What kink is huge for everyone else but just "fine" for you?

[Pr****]

What I can think that’s closest to me that’s similar, is I get less turned on seeing a naked male or female compared to when they have even a little bit of clothing on. Even more so for genitalia, I prefer women but I can’t get hard just looking at a pussy, asshole and dick. Throw some panties and bra on and boom I’m hard af. I’m starting to think my cross dressing kink is becoming a lot more of a fetish lol

[Ja****]

2 hours ago, laura90 said:

This all doesn't apply to me. I love hearing people's kinks. I love hearing the craziest fantasies and I almost never judge. Even though rarely some people troll and say things like "K*ll me" which of course is inteded to make me look like a criminal only because I am into BDSM. Plot twist: I am totally not interested in k*lling anyone, not even almost. I try all to prevent any major damage from happening. By now I know that I can enjoy a lot of things if I feel sympathy or even love for a sub. Example: I never was into this "living furniture" thing. Since I met someone that I developed feelings for, I suddenly think of this person being my furniture very often. It totally depends on a person and what vibes someone is giving me. If I love someone I feel excited about many things and my ideas explode. Right now, I am not much into petplay. I don't understand petplay fully - but if I really like someone I could enjoy walking him like a dog or something. For me everything that strengthens the bond is much more interesting than sexual arousal.

Glad I'm not the only one thinking this way.. I don't have a lot of experience in most non-vanilla areas of kink.. pet play, bondage, pegging/anal, feet, diapers, etc.. but so many areas feel in the 'meh' category.. even the ones I have done with someone close and really enjoyed..

It's like I have a few hard limits.. and everything else is negotiable, even easier to negotiate if my partner is all about it.

[Ma****]

Ropes don't interest me at all. Tried anal several times, no thanks, just not my thing. Feet, nope. Also, calling someone "daddy" is not for me.

[xR****]

On 8/4/2026 at 2:12 AM, MandMlooking said:

Ropes don't interest me at all. Tried anal several times, no thanks, just not my thing. Feet, nope. Also, calling someone "daddy" is not for me.

Daddy is odd to me. Like, that one I don't get at all. 😐 I find it kinda creepy, to be honest.

[Pr****]

I didn’t expect it when I got called daddy the two separate times I was. Started laughing cuz one was male one was female and both almost a decade older than me, then I got winded lol

[Re****]

When I hear Mommy the ***age years come haunting back. I just can't do it. I survived and am now just as proud of my kid as ever. Just not a place I can mentally go. Caregiving I get.

[Em****]

Diapers and *** are up there. Oh and hair cutting / shaving fetishes ??

[No****]

Swimgers . Theyre full of drama its a pass for me. Ive beenti many parties. Then became a unicorn then saw everyone for what it is. Pass pass

[co****]

Voice play 🤔🥱 does not shit for me in the least. But my voice does it for some reason 😈

[FE****]

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[Em****]

Oh and hotwifes…. Never heard an attractive mentally stable man love that fantasy

[Mi****]

19 hours ago, EmeraldShoreline said:

Diapers and *** are up there. Oh and hair cutting / shaving fetishes ??

The shaving one's mine so I'll defend it. It's not really about the shave. It's that she has to hold completely still and trust me with a blade, and I get to be that focused on her. Same way a surgeon holds a scalpel, steady hands, full attention. I do her legs, her "lady garden", all of it, and her whole job is to sit there and be taken care of.

Does it turn sexual sometimes? Sure. But that's not the point. The point is her being handled like something valuable. Diapers I can't help you with 😅, but this one makes sense once you see it

[Em****]

9 hours ago, MisterLove69 said:

The shaving one's mine so I'll defend it. It's not really about the shave. It's that she has to hold completely still and trust me with a blade, and I get to be that focused on her. Same way a surgeon holds a scalpel, steady hands, full attention. I do her legs, her "lady garden", all of it, and her whole job is to sit there and be taken care of.

Does it turn sexual sometimes? Sure. But that's not the point. The point is her being handled like something valuable. Diapers I can't help you with 😅, but this one makes sense once you see it

I was thinking more head shaving at least yours makes a little more sense lol

[El****]

Damn I shave my head every week 😆

[gr****]

Oudere dominante mannen of oudere meesteresen met hooge lange laarzen

[Ch****]

Mommy kink. Also the goth mommy thing. I like dressing alt but I'm the farthest thing from a mommy dom.

[Midnight_Channel]

Vaginal Sex. everyone acts like it's the best thing ever and it's fine i guess but honestly i could do without it other kinks can easily fill the gap.

[Ni****]

I agree with the foot fetish one. I’d never yuck someone’s yum but I don’t understand its mass appeal. I’ve definitely “fed” into it in the past if my partner(s) were into it, however, I don’t feel as if I’m missing out on anything. But like I said, I’m willing to indulge my partner(s) if need be.

[Ni****]

Furries is another one. 🤷🏽‍♀️ But to each their own.

[Te****]

I don't get the feet thing either. Seems more like a guy thing to me as well? I've never met a female foot fetishist, although I'm sure they exist. SO many guys with a foot fetish, though; even otherwise vanilla guys--like they have just one fetish/kink and it's that. It doesn't squick me, though, so I'll indulge it if a guy really loves it. I like seeing my lover happy. But he's going to have to wash his mouth/lips/tongue pretty damn well if he's planning on kissing me or going down on me after.

Never got food play either, really. Wine play and whipped cream I could do, maybe? Tentacle/dragon/monsterfucking isn't my cup of tea either. And a few others I won't mention because they are so popular and drama/wank-attracting that I'd just get yelled at. But to each their own.