 Hahaha, I can so relate! Way back when I was discovering it a guy had actually not known what it was and said “no, please refrain” (can imagine how that hookup ended) and it made me uncomfortable with squirting for a long time… that’s all gone now, I can’t stop it if I try 😂
Laura-4589 Posted March 4 Iv been embarrassed by it over the years, where I have held back and it physically hurts. My partner loves it so I have learnt to relax now and it just happens.
Sk**** Posted March 4 Yes I definitely release more when I’m relaxed ☺️ I feel like I’m edging when I’m alone and it p!sses me off and I get so frustrated it’s nothing like a man’s touch and care that just makes me melt literally
Sk**** Posted March 4 57 minutes ago, verynew_subgal said: I love this topic. Lol. My bed is always soaked. I have pads so my bed doesn’t get wet anymore. I have alot every single time. Alone, with partner, finger, cock, toy, it all produces alot. It used to embarrass me and I’ve tried hard to hold it in when I don’t want to, but the pressure and the contractions are so strong I can’t stop it. If I hang off my bed and wrap legs around partner, the bed frame, floor, bookshelf behind him all get soaked. G-spot, the other spot is close to my urethra, and anytime it’s clit stimulated and inner I def can’t hold in. I forgot what the question was. 😆 If you’re newer to it then not being relaxed will or can prevent it. Ik if I’m in my head it doesn’t happen until I’m being so stimulated brain goes blank. 😂 I feel the same 🤦🏾♀️ I love it
La**** Posted March 4 The orgasm definitely starts in the mind, that's for sure. As an oceanic queen myself, yeah the relaxed and safe state makes it easier.
Olliver Posted March 4 It’s interesting how many people think it’s different for men, but for me, safety is everything. If I don't feel relaxed or comfortable with a partner, I stay in 'functioning' mode. But when that trust is there, the physical release is on a whole different level—much more intense and 'flooding.' Relaxation is literally the key that unlocks that for me.
to**** Posted March 4 The other day I soaked my bed just using my new rabbit style vibe. I didnt even realize it was happening until I heard the splashing sounds and i couldnt stop so i just kept thrusting and splashing until I was laying there in a puddle, my sheets soaked thru 💦💦 and it was awesome! I haven't came like that in a long time...
ma**** Posted March 4 Its definitely a comfort level and combination of technique. I would say 90% of my partners have squirted and most of them have never done it before.
ra**** Posted March 4 Author 9 hours ago, verynew_subgal said: I love this topic. Lol. My bed is always soaked. I have pads so my bed doesn’t get wet anymore. I have alot every single time. Alone, with partner, finger, cock, toy, it all produces alot. It used to embarrass me and I’ve tried hard to hold it in when I don’t want to, but the pressure and the contractions are so strong I can’t stop it. If I hang off my bed and wrap legs around partner, the bed frame, floor, bookshelf behind him all get soaked. G-spot, the other spot is close to my urethra, and anytime it’s clit stimulated and inner I def can’t hold in. I forgot what the question was. 😆 If you’re newer to it then not being relaxed will or can prevent it. Ik if I’m in my head it doesn’t happen until I’m being so stimulated brain goes blank. 😂 That’s the part I’m trying to make clear to people they think that I can just squirt on my own while masturbating and thinking I mean I come, but when my mind goes blank, it’s like faucet failure. Personally, I would move my bookshelf though, or give it a cover of some sort.
jpb Posted March 13 March 4, verynew_subgal said: I love this topic. Lol. My bed is always soaked. I have pads so my bed doesn’t get wet anymore. I have alot every single time. Alone, with partner, finger, cock, toy, it all produces alot. It used to embarrass me and I’ve tried hard to hold it in when I don’t want to, but the pressure and the contractions are so strong I can’t stop it. If I hang off my bed and wrap legs around partner, the bed frame, floor, bookshelf behind him all get soaked. G-spot, the other spot is close to my urethra, and anytime it’s clit stimulated and inner I def can’t hold in. I forgot what the question was. 😆 If you’re newer to it then not being relaxed will or can prevent it. Ik if I’m in my head it doesn’t happen until I’m being so stimulated brain goes blank. 😂 when I was lucky to have a partner who soaked the bed I loved to sleep on the soaked side haha
Au**** Posted 4 hours ago They have special sheets for that, honestly worth the price tag. Also play with a partner involves complex emotions even if its swinging and there's no strings, granted I've had more than a few experiences of squirters and bed soaks the first night, and ruined sheets. Its also note worthy that being in the moment is sometimes hard to achieve, we tend to think too much and not give into the moment and being alone is easier for people to control self narrative in their mind, what turns them on, how to please and what what toy etc.
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