Why are many men into butt fingering (giving)?

[Chef4bea]

everything gets tighter, you can get to both side of the wall 🔥 also its been lookig at me for 20m so we either fighting or fucking in which case its helps loosen things up in case it goes that way no warm up is wild and why most people try it and dont like it ,

[wh****]

Hmm I think I have a few reasons.

[in****]

If you are talking about a man fingering a woman’s anus, it adds an extra layer of stimulation while she is vaginally stimulated, via toy(s), cock or being gone down on. Many women enjoy the stimulation. It can give her a bit of a taste of double penetration, and of course it can help prepare her for anal penetration. For some women who aren’t anally experienced, a positive experience with a finger or thumb can lead to their eventually wanting to try toys or a cock there.

[Deleted Member]

I do it if the feelings there that she may enjoy it but ask permission like we should do with everything.

[an****]

(Assumption) your topic is based on personal experience. Speaking for myself, there would have been some indication or want for the act. If not it would be mostly just repeated patterns or assumptions of what is wanted. Push your finger in you mouth, but make your tongue fill your whole mouth and not let your finger in, basically that.

[my****]

Growing up anal play was taboo. A girl a year older than me was said to have anal sex and it was talked about like it was the dirtiest thing you could do. That set my mind on fire and I’ve been chasing that “taboo” my entire life. The early 00s were particularly good for me as anal went mainstream. Though I’m not enjoying the current trend I’m seeing where anal is ending up on more and more limits lists. Fingers are an analogue for a cock so filling a girl, no matter the orifice is directly linked in my brain to wanting to push into every useable ring of pleasure.

[gy****]

I personally enjoy fingering my partners ass because she enjoys it and it could possibly lead to anal sex which we BOTH ABSOLUTELY LOVE

[sp****]

9 hours ago, denver31520 said:

I don't comprehend

obviously not

[lo****]

I used to be part of the wanting to give anal crowd but not so much anymore. Used to be something when I was young that I wanted to try after getting it and being shown how to do it properly(can’t just slam it in and expect good things to happen) the taboo of it wore off and I’d much rather just have sex instead unless the woman ask for it. To much work with the getting it ready to receive having to use lube going slow for a sec that I’d rather just fuck. A pussy is self lubing taste good and I can generally go as hard as I want to it without causing *** for her and you never have to worry about a shitty situation. For me it was the fact it was hard to get a woman to try it when I was young after I got it out of my system it’s something I rarely want to do anymore. Everyone has their own reason for liking things but for me I’m not a fan these days

[To****]

Thank goodness I'm not into that. I can't believe it's a thing now a days 🙃

[Ac****]

I try to please and ***k the person am intimate with, experimenting is part of the process, when doing doggystyle for example, it's easy to just try it out and see how they respond to it, most girls from my experience even if they don't like anal or even hate it, they still get a pleasure out of it, it's like the brain hates it but the body loves it. And that works perfectly in a dom play.

[hu****]

I love being tongue deep in an ass is that just me?

[to****]

Monday at 05:32 AM, denver31520 said:

I don't get why women try and finger men? I think it's super weird but hey to each his own. Or so they say. Lol I love to finger a woman in the ass but I also like to lick her ass too don't knock it till you've tried it. Lol Not just anyone tho she has to be hot and clean and down to try

Yeah man I don't get it too....and I don't get why men try finger women's bum some weird shi..so why you love it are you a weirdo ? It would be nice after you say all this to actually answer the first question

[Chef4bea]

lol going onto a site called Fet and kink shaming people is wild 😜, Different strokes for different folks , live n let live...you are aware where the male G spot is? imagine being so closed minded that you don't explore your own body cause of what society has conditioned you to belive ..To each their own

[to****]

Maybe this applies to me and to clear up the misunderstanding I know very well about the p spot....but I wasn't the one who did kink same here and called women weirdos......my previous answer was according to the logic of the person I replied...

[Chef4bea]

I didn't tag u or call any one out !! just found it funny and strange if its not your thing dont do it but calling people wierd about sexual preferences on a on a site called Fet is wierd in its self.

[to****]

You're right I assumed that because my answer without context might look different and be misunderstood and I agree with you.